okay so.. i have a few best friends. but eventually i think we will drift apart. i am shy when meeting new people.. how can i over come this? every time im in a little circle talking to people.. im the one who just stands there and listens. i dont know what to say. when im around some people i know what to say.. but around others its just akward. how can i just get over this little akward feeling and talk to anyone and everyone? i want to be friends w/ a lot of people. please help. i need new friends. thanks
2006-11-19 09:00:11 · 6 answers · asked by ashley y 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
hey Kate F.:
how would being shy be trying to get attention?
2006-11-19 09:05:00 · update #1
I've been threw this, and i got over by challenging my self every day, try just a few things at first like saying hello to strangers(but be careful of wich strangers) then go further every day, like trying to strike a converstion with some one new, have things of interest ready(yeah you'll have to do some work) like games, politics, sports etc. and when you feel like the conversation is diying ask for and explination like on baseball ask for the rules. Becouse people like to talk...alot.
Any way, this is how i got over this, hope it helps, and dont be afraid, after all its just people, have fun!
2006-11-19 09:12:59 · answer #1 · answered by D angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont always be the shy one people might think that you are trying to get attension and thats why you dont have tons of friends
2006-11-19 17:02:56 · answer #2 · answered by Kate F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey im Erica Ill be your friend lol I need more friends too!
2006-11-19 17:07:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to trust yourself .be nice and outgoing .search on wikihow.com .it will help .I’ve tried that site.
2006-11-19 17:06:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
START ON WITH CHATTING.THEN GET TO KNOW MORE ABOUT THEM.IF YOU HAVE SIMILAR INTERESTS THEN SHARE THEM.
2006-11-19 17:02:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be friendly
2006-11-19 17:04:01 · answer #6 · answered by Sexy C.C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋