Family & Relationships - 19 November 2006

Im in my mid 20's. My mom is currently being spiteful as she dosn't like the guy im dating. Im not going to go into it,but there is nothing wrong with my bf, she just simply dosn't like him and i refuse to go out with guys she trys to set me up with.
Anyway, because im dating this guy (she has done this with my ex's too), She purposely won't go shopping with me, watch tv with me or do anything together.
In general my mom (despite bf situations) always puts me down, compares me to other girls, praises my brother , never me. She will even tell her friends over the phone that im an idiot and never knows whats going on. Its so depressing. Im trying my best to ignore it. I can't just sit and talk with her.I confronted about how she is treating me and that we can do things together,but she refuses. Im trying my best to accept the way she is, but its so hard.Also all of my girlfriends have nice moms who do normal things and its like this is what i got stuck with. anyone else have similiar?

2006-11-19 10:51:04 · 3 answers · asked by hersheybar99 1 in Singles & Dating

im confused about my guy friend he was my ex boyfriends and he doesnt know that i used to like him when i hung out with him but he came to the park one time to help me and my ex look for his keys. and he grabed the back of my shirt and acted like he was going to cut it off of me. and then when i got my first car wich was a tsi eagle talon he and my ex got in the car and cody looked shocked. well i just found him on myspace and he said it has been 4 years since we saw each other last . and he sent me an email yesterday saying well thats good your having fun at college and the reason i asked was i didnt remeber you having that big of t*ts thats all but its maybe because you were clothed cause i sure whould of remebered a nice set. what did he mean by that?

2006-11-19 10:49:52 · 6 answers · asked by annamariecreed 1 in Friends

we went out before but we broke up.now he wants to go back out with me.should i say yes.

2006-11-19 10:48:52 · 15 answers · asked by sizfenny 2 in Singles & Dating

I see her every day in school, in dinner, afterschool and at parties and adore everything about her but i need this to stop ,as the amount of time loving her is making me sad is far outweighing the amount of times it makes me happy. What can i do to stop loving her?

2006-11-19 10:48:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-19 10:48:09 · 22 answers · asked by hello 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well i've been e-mailing my friend and I haven't recieved replies lately.It's because I caught her on her myspace cause on her look up it says when she logs in.She's on every day,so if she's on myspace she's on the intenet.I have a feeling that she's ignoring my e-mails and she doesn't care anymore.Should this be over?T_T

2006-11-19 10:47:43 · 8 answers · asked by Marstar824 1 in Friends

this isnt to be gross or anyhting like that just facts:

1) 94% of men lie about their penis size.
According to condom manufacturers, only 6% of
men use extra large condoms.
2) The average man is 5 inches long when erect
3) 80% of American men are circumsized. Even
though Pediatrics say it is not necessary.
4) No matter what all the ads say, nothing can
make your penis grow but time (most men reach
the end of their growth by the early 20's)
5) There is no correlation between penis size and
shoe size, hand size, or nose size.
6) Blue balls does exist! It's technically
called "prostatic congestion."
7) Only 16% of men shave their privates.

Some stuff on the ladies
------------------------------
1) Only 9% of women around the globe consider
themselves "attractive" (20% of British women
do).
43% of women use the term "natural", 24% say
they have "average" looks, 8% prefer the
term "feminine", 7% say they are "good looking",
and 7% say they are "cute", and finally only 2% of
women say they are "sexy".
2) An estimated 85% of women wear the wrong
size bra.
3) 60% of women have had breast implants.
4) 75% of women dont like oral sex
5) 95% of women shave their privates.

2006-11-19 10:47:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

it seems like every relationship i get into turns out bad, because i compare all of my boyfriends to my x. i cant seem to get over him, i loved him. What should i do to get over his memory???

2006-11-19 10:46:42 · 13 answers · asked by Steph 2 in Singles & Dating

visit a real web site that offered advise on dating mostly how to get over a heart break and start new what kinds of things would you want to see on it? I am starting a web site and looking for public input. thanks for all your help!

2006-11-19 10:44:18 · 14 answers · asked by buster 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-19 10:43:44 · 13 answers · asked by Cynthia M 1 in Weddings

2006-11-19 10:43:08 · 12 answers · asked by rinnie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok she's been in my boyfriend's buisness! say if i'm not there with him, she just starts talking to him and won't leave him alone! she used his cell phone for a long time and i know my bf has unlimited minutes, but he has a gf to go to!!! GEEZ! I HATE HER! what should i do! i want to kick her ***! BUT, i don't like want to get in trouble at school, OR get hurt! BUT GOD! I HATE HER! SHE JUST WON'T LEAVE HIM ALONE! and also i told my bf if she tries anything to him, tell her to 'back off i have a gf ( b*tch )' if u want to add that. i just need some good advice here! please! i can't stand her! I LOVE MY BOYFRIEND TO DEATH! *sigh* -___-

2006-11-19 10:40:51 · 6 answers · asked by u can call me Helena 1 in Singles & Dating

ok she's been in my boyfriend's buisness! say if i'm not there with him, she just starts talking to him and won't leave him alone! she used his cell phone for a long time and i know my bf has unlimited minutes, but he has a gf to go to!!! GEEZ! I HATE HER! what should i do! i want to kick her ***! BUT, i don't like want to get in trouble at school, OR get hurt! BUT GOD! I HATE HER! SHE JUST WON'T LEAVE HIM ALONE! and also i told my bf if she tries anything to him, tell her to 'back off i have a gf ( b*tch )' if u want to add that. i just need some good advice here! please! i can't stand her! I LOVE MY BOYFRIEND TO DEATH! *sigh* -___-

2006-11-19 10:40:36 · 8 answers · asked by u can call me Helena 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't see any good in my situation in my life.

I divorced my husband and he has custody of my child who lives in another state. My child is not doing well in school or emotionally or mentally. She needs help and says that she needs a friend and help with school.

I have started a new job that I can't stand. Each and every minute is terrible. There was no training provided and they have already asked me to work on Saturday when I just started on Monday. When I interviewed, they said there was work/ life balance.

I am living with my parents, but do not want to discuss my feelings with them. They say that I will have to sacrifice my life if I go back to live with my ex and child.

My ex constantly sends me mean and nasty e-mails.

My child was here for the summer with me. I promised her that I would come back and live with her, but decided not because I saw my ex being abusive and controlling again.

2006-11-19 10:40:13 · 13 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Marriage & Divorce

even if it is a 1 second kiss on the lips.

2006-11-19 10:40:09 · 14 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-19 10:38:20 · 10 answers · asked by bobby 1 in Singles & Dating

well umm i dont kno if im a emo or a cutter like i cut my self but i dont dress in all black all the time. i do wear kinda ocasonally wear black but not all though but i do cut myself so wat am i considered??? a cutter or a emo?

2006-11-19 10:37:13 · 11 answers · asked by *Living a {{ღяøM@N!Cღ}} Tragity* 5 in Singles & Dating

I just started dating after my divorce. What are some things that will help with the awkwardness when it comes to the girl wanting the physical part of the relationship to begin? Its been pretty difficult to get things "started" she throws every kind of hint out there but I continue to miss them. I don't want her to think I'm gay.

2006-11-19 10:35:25 · 3 answers · asked by Machiavelli 1 in Singles & Dating

I know it wouldn't be a huge deal for a man to date a younger woman, but how about an older woman dating a younger man (eight years)?
I may be misreading the signs, and he may actually think of me as a "big sister?" just curious.

2006-11-19 10:34:40 · 5 answers · asked by ms_n_flyte 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi there! Martin is definitely getting bored of me. i left all my family and friends to be with him in leeds. I lost both my parents when i was 16 due to cancer, i'm 24 now. He doesn't like me talking about my past (bullied at school)and family. We both enjoy sex, but he is only affectionate when he wants it. He watches alot of porn and emails a girl he went to school with. Now he wants a threesome, i'm not ready. He has already told me that i'm boring and pathtic He hardly taliks to me as he is either working or on the porn sites. I'm currently looking for a job in nursing. Is he just using me? I am depressed and upset. I find it hard to have fun. Wouldn't you if you had to deal with all my problems. would you be fed of me talking about the past?

2006-11-19 10:34:03 · 26 answers · asked by tessie 1 in Singles & Dating

I tried to satisfy my wife but ,that is it i am not sure at the time i did ask but mabe she got tired of me .So i'm moving on.

2006-11-19 10:34:03 · 14 answers · asked by Victorio 2 in Singles & Dating

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2006-11-19 10:34:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i am getting married in may next year and find bridal wear boring!, i love unusual things i like indian wedding dresses as a starting point! help any ideas

2006-11-19 10:33:43 · 11 answers · asked by redkarma 1 in Weddings

My brother, who we adopted, had been abused. Everyone in our family knows this and is careful to make sure we don't take him down the wrong path. Today I realized that my uncle hit him two or three times in the past TWO DAYS!! Then today he hit him for no reason while he was READING A BOOK! He just grabbed the book, took it, and whacked him in the eye, saying, "You don't deserve to be reading this." No-one was in the room but me (and I wasn't exactly in the room.)

What should I do? The poor kid is already scared of everything and everyone - I'm lucky if I can get four sentances in a day out of him.

HELP!

2006-11-19 10:33:41 · 11 answers · asked by I think... 6 in Family

I had one casual date w/ this guy. but it sort of turned into a hookup, which i wasnt excpecting. we made out, layed down on the couch, cuddled, then he put his hands inbetween my legs, i had to cross them to tell him no without sayin it! he put his hands on my butt and in my back pocket. we rented a movie so it was all dark and watnot. by the end of the night he talks of his commitment issues. the same night he tells me how much he enjoyed the date and really likes my body, & he wants to have sex really bad cuz i made him horny as hell! he is really good looking but i told him its not gonna work cuz I need commitment, its my virginity were talkin about! he said he lost his but not completely cuz he did ***?! but he went 4 20 minutes??! so he wasnts to "officially" loose it. but he still talks to me & somehow we end up talkin of sext. he thinks it will "entice a relationship between us" BUT I wana date him as it is! he says hes awful @ havin a gf!? we talked for 5 hrs online last night about all of this...I wana find someone else but every time I think of us havin sex I cant help but wana talk to him..he says things like, ‘u turn me on so much on friday, what am i gonna do?!’

2006-11-19 10:32:37 · 13 answers · asked by mysteryonetwothree 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-19 10:32:34 · 5 answers · asked by ajappe 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Whenever my Girlfriend is over and She makes a dirty She demands that i come and look at it! when i refuse it becomes a real problem, She became so angry this morning because i would not look at it that she squated right in the floor made a dirty and went home, leaving Me to clean up the poo! She is a Commercial Pilot and makes alot of dough, I dont know what to do? She just bought Me a new truck and paid cash for it!

2006-11-19 10:30:00 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok i love my mom but she is way to over protective. I'm 16 and she won't even let me go out on a date with a group! She keeps trying to tell me what she thinks is right for me and for my future. She wants me to grow up get married and have kids. Someday I want that but first i want to travel and see the world and live a little. I've tried explaining this to her but she doesn't want to listen or understand. Heck I've even tried to go to a therapist and try and work with her but she is so close minded. I want so badly for her to accept that i'm me and not someone she wants me to be.

2006-11-19 10:29:57 · 6 answers · asked by horsegal365 1 in Family

My husband says he's going through a mid life crisis. I have feelings he might have had an affair but can not prove it just yet. One day we talk he says he loves me then the next day he says he doesn't think he wants to be married anymore. He's swaying back and forth everyday. So at this time I feel like a legal seperation might give us both the time to decide what we want to do. But I have a problem, we have 2 cars and both cars are in my name (loan and title). He has one of the cars right now. But if I give him the car in a legal seperation I won't be doing the payments or insurance anymore. Problem is that his DL is suspended and won't be fixed untill he pays off over $5000 in fines and spends 30 days in jail (which he won't do). So if I give him the car and he has an accident will I be held liable? Even if I have a legal piece of paper saying he took full responsibility? He's offering to pay both car payments as long as I keep the insurance. What do I do? Where do I stand?

2006-11-19 10:29:37 · 7 answers · asked by icesweetp 1 in Marriage & Divorce

someday he may catch me!

2006-11-19 10:28:57 · 3 answers · asked by cait12350 2 in Singles & Dating