Family & Relationships - 19 November 2006

My partner of 15 year's and the farther of my two children have just walked out the door..Do you think we should of sat the kid's down tonight and told them the score. Because i do. Why has he left it to me to explain.?

2006-11-19 12:04:12 · 16 answers · asked by beverley 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, so if theres a girl and she invited you over to her house to study and you knew she liked you and her parents wound'nt be home and you don't have any classes with her would you go? What would you think? What would you do when you got there, would you try to make a move?

2006-11-19 12:03:45 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Met my husband when we were 9 he had just been transfered from another school and we declared ourselves boyfriend and girlfriend at 10 yes i now dumb but true.We went all the way through middleschool and highschool. I got pregnant senior year of highschool with our daughter Isabel we got married 3 months after she as born. We have been through so much including being a burden financially to both our parents we did go to college and working sometimes never seeing each other.He graduated a year and half ahead of me and i thought things were getting better i will graduate this year and we were seeing each other again and getting along well. Then last week he sat me down and said to me that he needs to be by himself and single!ending the conversation with him giving me the paper work!

2006-11-19 12:03:18 · 24 answers · asked by Cally M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been with him for 4 years and he never knows what he wants. I usually just get him the newest game system out. Like last year I got him a PS2. But I want to get him something I know he really wants with out having to ask him. What should I do?

2006-11-19 12:01:01 · 19 answers · asked by missadrian05 2 in Singles & Dating

okay this is my sis's account not mine but heres a ??

im an 8th grader i havent talked to the guy i like for a year but we started talking again this year. he like asks me ?'s
he squirts me with water during ss class
he talks to me a lot

okay i know its not a lot
but should i go for it??

2006-11-19 12:00:57 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like really like this guy, and we were like talking on the phone,about him eating me out when he cames over tonight, but i'm afriad of showing him my overweight goodies,its strange b/c i'm not fat, but i'm fat down there. i wish there was something i can do to improve it, can i get lipo down there, what do u think?

2006-11-19 12:00:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok this guy is only my friend...and he lives 2 states away. My friend introduced me to him online. Hes really nice and everything. But hes been getting really moody and not talking to me that much anymore. And hes been talking about just going away and not talking to anyone for weeks. And i read alot about suiside...and getting mad and avoiding ppl are one of the first signs...he hasnt given anything away yet....but we have been getting into fights alot (over ridiculos things) and i think he might b thinking about suicide. And i know alot about it...but im still not sure. so do u know any ideas of wat he might b thinking and (if it is suiside) how i can stop it? Please help! I really care about him!

2006-11-19 11:58:58 · 5 answers · asked by Christine L 2 in Friends

I am in my first relationship and things are going good. Then my best friemd comments that everyone breaks up with their first and that she is waiting for the day i call her crying. She is currently the third wheel now, and this is her first time ever being the third wheel. And she's being a royal pain in the butt. What to do?

2006-11-19 11:58:23 · 12 answers · asked by larapookiebear18 2 in Friends

I mean besides catching them standing as far from the toilet as possible to pee.. or like always touching it... And why are they so damned insecure about the size of it? Do or are any men past it or do they get beyond it at any point? any other things you can add to this that may be of humor or to help me or other gals to understand this male member fetish you all have?

2006-11-19 11:58:18 · 13 answers · asked by GirlWithQuestions 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-19 11:57:01 · 8 answers · asked by Rachel A 2 in Family

In the beginning, I always used to think she was just teasing when she made such allegations. But she just goes on and on, harping away about this crap. She doesn't get mad at me or raise her voice but, it's gotten to the point where it's not funny anymore. She even accuses me of having sexual relations with girls who are underage, something which makes me blow a gasket. My Russian tutor is 17 and I go to her house once a week for lessons, but her mother is usually there, and besides, I would never do something which was illegal and even such a suggestion could put me in danger.

...aside from this, our relationship is still in high gear (we still have sex and all). I just get fed-up with her baloney.

Are all women this jealous? And should I just dump this b--ch? After all, any girl who is that insecure and distrustful of her man could never possibly be happy in a marriage, since marriages are built on trust.

2006-11-19 11:56:13 · 18 answers · asked by Student 3 in Singles & Dating

In a custody battle, you have a father, who does not own a car but other thain that can prove he is a devoted and caring parent. Verses a mother who admitedly is anorexic, bulimic, has a habit of cutting herself, (in fact has carved the "F" word into her own leg.) She is currently living with her new boyfriend even though she is still married. Also through the advice of her attorny has not let the father see his child for over four months.

The father has two reliable witnesses that can vouge the fact that he is the better parent for the child and that the mother is more interested in her personal life thain that of the childs welbieng.

The father has no lawyer, the mother has highered an attorny, both parties criminal histories are quite minor and negligable.

There is no spousal abuse or child abuse from the father.

who wins?

2006-11-19 11:55:43 · 13 answers · asked by whatukno 2 in Marriage & Divorce

She is a very busy person. She works nights while I work days. When we do have sometime she just wants to get to it. This usually is fine but she wants no foreplay. She says there isn't time for it. The last time we had sex there was some bleeding that occured. I am pretty sure it is because she was not ready yet and got some friction from the condom. I do try to touch and rub her to get the juices flowing. She won't even let me go down on her or her on me. How can I get her to let me prepare her for pleasure? Serious answers only please.

2006-11-19 11:55:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My best friend likes this really hott guy and she has only said like a few things to on myspace him and is totally in love with him then he got a class switch and is in my class and sits next to me and we talk all the time and i like him now and i`m willing to tell him that i do while me friend won`t even be 12 inches away from him or say a single thing now that she likes him. What should i do? because i really like this guy!!

2006-11-19 11:55:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Doesn't matter if it's lame or not! What is it? and whats your success ratio?

2006-11-19 11:54:45 · 11 answers · asked by Shaide 2 in Singles & Dating

all the gus i no do i was just wandering if ALL guys did or if there might be an actually somewhat mature guy somewhere out there?

2006-11-19 11:53:52 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like this guy alot and he likes me i know it
the cute aim's and the hugs but im not sure if it will last sshould i go for it and go out with him or say no beacause it wont last

2006-11-19 11:52:30 · 3 answers · asked by sugerpiecutie 1 in Singles & Dating

I have bipolar and part of that is I react to emotional pain very strongly. I feel overwhelmed just now with things to do for Christmas etc and yesterday my husband brought a lot of stuff that had been in storage to our small apartment.
We went shopping for food and came back. I felt very stressed because of all the stuff to put away and the food that we had bought aswell as the dishes from the meal I had made the night before. My husband has a very physical job and so is tired a lot when he is at home. He wanted to take a nap and I needed to deal with the mess. I got mad at him and he left and hasn't come home or phoned me. I am hurt because he knows about my mental illness and I don't feel he is being very kind or understanding.

2006-11-19 11:52:21 · 17 answers · asked by JAM 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i am smart, petite, cute, 5'5 but i do not like to approach people because i figure if they wanted to talk to me they would, but hate rejection so i do not approach people

2006-11-19 11:51:38 · 7 answers · asked by big bone 1 in Singles & Dating

We are in agreement in what we want to do with our things and we have one child together and are in agreement with custody and visitation. I have read that you can have the divorce paperwork done online and then file it with your local court of course paying the filing fee. I was wondering if anyone else has done this and how it went and if you actually had to go to court.

2006-11-19 11:51:10 · 4 answers · asked by SHOP GIRL 3 in Marriage & Divorce

The family including his cousins have just been pissed at me because my husband has a life he works goes to college and is a great father to our beautiful twin girls.. his familys so messed up that last night i thought it would be nice to go out with a couple of family memebers.. how wrong that was! our DD was a aunt of my husbands who has recently spent time in the local BSU and was ripping bowls that night get this "ON HEAVY MEDS>> what a bunch of wierd o's-- I wanted to go I wanted my husband to feel that it wasn't a good situation especially having the girls on my mind ..what made it worse is he blew me off the hole night i asked him to get a cab he made excusses about leaving his cousins and them being mad at him.. I just don't think I'm a big priority we've been together for 3 years married one and I haven't had nearly any good experiences with his family.. the sad part though is I've tryed. especially keeping an open mind on their views in life.

2006-11-19 11:49:16 · 7 answers · asked by lotsofluv 1 in Family

ok, so ive found a girl i like.. and have liked her for 2 years .. and ive found out she liked me for 4years lol .. well we've finally started talking but only online (she found me through myspace lol!!) but .. i need to know .. is it wrong to ask her out .. from IMing .. im only 16 not like in my 20's + :D

2006-11-19 11:49:13 · 6 answers · asked by Need Your Help .. Need Mine? 1 in Singles & Dating

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2006-11-19 11:48:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

buys you stuff... but doesn't say "I love you."
What if he pays your rent.... but doesn't kiss you.
What if he talks to you about stuff, but doesn't care to meet your family or friends and doesn't want you to meet his.
What if he pays the bills... but doesn't touch you.
Says "no" all the time, but later does what you asked.
Is cold and removed, but doesn't want you to go.
What if you adore him and can't stand feeling like a fool for staying, but can't leave because you adore him.
And this goes on for years.
What would you do?

2006-11-19 11:48:09 · 19 answers · asked by Ade 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Like in the movies, when someone says they want to break-up for whatever reason, and the other person completely understands that nothing they do can change the other person's mind and the best thing to do is say goodbye and walk away on good terms?

Anyone ever experienced this kind of break-up? Or is your romantic life just a slideshow of angry, violent, tear-filled and heart-wrenching break-ups?

2006-11-19 11:48:02 · 5 answers · asked by I Am Legend 5 in Singles & Dating

can a guy gain emotions from sleeping in the bed with a girl and holding her till she sleeps?he was playing with my hair and my feet were freezing so he warmed them with his.He was such a gentlman and did not try anything.i was bitter about catching my ex of a few years cheating(they r mutual friends)he was and is uncomfortable with what happened between us that night becuase of the 'guy code',but i appreciate his comfort and not taking advantage of me while i was fragile and vulnerable.i still see him every so often at freinds parties and get togethers(we have mutual freinds)and ii can be awkward seeing him for i feel there is still somethingthere from that night he held me.Could he also have feelings from that night?i think i will always remember that night.

2006-11-19 11:48:01 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am right-handed. My g/f is left-handed (and left-footed). If there is one thing I can change about her physically, I would like her to be right-handed.

She draws, sews and does everything well with her left hand, except write. Her handwriting is very messy. She hardly uses her right hand. I wonder why? I think girls are more feminine when they are right-handed.

2006-11-19 11:47:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Do you think if there is a guy from another school and he is like 2 years older than me and i'm like wondering if they would also like me? He is really kind. I met him at church... watz ur opinion? i'm wondering he dresses like a gansta and i am like just simple...

2006-11-19 11:46:34 · 6 answers · asked by ♥♥Jabbawockeez♥♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

well it's this boy in my algerbra class and he is really cute and i really like him but i'm shy so should i ask him out?

2006-11-19 11:46:18 · 7 answers · asked by briana p 1 in Singles & Dating

Date a girl who was 5'1" or 5'11"?

2006-11-19 11:45:59 · 13 answers · asked by raaydizzle. 2 in Singles & Dating