We have been together for 1.5 months it is very serious between us very soon also. yesterday at a party he accused me of flirting with a friend of mine that was just asking me how things were going we haven't seen each other in a while.He is always thinking i'm flirting or something like that. I was talking to his best friend and he told me that my boyfriend D has a difficult personality and i said yeah i know. His friend said I can see that you wear the pants and I said yeah ya know lol my BF threw some diced fruit at my face. he looked at me for a sec than ran. I was so embarrassed that i just left the party and he followed me home. He kept apologizing but i just wanted to get away from him cuz I was so upset. Then today he told one of my friends that i embarrassed him and I talk bad about him to make myself feel better, I am jealous, rude, mean and nasty but he was just claiming his love for me earlier that day. he is very lovie writing love notes and flowers all the time.what to do
2006-11-19 12:36:08 · 6 answers · asked by Mizz007 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You see the red flags right? Listen to his friends, watch some Lifetime movies, but more importantly you better listen to your subconcious. The more you ignore your subconcious, it will quit talking to you. <--Free will and all.
2006-11-19 12:42:16 · answer #1 · answered by backroadhome 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is how a controller acts - take heed and leave this one alone!
Some things to look for in a compatible mate:
1)His or her goals and aspirations align with your goals for the future?
2) You feel comfort in the presence of the individual rather than negative anxiety.
3) The majority of your time together is not spent in conflict.
4) He or she does not pressure you to do things that go against your moral judgement.
5) You’re able to resolve conflicts in a healthy manner without the other mate shutting down.
6) He or she doesn't embaress you in public or make unkind remarks about you in front of friends/family.
2006-11-19 20:54:44 · answer #2 · answered by jaimestar64cross 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ma drop the guy aight look, obviously hes not on your maturity level. in fact hes not even good enough for you...look if a man is mad enough to embarass you at a party, over something like that, hes obviously not ready for the mature realtionship. because you being able to associate with anyone you choose comes with that. either he deals with that, or deals with being alone. you shouldnt have to associate with only ppl he ants you too, cause sooner or later he's going to say he not comfortable with you talking to girls period. im know cause i used to be the same way, but thats life u know deal wit it.
2006-11-19 20:43:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUmp him. He is being a jerk. It sounds like he either wants you just for some tail or he doesn't think others will aprove. Just break up with him. You don't need that. If he really wants you, he'll chase you. Good luck.
Paperâ¥
2006-11-19 21:03:55 · answer #4 · answered by Paper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no offense but he doesnt sound that great. maybe you should tell him that you do not appriciate the way he treats you and if he doesnt try and change that you will leave him, if a guy did that to me i would totaly flip out. to me that is completely unaceptible and should just not be left forgotten.
2006-11-19 20:40:10 · answer #5 · answered by Brandi P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesn't sound too nice or he has some Issues...
2006-11-19 20:45:40 · answer #6 · answered by God 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋