Family & Relationships - 19 November 2006

have one really big vein on his penis. also is it normal for a guy to have a brown line under the head???

2006-11-19 10:28:36 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My bf and i have on and off since freshmen year of highschool we met in middleschool but hated each other till the end of 8th grade. I will be turning 24 years old soon and i really want to get married and to start a family. It took months of convicing to get him to ask me to marry him. He does not believe in it his parents went through a nasty divorce.When we first started talking about wether we wanted kids or not he said no and i said yes i wanted kids then he said well maybe i have to think about it?I found out last week he had a vasectomy done last year and never told me.I feel heart broken i have always wanted kids and i have been getting the baby itch recently. Make matters worse he does not even seem into getting married says he just gave in to shut me up what do i do?

2006-11-19 10:28:10 · 15 answers · asked by Jessie L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-19 10:27:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well...I don't wanna sound desperate ,but I really want luv!I have such great qualities and I have a bunch of friends!I just don't get it...I really don't know how to get a guys attention either..I mean guys can't allways like chix w/big boobs and a skinny waist!(I am skinny but w/out big boobs..)

2006-11-19 10:26:32 · 8 answers · asked by AllyKat 1 in Singles & Dating

i am kinda shy. i have friends who are starting to drink at parties. anybody want to be like.. a daily mentor kinda thing for me? through email. help_ashley@yahoo.com
thanks

or you can answer on here:
what are some ways so make new friends? i feel like there is never anything to talk about to people! except my best best friends.

2006-11-19 10:26:26 · 6 answers · asked by here2help 2 in Friends

I am in Middle School. I gave had 2 bf's.
The 1st was an immiture jerk, who ignored me for 2 weeks, then dumped me by a vicious email.
But, b4 he dumped me he was so concearned about our 3 month "aniversary." (With this guy, it was a summer relationship, he was mr bros bff, and we saw each other 4 times, but talked on the phone fro 85 HOURS)
My new bf is PERFECT. We hold hands & hug. TTomorrow is our 1 month "aniversary". He is COUNTING the days.... I LOVE it. (The 1st, didn't even remember!)
I am a little worried about him being concearned. It is sweet, and I know he is a sweerheart and would never PURPOSLY hurt me like that, but should I be worried??
THANKS!!

2006-11-19 10:26:01 · 11 answers · asked by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

okay well im 13 and i feel depressed. i feel really lonely lately. i cant tell my parents cause they are always to busy, or we r constantilly gettin into fights(about being independant). wat should i do?i saw a counsellor but it didnt work. i keep all my feelings inside, and if i tell my mom, she doesnt really mention or ask about it again. i cant tell my friends cause it never really comes up in a conversation. please dont say that im to young to be feeling depressed

2006-11-19 10:25:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my girlfriend smokes i want her to stop what should i say

2006-11-19 10:24:09 · 1 answers · asked by i a g o w m j 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a fetish for tall guys (over 6'1" generally speaking...)

2006-11-19 10:23:56 · 27 answers · asked by Forte 1 in Singles & Dating

this boi just wants to get in my pants and then go wit me but i dont get down like dat ill go wit u den u can get in my pants but until den no......i really like this guy but what should i do me and my sister gone jap on him 2marrow but ill let yall know what happens .........i need help

2006-11-19 10:23:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my hubby married for 8 yrs with 2 kids. We have trouble with our marriage for 15 mos. Last yrs my hubby always on the computer play pokerparty until 7am. He didn't care about me and the kids. We always have a fight in the middle of the night. I asked him not to play pokerparty b/c i know that it will end our marriage.
But he never listen to me. And I checked his email and I found out that he thought about cheating on me early this yrs. I read some email that he wrote to other women. so now I don't have any feeling with him. So I told him that he could have other women out there but he have to promise to me that he will not get divorce until the kids is older. So we have an open marriage. But after I told him that He was online all the time search for women to have sex.
I just know that he will meet a lady on NOv 28 for a drink.
Do you think that he will have sex with her? If he still love me would he do that.

2006-11-19 10:23:04 · 15 answers · asked by prettysweetrite 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A man has a wife that he wants to divorce ,but since she just got an operation, he's waiting. His he an asshole if he is sleeping with other women before getting divorced. He cannot have sex with her because of what she s going true. So what do you think about it?

2006-11-19 10:22:28 · 10 answers · asked by exotica 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I confronted him he denied, of course,got sent to iraq for a year I waited, said he wanted to get married but treated me wrong , then said he was just checking out his options,loved me but wasnt in love with me. then said he just wants me to love him with all my heart , and i never trusted him gee wonder why lol. but when i play it out in my mind he says here we go again then turns around and goes to sleep on me . never really snuggles unless its trying to get intimate , got 2 girls with him 11 and 6 i thought he loved me was always there for me , now its like , get over it . also told me could of been with this option if he wasnt with me , says he felt it was fate, I said well you better take it then , may never come again , but says be quite i love you, but i sure dont feel it much anymore just heart ache and tears. that he doesnt even care. and He was so good to me before so iam just soo shocked and hurt,

2006-11-19 10:21:48 · 17 answers · asked by dontcha 2 in Marriage & Divorce

please explain

2006-11-19 10:19:44 · 20 answers · asked by lalask8 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-19 10:19:44 · 9 answers · asked by nltnlv 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-19 10:19:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Um ok so I just found out that my best friend in like the whole world has been doing crap with her 16 year old cousin forever. They've made out like 7 times and he's felt her up several times. And then I just found out he um.... fingered her a few months ago.... soi apparently shes a slut whenever her cousins around. And can't believe she'd do that wiht her COUSIN its sick

and anyway I just dont know what to do. She told me once they'd madeout once but she promised it wouldnt happen ever again... but he came to her house yesterday and they made out and he felt her up and tried to take her shirt off. And I alos know its illegal that he fingered her.... he could go to jail for it. I feel like someone needs to b told so that there apart and it won't happen cuz i'm worried one day she'll end up like pregnant by him and I don't want that to happen. She keeps telling me it wont hapep nagain and that she'd got in under control and that shes different now.... and I just dont know what 2

2006-11-19 10:17:37 · 23 answers · asked by Megan J 1 in Friends

How long do you usually do it for?

2006-11-19 10:17:11 · 28 answers · asked by linko9789 1 in Singles & Dating

that he wants to "hang out"?
Guys what do you REALLY mean when you tell an ex-girlfriend that you wanna "hang out"?
Especially if YOU dumped her?
After 8 months, I saw my ex- boyfriend at the univrersity campus that we both go to. He was REALLY happy to see me. After 5 or 10 minutes, he said he had to go , then he said "give me a shoutout and we can do something" , and I just looked at him, and he said "yeah we can see a movie together or anything you want", I just said bye and walked away. I wasn't that happy to see him cuz he was the one who dumped me. Was he just being nice when he said that or did he mean it? Guys when you see an ex do you say these sort of things or do you only say it to SOME exes?
What are some reasons as to why you would tell an ex-gf who YOU dumped, that she should contact you to "hang out"?

2006-11-19 10:16:00 · 12 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

but then he changes into a good person would you risk dating him

2006-11-19 10:15:54 · 27 answers · asked by Luis 4 in Singles & Dating

He is my boyfriend and i really need help!!!

2006-11-19 10:14:46 · 15 answers · asked by Rach 1 in Singles & Dating

He doesn't want anything to do with them. Every year we go there and it's a mess. All they do is fight with each other. My kids refuse to go with us anymore and my husband has decided that we should all just skip it and avoid the drama. My husband is the only normal one in the bunch (seriously), his family is full of domestic abusers, drug addicts, most of them are on welfare, the women have baby after baby with different men and then let the kids run wild, and they are just generally MESSED UP. I honestly don't know how my husband turned out normal, but he is amazing, and I am afraid that someday he will regret cutting off ties with them. I do get really tired of them screwing up their lives and then coming to us for money or whatever else they need...but still...they are his family....what would you do? (My husband loves my side of the family and fits in with them perfectly...it's just his that he no longer wants anything to do with.)

2006-11-19 10:14:33 · 23 answers · asked by redhairedgirl 5 in Family

I was wondering are the girls on my space for the hit?

2006-11-19 10:13:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am dating this guy...but I'm not allowed to...when I first went out with him...my parents made me break up with them...then we went out again...I broke up with him a second time on my own...anyway...I'm going out with him AGAIN...and he says that he loves me...loves...and I say it back because I don't want to hurt his feelings...he posted in one of his blogs that each time I break up with him...it hurts even more...I want to break up with him again...because he puts wayyy too much pressure on me...I just want to be myself around him...but I can't...sometimes I feel like I love him...but I know that I actually don't ...I don't want to hurt him again...but I don't want go out with him anymore...what do I do???

2006-11-19 10:13:29 · 17 answers · asked by Allie S 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been out of a friends with benefits relationship for 3 months now and I feel like I am just starting to get over it and think it was a good decision. I am 24 she is 35 with 3 kids. She also claims to suffer from bipolar disorder but many people at work claim she is attention seeking. With had a friends with benefits relationship for 1 year until she told me she was sleeping with other guys and I got jealous and I had more feelings for her....actually love feelings. I told her this but she said she was in love with a guy who had a girlfriend.

I have been through a period of thinking these past few months, "she was so lovely and kind". But now I am beginning to see how she hurt me and it was a dangerous situation.

The thing is I feel a bit guilty still for leaving her as I wanted to take care of her and see she was ok and we got on well as friends but feel selfish that I couldn't put the jealousy on the backburner.

Was it a good choice do you think?

2006-11-19 10:10:48 · 7 answers · asked by pole d 1 in Singles & Dating

She thinks that I am going to Hell because i do not stay in my race. I'm sorry, but if i am attracted to you, I will date you, regardless of your color. She told me the other day that she was going to find every reason she could to stop me from dating black men. I have 2 mixed kids, for goodness sake!! The thing is that I have to live with her. for financial reasons I canot move out on my own. How can i make her see that there are good and bad in every race?? I mean, I've already had a white boyfriend that cheated on me, and I don't know why that didn't convince her. Any ideas??

2006-11-19 10:10:15 · 11 answers · asked by trisha_r_c 3 in Singles & Dating

she is my neighbor so lives across the street. I am still deeply in love with her and she wants to be friends but i decided we couldnt be. So anyway, I am obsessed with her and I always want to know what she is doing and who she is with and I watch her window til she turns out the light so I know when she is sleeping. Its been 3 monthes since we broke up, is it wrong what I am doing? I just want to get over her and stop being so obsessed (or get back with her but i know that cant happen).

2006-11-19 10:09:37 · 20 answers · asked by im bringing sexy back 2 in Singles & Dating

I need help talking to this girl and i dont know what to say to her

2006-11-19 10:09:21 · 13 answers · asked by andrew b 1 in Singles & Dating

How did it happen?
What did it feel like?

2006-11-19 10:09:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-19 10:07:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating