Family & Relationships - 30 November 2006

after all the big fights we've managed to stay together through. after staying together through an abortion. after all the great amazing wonderful times that we had together. after all the times i've forgiven her. she can just say without wavering "i've lost all respect for you and i don't want to see you ever again period please stop calling" and then hangs up

why did she have to be so hurtful about it. she could've been a little bit more gentle with my feelings atleast.

WHY

2006-11-30 02:58:39 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the house is very dirty, dusty and moldy, especially in the bathroom (carpet as floor). Everytime I stay there I feel discusting and not clean, sometimes my face breaks out.
They expect us to stay there every time we visit.
We will get married in that town next year, which means we'll have to stay at their house for at least a week before the wedding. my face will break out again! I'll look horrible on the day of my wedding!
If I tell her, she'll be insulted, because she doesn't see the dirt.

how do I get out of staying at their house?

2006-11-30 02:57:42 · 32 answers · asked by Milka 2 in Family

What do you think...............

What’s Love………

What’s love people say how can I define it,Is it something I can capture, tune or maybe refine it.
What’s love people say when will I know its here, will it pull at your heartstrings or whisper in your ear.

What’s love people say is it something I can find,Can you see it coming and does it make you blind.
What’s love people say does it come for free Is there a hidden language that only lovers see.

What’s love people say does it make you want to die,Does it consume your every waking moment and make you want to cry.
What’s love people say does it wear out you poor heart.Does it make your breath catch ever so from the very start?

What’s love people say does it make you feel safe and calm.Do you want to hold onto it forever in your lovers palm
Then this is love that i'm feeling enjoy it love it the end!!

2006-11-30 02:56:30 · 22 answers · asked by Twinkle *little fairy* 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-30 02:56:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am an American woman interested in a citizen from your country.

2006-11-30 02:55:48 · 3 answers · asked by Sweetpea 1 in Friends

my gf is very fussy . she hates:
1.bowling,ice skatein,going out dinner n goin cinmas
im 18 n she is 16
she is really girly

2006-11-30 02:55:17 · 22 answers · asked by redz 1 in Singles & Dating

how can you tell if your bf is cheating on you?...common lies??

2006-11-30 02:54:45 · 14 answers · asked by chastity 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-30 02:54:03 · 16 answers · asked by William R 2 in Singles & Dating

Or do they? I'm courious.

2006-11-30 02:54:02 · 7 answers · asked by fe2bsho 3 in Singles & Dating

I am 38 yr old mother of 2 happily married to a wonderful guy but i have no friends. I have always struggled with my self esteem (paritally due to an undiganosed learning disability) my self steem was further battered when my now ex husband started hitting on the few female friends i did have (he is now married to one). so i left him and moved 150 miles away to a small town where unless you been here all your life you are an outsider. I have never had a best friend and dont know how to start to make friends i always feel so awkward and usually end up putting my foot in it. most of the time im ok but sometimes i wish i had some friends.
I dont want my lack of self confience to affect my daughter but i am scared that she is following my example.

2006-11-30 02:53:26 · 8 answers · asked by bodecia 2 in Friends

I have been married to my husband now for three years and i am so unhappy.He gives me anything i could want a new car every year, i live in a big house, and i can buy almost anything i want.I feel so lonley though he is never around he is always at work his pet name for me is kid or the kid wife!it makes me feel like i am being put down.I talked to him about how i felt and he brought me home a dog!I currently know own 3 dogs , a cat, and 4 horses. Any time i bring up how i feel he buys me something the last talk i had with him about how i felt he said why dont we have a baby!This years vacation he could not make so he sending me and my best friend instead.We never go out anymore and when we do its to further himself job wise by net working.I have family and friends that i emotionally compinsate with but i want a husband?Is it me?

2006-11-30 02:53:12 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend lives in a house by himself in a pretty bad area. At age 14 he got caught up in some pretty bad drug use and lived a very wild and crazy lifestyle that i am not okay with but i love him how do i trust him?

2006-11-30 02:52:34 · 10 answers · asked by skwealypuff 1 in Singles & Dating

God Bless and Be Safe:)

2006-11-30 02:52:32 · 6 answers · asked by Yeah it's me................ 2 in Singles & Dating

What do you do when you finally crack? I've given up. I've been put down for how I look for several years now and I just hate it. My mum herself would tell me to get outta the house and go lose some weight. People made fun of me cause of my weight. People say that I'm fugly. Last year, to put a stop to the whole thing, I lost weight. Lost 20 kilos. I'm 64 now. I look a lot better from before. This whole year, practically the whole year, I was complimented. Suddenly, because I didn't maintain, and I started junking again cause of exam stress I've put on about 5 kilos. People still say that Im fugly. There was a sudden change cause I lost weight and again? I've really had it. What do I do? I can't even turn to my friends, cause they say I look fine the way I am. Even my parents say I look good now. But still. I feel like an outcast in society even though I'm not as bad as others. But how come they can still fit in? What do I do? Help...

2006-11-30 02:52:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My classmate is angry at me because i don't listen to him,why should i listen to him! he's just taking advantage at me he always correct what should i do and when i ask him what page will we read and he always recall ''Find It Yourself!'' but when we correct our answers he always said that ''You're all wrong at your answer''
But im really right at my answer,and he said that ''He's Intelligent at everybody'' and when im studying Calculus that i copy on my Calculus Book it's not on our Official School Book i just buy it on the City and he always say that ''That's all wrong!'' But i just copied it on my own book and he said that ''He study Maths and He Got his Bachelor Degree on Maths'' What the Hell! he's still 11 years old and how can he got his bachelor degree when he's not still studying college! and i just said ''Yup!you're the man!'' but the Calculus that i study is the real Calculus.He's actually my seat mate but i can't just tell the teacher because he will blackmail me.
THANKS!

2006-11-30 02:52:06 · 3 answers · asked by DaRkAngeL XIII 3 in Friends

I just got out of a four year relationship that was on and off and we broke up because i found out that he was being sneeky and trying to hook up with my friends behind my back. So it was the end. I also went out of town for thanskgiving to visit my family and found that my best friend cousin is an alcoholic and she tried to fight me in a drunken rage and also informed me that she hooked up with my ex- and she "like it". So ever since me and my ex broke up i have been talking to this guy that is one of my roomates best friends. We have hangin out for awhile and he broght me home to meet the family and all and its been great. Well my roomate is jelous and wont let it happen anymore. So he broke up with me pretty much just so he wouldnt have to hear her ***** about it anymore. What do i do about all of this?

2006-11-30 02:52:05 · 7 answers · asked by PinkFloMo 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-30 02:51:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

You can buy love. You can´t get a chicken to look at you when you are broke or when they discover you´re broke.( I´m talking about love not sex ) Now you´re flashy and along come all these women. It´s a stupid frase "You can´t buy love" It´s not like someone is going to offer you a check to love him or her. We´ve all payed for love directly or indirectly.

2006-11-30 02:51:11 · 20 answers · asked by Loser Millionaire 3 in Singles & Dating

my gf is the biggest lier she said she would never cheat on me again but she lied it turns out she slept with my best friend and brother last night i asked her why she did it and she said it was becuz i have a little penis. wat should i do

2006-11-30 02:50:50 · 11 answers · asked by ready or not here it comes 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-30 02:50:41 · 3 answers · asked by Natasha O.C.:) 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-30 02:50:38 · 7 answers · asked by Mike N 1 in Singles & Dating

We have just split. This morning she told me that she slept with someone else last week. I'm 22 and no one has ever cheated on me before.
Can anyone offer any advice?
I wouldn't mind chatting to someone who I've never met before.

Serious answers only please.

2006-11-30 02:49:48 · 43 answers · asked by Sluugy 5 in Singles & Dating

don't think my teenager likes parents.how much time should be allowed for phone calls frm her friends.

2006-11-30 02:49:37 · 15 answers · asked by tina 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

He has a booger eating problem! He eats them morning, noon, and night, all the girls he tries to date catch him eating his snags and "poof" they split, Help me some one please... I can't seem to help him ditch his nasty habbit...what should i do?

2006-11-30 02:49:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I mean when gals reject, they simply move no. No big deal.

But when they truly meet the special gal, will they just pause and get serious to getting to know them or continue to flirt as normal?

2006-11-30 02:49:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is a girl that i love soo much,after following the directions from another question that i posted, i got the courage to ask here out!! She said ok. But then my friend saw here walking with a guy in school, he always stick to her, and i see them talking wih each other. What can i do? I am going out with her tommorow? How can i make her love me more?

2006-11-30 02:48:46 · 10 answers · asked by Dr.X 1 in Singles & Dating

i like him so so much and would love if we got together,he is quite shy thats why i wanna do it,i invited him already with mates to my party,he seemed like he really wanted to come but cant cus he cant get a lift down (we are 15) and text me that really sweetly,should i phone him and ask him out casually(i know where)? when? next week after my party? what day?

2006-11-30 02:47:32 · 4 answers · asked by *cutie with a bootie* 3 in Singles & Dating

at me and him going out

2006-11-30 02:47:15 · 4 answers · asked by Dana 2 in Singles & Dating

Im a guy iv been freinds with this girl since we wer really small like since she was 5 or 6.And we have 4 yrs age difference shes 14 and im 18.wer really good friends we flirt and stuff a lot and a few yrs back i fell in love with her i still love her and i really want to marry her when shes 18 or older i really care about her a lot im really keeping my distance and i respect her a lot coz of her age and stuff but i cant stop being in love.iv still not told her i love her and i cant get a chance to meet her coz iv moved far away like from india to uk. and i dont know if i can see her yet coz of some other problems work,studdy.i really want to tell her i love her as soon as i can.do u think shel understand if i tell her by phone.i have no other way.its either by phone or dont tell her for a few more yrs and if i do that she might get someone else.but shes a very honnest girl if she knows shel wait for me i trust her coz i know her.i know shes a lil young but im ready to wait.plz help me

2006-11-30 02:46:58 · 16 answers · asked by cool_n_sexy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Strange isn't it :=p

or they simply love guys who like to sweet talk?

2006-11-30 02:46:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating