it seems like every relationship i get into turns out bad, because i compare all of my boyfriends to my x. i cant seem to get over him, i loved him. What should i do to get over his memory???
2006-11-19 10:46:42 · 13 answers · asked by Steph 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should just move on and get over him cuz he's moved on!!!
2006-11-19 10:49:44 · answer #1 · answered by Swapna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself this? Can I change time? No you cannot, In other words---Time does heal all wounds except the wounds of the Heart. Time cannot heal them only you can! How, Do it! It can be as simple as bushing your teeth. Let's compare. You turn the water on, get out your toothbrush, and put tooth paste on it. FOR Every action there is a reaction. Take him out of your thoughts, condition your brain not to think about him, each time he enters your thoughts stop it. Switch to something else. L-i-k-e NOW Stop thinking about "WHO" Think about a Horse, a cat, Mom's calling, Cool car just went by, what a pretty color that is, See only you can make this happen, so then do it!!! ...And get on with your life. Be Happy for you are not promised tomorrow...
2006-11-19 19:00:29 · answer #2 · answered by Vernon T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah you should just relize that it's over and prolly will never get bak to gether again by comparing every new guy to the old one well of course they wont stand up to the one you hold on a petastill and if you got one just like your ex it prolly wouldnt work out again just write him off and we're all afraind of getting are heart's broken and it uselly happens when it does you just need to relize its over that it's ok not the end of the world and plenty of fish in the sea of cousre you wont meet any of them if your sitting at home dreaming about wot could have been with a guy it didnt work out wiht anyways the time you shared opened your heart but it doesnt meen it only opened to just him you can share love wiht others try writing a goodbye letter and burning it
2006-11-19 18:54:08 · answer #3 · answered by <B> 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have to find a way to stop the comparing, or you will never have a relationship work out. no one likes to live in another mans shadow. so do what ever it takes to erase the ex
2006-11-19 18:50:31 · answer #4 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl dont let you boyfriend pay for the sorry fool you had before,forgive whatever your x did,and move on for you girl
i mean there could be a man out there who is really tryin to love you and you cant love him back because you sittin there thinkin about what your x did to you,girl you gotta let that stuff go,you cant fly with a bunch of stuff holdin you down girl
2006-11-19 19:09:16 · answer #5 · answered by Tydie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is leave it behind you and move on.I've had alot of bad relationships as well but keep looking theirs some one out there.But you have to stop talking about your past relationships with your new ones that kind of kills it.
2006-11-19 18:53:28 · answer #6 · answered by Casper77mc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just remember why yall broke up and all t he bad things that happen and you would not like ur ex. so much. STOP...really STOP comparing all those poor boys to your ex. they don't deserve it. and you will not be in any good relationship if you keep doing that.
2006-11-19 18:50:46 · answer #7 · answered by SwEeTs!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*Stop comparing him to your current b/fs
*Appreciate what the ones that you have now do 4 u emotionally..if nothing dont be with them...
*It is possible to love again...to get over him try "just being friends" with new ppl
*Remember if he still wanted to be with you/could HE WOULD..
2006-11-19 18:53:00 · answer #8 · answered by XxON3LOV3xX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats exactly how i feel about my ex! It will take time to mend a broken heart! Its been 6th months for me and im still not over my ex!
2006-11-19 18:51:38 · answer #9 · answered by Jmelia213 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a reason he is your x. Think about that and realize you don't want to repeat the same mistakes. Move on your X has.
2006-11-19 18:52:13 · answer #10 · answered by groundpilot43061 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to realize that each person is different and is far from being yr ex. read tips on dating and relationships to help you more on this site
2006-11-19 18:51:29 · answer #11 · answered by yummy _ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋