Family & Relationships - 19 November 2006

i have just started going out with this awsome guy who really likes me. i dont know what to talk about with him or how much i should be with him. i dont want to seem klingy or like im embarresed to be with him. i also dont want to be boreing b/c i never know what to say. should i sit with him on lunch breakes everyday or just stick to seeing him randomly in the halls. i could really use some advice, i dont want to screw up this relationship.

2006-11-19 09:33:22 · 3 answers · asked by DeeDee 1 in Singles & Dating

im looking for excellent quality but dont want to spend a fortune

2006-11-19 09:32:27 · 8 answers · asked by jinxylashes 1 in Weddings

I'm looking for serious answers here. Nothing along the lines of "duh" or "of course".

I'm just wondering, because I haven't been able to find a woman who thinks that it's important for a man to live his life with integrity. Most women that I know think that it's great when a man is unfaithful, lazy, verbally abusive, and dishonest in general. They view him as being a "bad boy" who has "edge" and is a "challenge".

On the other hand, a man who is confident, mentally and physically healthy, a community leader, intelligent, romantic, honest, and devoted to his wife and children, is seen as "boring" and "too nice".

Why is this? Do these women have low self-esteem and think that they don't deserve better . . . or, do men of integrity have to start being losers in order for women to appreciate them?

I look forward to your serious and well-thought-out answers.

2006-11-19 09:31:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

wat does that tell u,wat pops in ur head? does that tell u that they like u or wat? wats ur opion?

2006-11-19 09:30:58 · 4 answers · asked by eazybreezy103 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay I asked a question a little while ago on how to pick between 2 guys I have been dating for a while! I needed to know how to pick between the 2 before I lose them both! Most people told me make a list! So they question is:

Is that really the right way to pick a guy, going by the one that sounds best on a piece of paper?



If you don't know what I am trying to ask you can go back and look at the question I asked earlier!

2006-11-19 09:30:50 · 5 answers · asked by Holly Ann 4 in Singles & Dating

who i know is sort of his type but she's not "fun" and "spontaneous" (which he calls me). he wanted to keep seeing me as friends but i told him that i needed time apart till i've moved on completely too. we were in a serious relationship together so i don't think we'll ever completely get over eachother.but umm... i tried not seeing/talking to him for 5 days, and... i can't say that i miss him all that much. i've also met someone new online (who goes to my college and seems relatively normal). i can feel myself moving on, but... sometimes i wish me and my ex could really just be friends. but also i feel like if he had to leave to see his new girlfriend, i'd feel somewhat snubbed (even if i shouldn't). recently, after i stopped contact with him, he put an away message up that says "depression hurts". i'm pretty sure it has something to do with me cutting contact. the thing is, he JUST started a new relationship with a nice girl, so why's he depressed now? should i talk to him?

2006-11-19 09:30:43 · 7 answers · asked by l_brew0 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my hobbies are having a good time,playin basketball,,partying and much more.people tell ppl tell me i can sing too.Do i sound attractive

2006-11-19 09:29:55 · 19 answers · asked by advisitory 1 in Singles & Dating

Have an over active sex drive which is causing me a problem but fear going to a therapist or doctor as I don't think just talking about it will stop it.

2006-11-19 09:29:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does anyone have any opinions on this subject? Do you know and websites on polygamous relationships or do you know anyone who is in one? Please, any help will be greatly appreciated.

2006-11-19 09:28:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Sorry 2 keep reposting but i need a lot of ideas. I need some ideas for things to do with my little cousin. im 14 and shes 7. I am trying to find things that me and her would enjoy. It will be after thanksgiving if that helps with anything

2006-11-19 09:28:42 · 4 answers · asked by maniakmike79 1 in Family

My boyfriend snores. I can't sleep when he does. I've tried earplugs, a fan next to the bed, and even a sleep aid. It's horrible and keeps me up all night. We've been together one year and get along great otherwise! But I can't sleep with him when I'm at his house and so I sleep in the guest room. We're talking about moving in together, but how on earth are we ever going to live together if we can't even sleep together?

2006-11-19 09:28:23 · 7 answers · asked by Lisa C 1 in Singles & Dating

What would make you want to commit to her, marry her, and stay with her forever?

2006-11-19 09:28:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

during the summer my bestfriend and i went seperate ways. i got a boyfriend and so did she. she hates my boyfriend and i hate her's, my boyfriend hates her and her boyfriend hate me. what is most weird about this situation is that our boyfriends are bestfriends. this is the weirdest thing that has ever happended to me (i don't even see this kinda drama in movies) what should i do?

2006-11-19 09:27:47 · 4 answers · asked by SwEeTs!!! 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm costarican, I'm in costa rica right now and I'm married to an English guy. We have a four month old baby boy. my husband has been in cr for 18 months now. He's parents and bros came to visit last september but not for long. Now my husband says that he would like to go and stay in england for three to six months. He says he wants to work there and save some money and bring it here to set a business and try to get a house. But I'm just so sad about leaving even when I know that it's not permanent I'm sad. Am I being selfish??? I feel like I don't want to stay there for that long but I also feel that it's good and the right thing to do. I'm just so confused and it's so f****** hard for me to just go. What would you do if you were me???
Thanks for taking the time and answer my question. Have a nice thanksgiving day

2006-11-19 09:27:32 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really like this guy, and I don't know if he likes me though. In class when we have a group project together, He always sits beside me but he doesn't talk much to me outside of the classroom. He always stares at me but when he notices that I noticed, he turns away, but then I later see him watching me again. Does this mean he likes me or not? Please help! And if he doesn't like me, Tell me how to get him to like me!

2006-11-19 09:27:32 · 20 answers · asked by Becca 1 in Singles & Dating

what would you do

2006-11-19 09:27:13 · 14 answers · asked by lovey d 1 in Family

2006-11-19 09:26:49 · 18 answers · asked by docholliday262006 1 in Singles & Dating

I believe that christmas is basically based on a lot of paganism. For instance the day being based on the birth of the sun god (winter soltice) however, my family will be very upset if i don't come for christmas and celebrate with them. What should I do?

2006-11-19 09:26:11 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

since we live far away we would just stay friends. We talk every now and then. But now she starting acting all strange and I asked her whats up but she acted like she didnt know what I was talking about (by strange I mean trying to avoid talking to me and uniterested). I always keep her on her toes and I dont know why she would start to act like that. Could you please help?

2006-11-19 09:25:48 · 7 answers · asked by SlamC 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-19 09:25:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So I am 29 and gave up a nice job to help a friend start up his new company. Kind of a risk reward type of situation...the risk won. My folks want to send me money (1000 +). I am embarressed but grateful. What do I do with this (yeah rent, bills) but how do I tell them that I really appreciate this and am not asking for a hand out. I am really embarressed to get this money but I only have 65 bucks to my name- want to make it up to them. Please help me get an idea to make them feel like I am doing the right things in life even though I am dependant on this money. This is the first time I have ever needed this support.

2006-11-19 09:25:34 · 9 answers · asked by ÐIESEŁ ÐUB 6 in Family

I have a new boyfriend, he's a really responsible guy who does not want kids, so I was surprised when he put it inside me without a condom while we were having sex. He put it up against me and I told him it was a time of the month when I wouldn't get pregnant, so he put it in, but then after awhile he took it out and put a condom on. Does it mean he must really love me if he was willing to take that chance? He's not a young dumb guy or anything. Thanks!!

2006-11-19 09:25:24 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

pretty much all of us dates. but if u know that ur relationship will not last, why do u stay together? why do people date somebody they know they will not marry when they r of age? i think that its stupid to do that. to just be blind and stay with somebody they don't love.

2006-11-19 09:24:37 · 6 answers · asked by L 5 in Singles & Dating

Im in an abusive relationship, very controlling, i live in wisconsin and want to move to california. If i move with my baby will i get arrested? There is no court order in affect and we are not married. What if he was in jail or prison, he has 5 dui and is on probation?

2006-11-19 09:23:55 · 7 answers · asked by kandi n 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There is this guy that i use to like, but somehow he always ends up as my b/f. He has cheated on me and has called me names. So how do i try to avoid him? Where can i find someone who will treat me write and not like crap. He only talks to me when he feels like it and if his friends weren't around. I need a guy that will like to be around me and not ashamed of me. Help.

2006-11-19 09:23:47 · 6 answers · asked by Kat 2 in Singles & Dating

I've gotton too close to my female friend.I told her how I felt and we decided it wud be best to remain friends.We are so close that she didn't want to risk the friendship,our special bond.We are now on good terms as before my confession.

Said she can’t imagine me not being in\part of her life---this mean anything??

Stuff we do is:
Go to dinner\lunch together,drinks in the evening. We go on roadtrips together to the coast\countryside for walks, usually followed by dinner and its just the 2 of us.this happens regularly.We also flirt with each other and we’re in touch practically everyday etc

How do I make sure that we(I) don't get too close to her again???
I don't want to start acting odd or hurt her by a sudden change in behaviour.

Its difficult for me knowing we both fancy each other,but the friendship means more to her.

Anyone be in a similar position??

Advice....

2006-11-19 09:23:30 · 21 answers · asked by sircrazydude90 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

physically and personality wise, what do you see in a girl?

2006-11-19 09:23:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need tip on how to flirt. Got any?

2006-11-19 09:23:04 · 8 answers · asked by baby gurl 2 in Singles & Dating

I know it's a month away, but i don't wan to get stuck in the holiday rush. I was wondering what I should get my boyfriend for Christmas..Any ideas? and nothing too expensive or too big either.

2006-11-19 09:21:44 · 5 answers · asked by imyourzforever 1 in Singles & Dating

Ear? I just hope you like it.

2006-11-19 09:21:42 · 15 answers · asked by onelonevoice 5 in Singles & Dating