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Ok this guy is only my friend...and he lives 2 states away. My friend introduced me to him online. Hes really nice and everything. But hes been getting really moody and not talking to me that much anymore. And hes been talking about just going away and not talking to anyone for weeks. And i read alot about suiside...and getting mad and avoiding ppl are one of the first signs...he hasnt given anything away yet....but we have been getting into fights alot (over ridiculos things) and i think he might b thinking about suicide. And i know alot about it...but im still not sure. so do u know any ideas of wat he might b thinking and (if it is suiside) how i can stop it? Please help! I really care about him!

2006-11-19 11:58:58 · 5 answers · asked by Christine L 2 in Family & Relationships Friends

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Goodness me girl, the man is head over heels in love with you! He's moody because of the conflict between possibly pressuring you and finding out you don't feel the same AND on the other hand never getting what he wants (you)

Decide what you want, then let him know. The friendship as it started is already over, you need to decide how you want things to continue.

2006-11-19 12:03:15 · answer #1 · answered by teef_au 6 · 0 0

You are way over your head, I would love to say we and you can help, but maybe you are getting too attached? By all means keep talking to him but suggest that he gets the help, not you force help on him. If he is suicidal the last thing he needs is the people he trusts to go and do stuff behind his back.

Maybe he is also confused - you met over a chat room (online) maybe he is bored?

2006-11-19 20:03:27 · answer #2 · answered by Chεεrs [uk] 7 · 0 0

If you have his phone number then try calling him or take a vacation away from your home town and go visit him for suprise

2006-11-19 20:01:32 · answer #3 · answered by KCO 1 · 0 0

2 words hunny attention seeking , you find true suicidal tendencies in people who don't talk about it believe Have seen this many times in a professional capacity,he sounds as though he has coping mechanism problems , give him a wide berth hunny he'll bring you down!!!!!!!!

2006-11-19 20:06:07 · answer #4 · answered by Andrew1968 5 · 0 1

ask if he needs to talk here is nothing u can do if he dont talk, just be there for him

2006-11-19 20:02:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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