I'm terrified of penetration.My bf is pressuring me into having sex and he's right.We've been dating for about 6 months now and things are going very well.
2006-11-19 12:24:05 · 14 answers · asked by Shauna O 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is NEVER right to pressure someone into having sex. And I PROMISE you that if you do this before you are ready you will NEVER feel comfortable with penetration. My ex-girlfriend had a horrible experience like that and was never really ever comfortable with sex. PLEASE don't do anything that makes you feel the slightest bit uncomfortable.
2006-11-19 12:27:15 · answer #1 · answered by It's Me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just cause you are afraid does not make you a weirdo. if you have decided to have sex because of the pressure that you are receiving from your bf, then you are about to make the biggest mistake of your life. are you sure that 6 month is enough time for you to be having sex with some one already? for all you know you are only beginning to know this guy.if you are terrified then you are not ready bot physically and mentally. don't rush into sex. let him wait.if he loves you then he will.
2006-11-19 12:29:11 · answer #2 · answered by mysticshabs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thank god for a normal girl. The only thing wrong is your boy friend. If your not ready that's fine. In fact its a good thing. It will keep you safe for a few more years. When the right guy comes along you will feel differently. O and not to scare you, but the first time usually hurts, and it will hurt like hell if your not into it and 100% sure you want it.
When your ready your ready. You should never feel pressured in such an important situation like this one.
2006-11-19 12:32:30 · answer #3 · answered by luffa202 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, your boyfriend is pressuring you? *sigh* Don't do anything you don't want to do. You are NOT weird! The first time you have sex you might be a little nervous, but not AFRAID! It should be special and you should feel safe. You shouldn't do it just because "things are going well." It's a big deal! And it's ok to be afraid - that's your body's way of telling you you're not ready yet. And that's NORMAL!! Take your time, it's your body and your choice.
2006-11-19 12:29:19 · answer #4 · answered by yellowbugchickoh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a very lovely young woman. He shouldn't even be considered your bf if he's pressuring you to do ANYTHING. I don't care if you two had been dating 6 YEARS. Don't lose your treasure just to please someone else because if you go through your years doing that then you wont get ANYWHERE. Be blessed.
2006-11-19 12:29:57 · answer #5 · answered by Just get it over with already!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie, you arent a weirdo, you have morals. you've been dating 6 months. just b/c he is pressuring you doesnt mean that you have to. your probably afraid b/c you arent totally sure that it is the right thing to do. if you arent totally sure than dont do it. if he truly loves you for you and is not just trying to get in your pants then he will respect that.
2006-11-19 12:30:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's scary, and it seems like it will change everything. I lost mine six months in, but it wasnt as bad as i thought. Its not cool that hes pressuring you though.
2006-11-19 12:28:39 · answer #7 · answered by good golly! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is NOT right! If you aren't ready, you wait until you are and don't let anyone tell you differently...ESPECIALLY not if they are pressuring you.
If he is the one you are to give your virginity to, he will wait an understand.
2006-11-19 12:29:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your not ready then you wont like it eaither way.... if your boyfriend loved you he would respect the fact that you are NOT READY to give up your virginity. 6 months dating isnt that long eaither,
2006-11-19 22:23:03 · answer #9 · answered by Kittie_Nash 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont give in to him! if you dont want to have sex and he is pressuring you then thats not very respectful of him is it? if he really cared he would respect you. God bless ;)
2006-11-19 12:27:20 · answer #10 · answered by Lfeata 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋