Family & Relationships - 19 November 2006

I caught my soon to be husband hiding money, and the problem I have with this is, he earned it with a business I put my money into, did not tell me about it, and then when he needed money, he asked me for mine, because he did not want to pay for it, or he did not want me to know he had it and was saving it. I know he does not have any cash in his pocket, but we started a business together, with all my money, legally it is mine, and he agreed we would have a business account that is ours, but we only pay ourselves once a month which leaves him with no cash, but he has shelter and food cooked for him 3 times a day. I caught him and he called me a ton of names, this is the 2nd time I caught him in 1 week. Would you call names to someone you love, just because you are pissed, and you know you got caught.

2006-11-19 12:36:30 · 10 answers · asked by Tracy L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-19 12:36:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been together for 1.5 months it is very serious between us very soon also. yesterday at a party he accused me of flirting with a friend of mine that was just asking me how things were going we haven't seen each other in a while.He is always thinking i'm flirting or something like that. I was talking to his best friend and he told me that my boyfriend D has a difficult personality and i said yeah i know. His friend said I can see that you wear the pants and I said yeah ya know lol my BF threw some diced fruit at my face. he looked at me for a sec than ran. I was so embarrassed that i just left the party and he followed me home. He kept apologizing but i just wanted to get away from him cuz I was so upset. Then today he told one of my friends that i embarrassed him and I talk bad about him to make myself feel better, I am jealous, rude, mean and nasty but he was just claiming his love for me earlier that day. he is very lovie writing love notes and flowers all the time.what to do

2006-11-19 12:36:08 · 6 answers · asked by Mizz007 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-19 12:36:01 · 3 answers · asked by love_it_blonde 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

this boy that i love my friend is going to tell him she knowes who likes him and if he says somone else shell say some one else what r the possibiltys of him liking me and is that a good way to ask him thankz and no rude answer people are so mean because we come here to get advice not to get yelled at!

2006-11-19 12:35:35 · 12 answers · asked by lovelife24 2 in Singles & Dating

I just need to know so I can request a good slow dance song at a dance

2006-11-19 12:35:10 · 5 answers · asked by apbudge 1 in Singles & Dating

Many of you may think I'm a stalker after I tell this story, but just to let you guys know, I am alot different now and I am very ashamed of how I was back than. Im here to get the best advice possible.

It was 3 years ago when I was in high school. I was 17 years old and back than I was not that sociable at all and had hardly any friends. So my skills in communication wasn't up to par with most 17 year olds.

This took place in my gym class. I have notice this girl I found very cute and for some reason, attracted to her but I never had the guts to go up and talk to her and the first mistake I have made was just i kept looking at her, this is pretty normal at first when you have a crush on someone but if you keep doing it, it may eventually creep them out and scare them, so this was my first mistake. Although, she didn't seem to notice me doing that as much, maybe she did notice but choose to ignore me and a couple times I did see her whisper something to her friend when I looked at her.

Everyday I would look at her a couple times, figuring out how I can get a dialogue going with her but never had the guts. So one day, I told one of guys I talked to in my gym class about her, so one day, they called her over and I was kinda freaking out about that 0_0.

So she came by and one of guys said "Hey, do you have a boyfriend"? She said " No, why?" Than the guy said "Oh, are you looking for a boyfriend?" she said " No not really"

after that both of the dudes I talked to about her said "Sorry dude". Than I told the girl I had a crush on to "uhh, you can leave now, go go" she turned back and kinda gave me that laugh smile as though she found it a little funny.

So I don't know why the guys had to do that, I felt like it might of be ruined and maybe at that point I should of just let it go. But, I really liked her and I didn't want to give up just yet.

A few days later, I told my friend(the guy I talked to in p.e.) about her again, but only because the semester was over almost and I wanted to find out if she was going to be in p.e. in the 2nd semester. So I asked the my friend to go up and asked her for me because he talked to her a few times before and about me sometimes. She was across the gym so he went to the other side and talked to her for a little bit, when my friend came back she kept looking at me 0_0......

It was really really strange, its like my friend told her something about me and now she kept looking at me like she really liked me or something. I told my friend to tell her that I thought she was the most beautiful girl in that classroom. But than...the next day I RUINED IT!! I BLEW IT and I wish I can travel back in time and fixed what I have done! I have weirded or out and this is how..

The next day, she continued to look at me and I was really really nervous. In fact, everytime her and her friends got close me, it was not intentionally though, I would just walk away because I knew they were talking about me right behind my back, I heard her say "This guy said the he liked me" Than I walked away. and headed to where im suppose to sit down at. she continued to look at me, intill the p.e. class was over and than..thats where it all started to go downhill.

The next day I toughen up and I said to myself "Im going to talk to her this time" but....than...she stopped. She stopped looking at me and everything and a few times I tried to go up to her and talk to her but she would always walk away, sometimes during Lunch I would see her with her friends and I would wave to her, but got nothing in return..nothing..and eventually and I was shocked about this, she told the principal on me.

The principal told me that she didn't feel confortable with what I was doing, he said that needed to stop staring at her and stop trying to pursue her.

At this point I was confused on why she would do this.

And this is where I should of stopped, I should of gotten the message that she didn't like me anymore and I screwed up and only a fool would continue to pursue, but i've always been a fool and said to myself once more "I ain't giving up".

Here is my BIGGEST mistake of all. Although it could of been a thousand time worse and I could of done something terrible instead of doing something flat out creepy.

My next plan was a letter expression my feelings towards her, I was going to write her a love poem pretty much and it took me awhile to put it all together. The first part was an Apology for making her feel unconfortable. This is probably where I should of stopped in the letter if I were to write to her but I didn,t after that I went on on how special she was and how beautiful she is to me and how she makes me feel.

and guess what? I got in trouble with the principal again and guess what? he had the letter I gave her. What do you know. He told me it would best if I was pulled out of that class. The principal said it was nothing serious and he said he just wanted to help me forget about her and move on. I didn't get in trouble or anything thoughtout this whole incident.

and my friend told me that she read the letter I gave her to the whole classroom in one of her other classes.

It was pretty hard for me to move on but I did eventually and along the way, I've met new girls and new people and started to become more sociable as time went on. During the 3 years I have been in a few relationships.

and I've been using myspace for awhile now but than...just recently, I found her profile and to my surprise, she had a boyfriend and her boyfriend looked really familier to me. From that point on, all my feelings for her came back...after 3 years..it came back and of course I've always thought of her from time to time but now....I don't know what to do.

I told my buddies about it and one of them message her "Nothing related to me" saying "Hey I think I know your boyfriend" or something along those lines but she never replied to him, so....she won't talk to anybody she doesn't know and I'd doubt if I tried anything, she would freak out all over again.

I've feel pretty bad about it and I wish I can go back and fix it. I wish I can just explain myself to her. But messaging her sounds like a really bad idea.

But this is where I need help here, what should I do?? and what would happen if I tried to message her?? or do anything? and what would her reaction be if she saw my profile??


I don't blame her, I just wish I wasn't so stupid back than and everytime I look back on it, I get upset about it because I know maybe me and her could of been friends or more. I've made alot of mistakes and I have learned alot these past 3 years.

Other girls have rejected yea, but not because I was a creep, because they just didn't like me, one way or another but I never let that bug me, but for some reason, thinking about this girl really upsets me. And I just wish somehow I can show her that I am no longer that creepy person.

I know what your thinking "Why does it matter"?

I'll be honest, it doesn't matter, its just when I think back on it, it really gets to me and I wish I can't believe I did something so freaking stupid.

2006-11-19 12:34:59 · 5 answers · asked by DarkAaron 1 in Singles & Dating

mkay well i need some nicknames for me, my friends and my other friend. One of my friends,she has blond ehair, blue eyes, and her name is morgan.
another is carsen, she has brownish blondie hair, brown eyes and listens to like...punk-rock, rock, and that sorta stuff, and me naomi, i have brown hair brown eyes and im asian.

any nickanmes for those types of personality but any nicknames?

2006-11-19 12:34:17 · 8 answers · asked by nikki_t2 2 in Friends

i've never kicked a guy in the nuts. ever. i recently found out that my daughter has. we had a talk about when it's appropriate to do something like that, but sad as it is to say, i became a little jealous. even sadder, i though about how when i go out with my freinds, there are certain guys i could certainly do it to and nobody would blame me in the least (i'm a little chunky, so certain guys feel free to be crude and act like they're doing me a favor for beeing sleezy to me). its pathetic - but i'm tempted.

so my question is, for those of you that have done it, WHATS IT LIKE?

2006-11-19 12:33:46 · 8 answers · asked by carol h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-19 12:32:52 · 8 answers · asked by broctune 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Why do we relate love to our hearts when it's our brain that deals with emotions?

2006-11-19 12:32:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

why guys are scared to be in relationship with person with kids?
lets say me,? i am a hardworker, wonderfull mother, perfect friend, and just nice person, + very pritty. But as soon as i told them i have two kids they just runaway from me? Why?
i am not asking to take care of my kids, they have me and my ex-husband for taking care of them.....so why guys dont like that? all I ask is to Respect my kids, that is all.
Thanks.

2006-11-19 12:32:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

anything?? i cant drive n e where cuz im not old enough
plaease help...she does so much for our family and i want to give back

2006-11-19 12:31:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-11-19 12:30:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I am 18 years old and have been with my boyfriend for a year, she knew I wanted to be with him in Florida sooner or later, but I told her today and she flipped out on my telling my that I'm just going to play house, and end up getting pregnant, first of all I'm not that stupid, and second of all I plan to go down there get a job and go to college and make a life for ourselves, we are getting married in 2008 so I don't see what the big deal is, so now she's not talking to me and it hurts it really does, we live in the same house and it seems like we are on other planets. :(

2006-11-19 12:29:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I had been seeing this girl for about 4 weeks. She made it seem like she was only in to me. She wanted me around every day. Till she started handing around this one girl. Then she would ignore me when they went out. I didn’t trust her. Because the first time I meet her she invited me out to this other place. When I got there she was making out with another guy. Then she would make comments that made me not trust her. That happen twice. Then I blow up told her off. Then I called and try to get answers. Then more she ignored me the more I called and text. I let my emotions take the best of me. Now I feel bad. It’s been 5 weeks since the break up. I want to call her. Should I try to apologize? Or just let her go. She is with another guy already. She jumps from guy to another. She is a very dependent person. She drinks every day, she doesn’t have any ambition ,she demanded my 100% attention . Till she was out with her friends. I treated her like a queen till I couldn’t stand the uncertainties. But I miss her.

2006-11-19 12:28:52 · 12 answers · asked by bob 2 in Singles & Dating

i like a guy should i tell him

and how should i tell him

and what if he doesnt like me back what do i say


Please Help im confused

2006-11-19 12:28:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Years ago, my Father-in-law remarried, and his new wife refused to let him have anymore to do with "his" family because SHE wasn't welcomed into the family the way she thinks she should have been. Over the years, my hubby has tried to have contact with him, but SHE always stepped in and put a stop to it. Anyhow, we just found out 2 months ago, that she put him in a nursing home. We found out by "coincidence". She never notified his family at all. Well, today, hubby went to the nursing home, and signed his father out for a few hours to spend some time with him, and take him to dinner. His wife somehow found this out, and ordered the nursing home to have him returned IMMEDIATELY!! They tracked my hubby down, and told him to bring his father back. So he did. When he got back, they told him that SHE (his father's wife), has left STRICT orders, that he is not permitted to see his father again!! What would be the next step to take? What is my hubby's legal rights?? Can she do this???

2006-11-19 12:28:05 · 11 answers · asked by Jillybeanyweiney 3 in Family

ive been with him for over three years, and im fairly close to them but unfourtunatley i cant spend too much money .looking to spend somewhere around 50.00

2006-11-19 12:28:01 · 6 answers · asked by tiffany m 2 in Singles & Dating

do you tell her or keep thinking about that large breasted waitress that you saw a Chili's?

2006-11-19 12:27:56 · 10 answers · asked by Good S 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

me and my bf have bee together 6 years and have 2 beautiful kids i want o get married he doesnt i think after 6 years i deserve some commitment am i right or wrong

2006-11-19 12:24:57 · 8 answers · asked by corsababy001 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-19 12:24:44 · 11 answers · asked by trytoseeinside 1 in Singles & Dating

iv been staying at my bf's house alot so i came by my apt to get somemore clothes.my best friend wanted to see me so we met at my place my bf tagged along because he thought that he left his poker chips in my freezer ( dont ask how or why because i barly understand the things he does ) my friends & i were talking my bf wandered in my room then comes out yelling in italian.i asked him wats wrong he says he was playing with some siccors and accidently stabed my pillow then he started playing with my stapler and ended up stapling his thumb.my friend laughs and calls him a clumsy idiot.(wich is partly true) then he looks at her and says Quote " have i slept with you ? you seem to look like the type of person iv had a one night with.you look really familure have i had sex with you ?" end Quote.my friend starts cussing him out and my bf just has a smug look on his face.
how can i get them to make up i always ask her what she thinks,& she would be insulted if i stayed with him.

2006-11-19 12:24:25 · 8 answers · asked by me 1 in Singles & Dating

we have been together for 2.5 years and we have a baby on the way. all of a sudden he tells me he doesnt like kissing anymore. he likes little pecks but he doesnt like to french kiss anymore.. he use to love it...what happend?!?!?!

2006-11-19 12:24:16 · 13 answers · asked by KDUB100 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm terrified of penetration.My bf is pressuring me into having sex and he's right.We've been dating for about 6 months now and things are going very well.

2006-11-19 12:24:05 · 14 answers · asked by Shauna O 1 in Singles & Dating

He likes games and role play and has done alot, but myself have only had sex with one or the other on top...what should I do? I am embarrassed....

2006-11-19 12:23:34 · 15 answers · asked by dnlmndyr 1 in Marriage & Divorce

come one.. we all do it... fess up....

2006-11-19 12:23:01 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-19 12:22:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just got back with my high school sweetheart. He is in the Air force and left to Korea for a year. Should I wait for him? And is he really being faithful to me? I love him so much and miss him alot. What do I do?

2006-11-19 12:22:13 · 5 answers · asked by jenny21gon 2 in Singles & Dating

Is the myth of a woman's sexual peak happening in their late 20s real or not? How many women see an increase in sex drive during this time? Why I ask is becuase the last few months i have experienced an increase in my sexual drive. I am almost 28 and have always had a healthy sexual appetite but lately it seems insatible. Is this normal? What else could be causing it? I am also wanting to experiement and try new things that i never have before.

2006-11-19 12:22:12 · 15 answers · asked by jbenishmlt 4 in Singles & Dating