Family & Relationships - 19 November 2006

For the past 3 years, I've been feeling lonely and sad all the time. My parents said when I was little, I use to be the positive one in the family. Now I'm either just really depressed or mad at someone. Please help me. I know I don't need a therapist but I once wanted to not live anymore..Once, but I still feel sad..What's wrong with me?!

2006-11-19 09:09:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My boyfriend is really amazing we havent even been going out for 3 months and hes already given me roses surprised me with a bunch of things and taken me a bunch of places im only 15 so i cant take him anywhere but i really wanna get him something special for christmas. i knwo hes somewhat of a geek hes really into computers x-box stuff like that but i dont know what to get him i wanna uby something for him and i only have a 30 dollars to do it

but i also wanna make him something really special i just dont know what to do can anyone help

2006-11-19 09:09:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

good idea or not? i saw the home address of a girlfriend of mine from 18 years ago. i'm kind of tempted to contact her to see how she is getting along after all this time and years gone by.

but i guess it could be constured in the wrong way & i'm not even sure if it is a good idea ???

what to do??

2006-11-19 09:08:51 · 17 answers · asked by andylefty 3 in Singles & Dating

my friend and i like the same guy and we know that we both like him but we said that we wouldnt be mad at eachother if he asks one of us out but she knows that ill be upset and i no that shell be upset but we wont tell eachother what should i do? help?!

2006-11-19 09:08:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Every friendship + reationaship i have ended up being manipulaqted by men either physically or emotionally. Even friendships have been messed up by sex. Ok it takes 2, but i dont like seeeing a mate who i have a real good laugh with turn into a well.....a sheep....loved up...wet........CHANGED!!!!! LOL....well im half laughing but serious at the same time ADVICE PLEASE!!!!!!!!

2006-11-19 09:08:00 · 4 answers · asked by cosmic_superbean13 1 in Friends

So my boyfriend got an x-box 2 days ago and ever since then I swear he has spent more than 15 hours playing it! I even walked out WITHOUT a shirt on and all he did was pause it and give me a kiss. Then went back to his game.. What the heck... Ok for guys.. I know that this is a new toy for him and so he wants to play with it a lot but when will it wear off so he can pay attention to me? Oh btw.. he is 21 (almost 22).

2006-11-19 09:07:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have recently met this guy in school but I hardly know him enough to know whether I like him yet. We do seem to have some physical chemistry though. Well, one day out of the blue, he asked me if someone was my boyfriend. I told him no but I didn't hint that I was single either. Since then, he doesn't really talk to me much. What does it mean?

2006-11-19 09:07:12 · 2 answers · asked by Marie 1 in Singles & Dating

I mean its not like I got to choose her for my mother..and believe me if only I had a choice! She acts as though every time I have a thought or feeling that differs from her own that I am doing her a great injustice and being ungrateful for the privilege of being her daughter. I have never been made to feel that I am allowed to have an opinion that differs from hers..and I am only just coming to grips with how that has screwed me up. We had a huge fight yesterday and I said that I thought we should stay away from each other for a while cause I was tired of upsetting her all the time. She said that was fine by her and that I could contact her "when you feel like talking to your mother"..like I'm the cause of our problems! I cant see a time when I ever will *want* to talk to her again. The only thing that will cause me to talk to her again is the feeling that I am duty bound to do so. But to do so is to disrespect my feelings and to make her appear like she is in the right. What to do?

2006-11-19 09:07:08 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My and my bf have been togther for 4 days and he alredy helf my hand(ok), hugged me(fine), danced with me(still ok) but then he started to make out with my neck(lol) and it made me very uncomfortable. I didnt want to hurt his feeling and tell him to stop but I really think its to soon. What can i do to make him back off a little?

2006-11-19 09:06:24 · 14 answers · asked by vballgurl_1 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-19 09:06:13 · 20 answers · asked by WONKEYTOES 1 in Singles & Dating

I met a guy and he told me that he was still leaving with his ex girlfriend and that they were still being intimate sometime. The problem is that he told me he wants to leave her and move on. He wants to get to know me.He said he find me very interesting. I am being very careful and i don't know if I should give it a try. I'm thinking maybe he wants to play me. But what if he was telling me the truth, after all he never hide his story. What would you do in a similar situation?

2006-11-19 09:06:04 · 9 answers · asked by exotica 2 in Singles & Dating

I've always felt like I couldn't get close to people (like my friends) and I tend to keep much to myself because I don't really trust anyone. It's been affecting me, because recently I get very depressed when I realize that I don't have anyone to talk to (like a best friend or a boyfriend). I know I'm not actually depressed, but what could possibly be wrong and how could I fix it?

2006-11-19 09:05:56 · 15 answers · asked by tinamillsx 1 in Friends

I just want to know if my husband will ever want to have a baby with me. He says he does not want another one since he has two from a previous marraige and so do I.

2006-11-19 09:05:46 · 6 answers · asked by Kym H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend s exgirl knows that he is now with another girl . I am with him 8 moths but he dont wont to put a picture with me on msn or do anything like this couse he says he dont want to hurt her . What do u think about this situation is it normal ??

2006-11-19 09:05:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

sat no problems, sunday could not get me out fast enough. I found that he was seeing someone on the side, 25 years younger. From his work. I am fit attractive, and in four years with him, never told hm no in the bedroom. He even told family we were broke up, I just wanot told. the minute i moved out, he wanted no contact. Not the man i know. I called and told him i was going to be in town, i wanted to come by for a few minutes. He said ok, then he hid his car and acted like he was not home He is mean to me, gets mad if i call. Like i have done something to him. I can t get [past my love for hiim. Four months now and i still break down. help

2006-11-19 09:04:38 · 11 answers · asked by ive4gtu 1 in Singles & Dating

I met a guy and we quickly became best friends, he was always there for me and i was there for him. He was my boyfriend's best friend and shortly after we split up, he told me he had feelings for me. I ignored it and stayed friends with him and got back together with my boyfriend. He was a charmer, and always flirty and suggestive but he tried to get my friend to leave her bf and cheated with her. She said no but then he moved in on my other friend and the same thing happened. I told him to end it, and he promised me he would and that he would change.But he continued to cheat and then she caught him with another girl and then he told her bf the truth, and he was torn(he is also my friend). Then when my friend had a go at him, he threatened to hit her, but said to me that he was going to change and become a better person now, and start treating girls with respect. I dont want to know but hes begging for forgiveness?

2006-11-19 09:04:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

and the outlet sparks,should I get a new outlet ?

2006-11-19 09:04:02 · 8 answers · asked by onelonevoice 5 in Singles & Dating

I am a home health nurse and take care of a 12 year old girl. I've been taking care of her for a year now and have grown close to the family. I'm trying to think of christmas gifts for the little girl, her 6 year old brother and the mother. Any suggestions. The little girl isn't active and is in bed most of the time so I need a gift that would be suited for her.

2006-11-19 09:03:49 · 13 answers · asked by Heart 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, lets say that your ex-spouses' new spouse, worked as a biochemist, at hopital that you had to use to have an important surgery. Do you have the right to ask for that person not to test your blood, because of conflict of intrest. And does the other have the right to upset by you asking that they not do it. Acting as though they would loose their job??

hope i got all that out clear enough..... THANKS ahead of time for everyones helpful answers, and thoughts!!!

2006-11-19 09:02:56 · 20 answers · asked by TamBam 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Please no sarcastic statements or jokes. This is a serious question.

2006-11-19 09:02:30 · 15 answers · asked by sunny4life 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Is there any websites for searching?any suggestions?

2006-11-19 09:02:23 · 3 answers · asked by The dude 5 in Singles & Dating

Ok I like this guy. He is everything I want in a guy, but he likes my friend who also likes him. Do I give up on it or should I keep pursuing him as a friend in hopes that this thing between them will blow over soon? If I do choose the latter how can I take our friendship from an acquiantance (saying hi, short conversations etc.) to a deeper level?

2006-11-19 09:02:20 · 3 answers · asked by BttrflyBeauty91 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-19 09:02:11 · 12 answers · asked by rache dave h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

have been chatting to a lad on line, who i met through yahoo answers, do i meet up with him? or do i just keep it as internet pals?

2006-11-19 09:01:42 · 17 answers · asked by redsticks34 3 in Singles & Dating

Is it me or is it him? Heres the thing, whenever we get into an argument, he will twist everything around...my words to make me look like the ***** and him the victim.
Just recently we (he) had a bunch of money come his way, we (he) spent most of it on stuff we didnt actually need, and before we got this money I told him he needed to pay the bills and pay people back (he said he would, and never eeally did) now today he is blaming me for making him spnd his money on these things (when I in fact was the one who told him to pay bills and people back) He is making me look like te bad guy and today he is very moody...since I cannot tell him waht to do with his money I couldnt force him to do the bills thing...now he is taking it out on me, and I dont know what to do or say to him, because he is being very snarky and moody to me.

2006-11-19 09:01:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok well i like this girl a lot i cant stop thinking about her.
well she likes me too and we talk a lot on the phone, in person, online, w/e.
but she was in a really badd relationship a year or so ago, where she cried a lot becuz the guy cheated on her a bunch of times and she tells me she doesnt want a boyfriend but i wanna take things further.

so ladies and gentlemen how do i handle this situation?

2006-11-19 09:01:24 · 12 answers · asked by jman 1 in Singles & Dating

that i lost my vergined to my new loving gf when she was figering me ? (yes i got a bf but he was not thier )

2006-11-19 09:01:21 · 7 answers · asked by Sexy C.C 1 in Singles & Dating

He is single, I am single and I really have been crushing on him.

2006-11-19 09:01:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have known this guy since i was 12 years old and he asked me out last week and everyone my age finds it weird that I'm dating an 18 year old. Is it weird?

2006-11-19 09:00:38 · 8 answers · asked by LoveBug 1 in Friends

okay so.. i have a few best friends. but eventually i think we will drift apart. i am shy when meeting new people.. how can i over come this? every time im in a little circle talking to people.. im the one who just stands there and listens. i dont know what to say. when im around some people i know what to say.. but around others its just akward. how can i just get over this little akward feeling and talk to anyone and everyone? i want to be friends w/ a lot of people. please help. i need new friends. thanks

2006-11-19 09:00:11 · 6 answers · asked by ashley y 2 in Friends