Family & Relationships - 19 November 2006

i just met him this year, (freshman year), and we clicked right away. we hang out in the morning pretty much every day before school. just recently, he told some of my friends that he likes me. he hasn't told me personally yet, but it's pretty obvious he does. i do NOT like him. i just cannot see myself having a relationship or anything with him, we're totally different people and i'm just not attracted to him. i actually like one of his friends. one of my friends told him that he "makes me sick." which i never said. so now he's kind of mad at me, and he's avoiding me. i've lost a good friend, and i don't know how to get him back. help? what's the best thing i should do in this situation?

2006-11-19 11:45:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been dating my gf for a few years now and we are sexually active and im pretty confident that we both love each other. however recently she's told me that she really likes another guy and fantasizes about having sex with him. i didnt mind at first thinking it would go away but instead it got worse. its gotten to the point where when we have sex all she can think about is him. she has even called out his name while we are having sex. i'm really confused about what to do. ive talked to her about it and she says she cant really control it, she is just very physically attracted to him. i dont want to lose her and i dont want her to start cheating on me or anything like that. what can i do?

2006-11-19 11:44:05 · 15 answers · asked by (Insert Name here) 1 in Singles & Dating

I got real emotional over the phone and cried and we were just talking about world affairs and war. She knows I'm a Marine and all but still I feel so dirty.

2006-11-19 11:43:07 · 23 answers · asked by Dhoni 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok so here's the deal. Him and I are both in highschool. He's two years older. He is Chinese. I am white. I really like him. He's really smart [5 APs and an Honors and straight A's] but he's not a nerd at all, he has lots of friends and he breakdances. He is single. He is the VP of the biggest community service club at school, which in pretty much 200 asians. Not that I care, but me and my best friends are the only whites in it. I talk to him online daily on myspace in messages and when he seems me he says hi and waves. He borrowed a cd from me last week nad gave it back. We've known each other for more than a month now. ETC ETC. Bottom line - do I have a chance with him? Do asian guys like white girls? Please respond thanks so much.

2006-11-19 11:41:57 · 15 answers · asked by Laura 2 in Singles & Dating

13-15 year old guyss?
okay this is my sisters account, not mine. would you date me?? heres my descriptioin:

5.1
90 pounds
brown thick hair straight not frissy
really really long eyelashes [natural]
kinda preppy
mostly sporty
i play lax, and track, xcountry, soccer, and snowboard
my fav colors are pink and lime green
imma totally flirty
my eyes change from green to brownish
anything else you wnat to know??

xox

2006-11-19 11:41:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my ex and i broke up in june or something and i forgot why. i miss him and i thought about him alot. last time i saw him was at the mall in august when i was with my other bf at the time. (we broke up 2 days later). he looked really cute though. i want to call him but im scared. should i call him or not!

2006-11-19 11:41:02 · 5 answers · asked by ♥la chica♥ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i'm engaged and will be getting married around next summer. me and my fiance have agreed that we each get one last fling with whoever we want, no questions asked as long as everything is protection. now i know you monogomy nuts are going to jump all over me with thier finger wagging and predictions of doom and gloom for our relationship. stuff it.

i think there are three people that i could get this to happen with.

1. a chubby girl that has had a long standing crush. i know for a fact it would just be a one nighterut, she will see this as her shot and will be hurt even if forwarned.

2. a hot *** freind, who will likely see it as a one night stand, but if she wanted to do it again i'd be so darn tempted to do it again.

3. an ex that is a marvel in bed, that i'd love to tag one last time, and know we both would be fine with never doing it again - but f there is one person that would be a slap in my fiance's face, it'd be her.

what do you guys think?

2006-11-19 11:40:42 · 12 answers · asked by w0t_b0t 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been broken up for 6 months now. It took me 3 of the months to finally get over him and stop being sad. Well, ive dated a few guys since then and he has dated a few girls. Lately, i miss him again. I dont know if I miss HIM or what I had with him. We were together for 2 years. I dont know what I should do. When we see each other at school we dont talk and i havent spoken to him in 6 months. Do you think he is just scared to talk to me? or has he just completely moved on?

2006-11-19 11:40:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

deal with rejection issues.

i want to meet someone, and allow myself to fall in love with her as much as she may fall in love with me.

but whenever i ask a girl an important question, e.g., for her email address or phone number...i'm nye on sh*t-scared incase she says no.

i always have visions of her saying no, and me just bursting into tears with feeling hurt.

2006-11-19 11:39:21 · 11 answers · asked by Brutal_Yet_Beautiful 2 in Singles & Dating

My bf of 2yr8mnths & I broke up about 6 mnths ago. After we broke up we still hung out & it stopped when he's told me some truths what he had done while we were still together. 2 things that really made me feel so angry, frustrated, betrayed & really hurt me a lot. 1 is that when we were just going out for a few months, we had a fight so he called a girl & she came over to his place and he told me that they only watched a movie..away from each other. 2 we were already more than a year & we had a fight and he emailed a girl asked her to hang out with him but didn't happen at all.I also found out about those two things after it happened while we were still in the relationship but what he had told me then was "no it's not true, it's my brother who did it". I somewhat believed him but our fights had increased.Finding the truth really HURT me a lot until now.I still see him sometime & he would say hi but I just ignore him &pretend like he's not there at all. should i 4give him? if so how?

2006-11-19 11:39:05 · 10 answers · asked by alwaysmile 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay almost everybody says that he likes me. But also, they say he is too shy to make the first move. They tell me to do it for him and Get a conversation started. What should I say? What should the move be? He likes Wrestling and soccer if this helps. What might he want me to talk about?

2006-11-19 11:38:09 · 5 answers · asked by Becca 1 in Singles & Dating

Cus mine sure is and I'm about to lose my mind.

2006-11-19 11:38:09 · 11 answers · asked by Kelli D 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-19 11:37:28 · 15 answers · asked by scook1988 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I are 10 years apart I am 37 and he is 27 we have been dating for over year and I always asked him if my age mattered and he said no we talked about marriage and he said he would marry me someday hes just not ready and he never takes me out in public and I have not met his parents or friends he just keeps saying he is not ready. He says hes gonna do things like move in with me and tell his parents I just feel so used but then again I really wanted to be with him and he tells me he loves me at least 10 times a day and he takes care of me when I need anything he gets it. But he just won't comit further I don't know what to do I want some who will take to dinner or a movie he does work alot and never feels like going anywhere the holidays are coming and my kids are gonna be with their dad and I am feeling depressed that I can't be apart of his. Any Ideas please feel free to be honest and open.

2006-11-19 11:36:46 · 6 answers · asked by yellowrose 1 in Singles & Dating

what would you do?

2006-11-19 11:36:40 · 5 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

What do you guys think?

2006-11-19 11:36:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

3 years ago when we started high school he started going out with this girl ashley, she was his dream girl cause she was very sexual like him. he had her stolen by one of his close friend, rebecca. they fought all thro 10th, they had each other jumped, talked behind their backs, spread rumors, ETC:. they didnt speak all throu 11th bcause she moved away. this year, 12th, she came back, and slowly started being friends again. this past friday i overheard him telling his best friend he had sex with her. i know my brother very well, he sleeps around a lot , but he never tells the world about it(just his 2 best friends), and he doesnt use them and treat them like like trash, he treats them as good friends....except he sleeps with them. anyways, my brother is still emotionally wounded from getting ashley stolen from him( he doesnt admitt it thou), and he is going to try to find closure by trying to date this girl. But i know for a fact she is like a guy, she uses them ONLY for sex, and is incapable of love. and i dont want my brother to get hurt, especially by this ****** who already hurt him once. so what can i do???? how could he sleep with her after all they been throu????

2006-11-19 11:35:53 · 7 answers · asked by Dark Angel 3 in Singles & Dating

today i was hanging out with the girl i like and she likes me but at the end when she sent to give me a hug i was musty from working out earlier so i leaned off the hug and she just walked away what the hecks gonna happen im so embarresed

2006-11-19 11:35:40 · 16 answers · asked by bill m 1 in Singles & Dating

i am about to turn 18 in less than two weeks... i would like to have some type of get together, but i dont have much money... any suggestions for what i could do?

2006-11-19 11:34:59 · 11 answers · asked by ==> 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My ex and I have seperated because she wants to have her independence but the pain is so severe right now, I loved her truly and I do not know how I can tell her so that she actually knows that I do. She feels that she has never been alone, but yet she always says that I treated her so nice, that I was one of the guys she would want to stay with, why would this all of a sudden happen?

2006-11-19 11:34:47 · 6 answers · asked by beastshapes 1 in Singles & Dating

recently i asked this boy in my class to go to prom with me. he told me that he didnt think that his father would let him go. i asked him why and he said that because his father was always pissed off at him. Bull Sh**! then i have him stay with me after school and we sit and talk and as normal i asked if he could walk me to my bus and hold my books. it was pouing rain and he agreed. then the next day he goes up to my best friend and crys telling her that i flirted with him. (mind you we've only been friends since 5th grade. ) would anyone concider this as flirting? and does anyone think that what he told me about the prom is bull sh**?

2006-11-19 11:34:03 · 8 answers · asked by The wise one 3 in Singles & Dating

I always seem to have trouble finding the good guys on online dating. The ones I always end up are mean, selfish, and a**holes. After how long you have been talking to them before you meet them? Should you wait for the guy to ask you? What are some good topics to talk about?

2006-11-19 11:32:51 · 10 answers · asked by Valerie 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-19 11:32:49 · 7 answers · asked by ? 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I mean, come on. It's just a piece of plastic and a few AA batteries. It's not like I'm REALLY cheating on him. Why did he buy it for me if he didn't want me to use it?

2006-11-19 11:32:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How can I impress a guy that I like?
I really like him alot and want to know if he likes me ??
But how can I impress him?
Any IdEaS

2006-11-19 11:31:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who has recently gotten pregnant by her best friend whom she is in love with. She did not mean for this to happen but now that it has, she is not sure what to do. He has a girlfriend who he claims to be in love with but my friend knows him and does not think that he really does love her. I am there for her but I need some advice to give to her to help her more.

2006-11-19 11:31:48 · 13 answers · asked by ILoveSimplePlan23 1 in Friends

there is this boy named morgan sever, i have been going out with him for 3 weeks and he says he "loves" me on the phone, but when we three way on the phone , all he wants to talk about is sex!! he makes me feel awkward, were only on 7th grade!!

2006-11-19 11:31:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

did u ever feel moody and confuse?
is it a low else esteem thing

2006-11-19 11:30:56 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love my fiance so much but her refuses to see the truth. He is leaving me and I have done nothing wrong. I hurt so bad....

2006-11-19 11:29:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hi, i have a "friend" who recently thought it was a good idea to bring up my past and throw it in my face, when she, at the same time has not had too good of a past herself. Sometimes the things she says is hypocritical but i know that we are imperfect, so i try to overlook those things sometimes. like one minute she will act christian, and the next minute she doesnt want to act christian. she contradicts alot of things she says and this bothers me. I dont know if i should drop her as a friend or if i should tell her whats bothering me. shes 25 years old!! and she made her parents think i MADE her do something bad. she is responsible for her OWN actions.. dont blame me! anyway, im thinkin about calin her this evening and i know shes gonna ask me why i havent talked to her in almost a month.. anyone got some good advice for me to say when i call her?? thanks

2006-11-19 11:29:09 · 12 answers · asked by Christina 2 in Friends