what do you do when you cant orgams unless you think of someone other than your wife?

Question

do you tell her or keep thinking about that large breasted waitress that you saw a Chili's?

orgasm- you know what i mean

Answer 1

you sound like a jerk, she probably thinking about alot of thing when a creep like you are making something with her, like when is the hell will this be over, i wonder what i should where to work tomorrow, i hope the grocery store is real crowned when i get there, what time is my hair and nail appointment, i should have azz hole take my car in for a check up, is it time for the kids next check up, and last of all i think i just take a little nap because this s... is really boring.

Answer 2

If you are fantasizing about other women in the bedroom than it's time to spice things up. If your wife is willing, ask her to dress up like a sexy waitress and do a little role playing. You'd be surprised how much it might turn you on. Matters in the bedroom don't have to be the same old, same old. Let your wife know that you want to do something different. Use compliments about how the outfit would show off her features and give a little "mystery" to her. Who knows? She might go for it.

Answer 3

Tell me something Good S,What would you do if your wife told you that you no longer excite her enough where she can reach orgasm .I think about that guy down the street you no the one that walks around without a shirt on. I think about him in side of me and I start to orgasm that second. What would you do if your wife said this to you.

Answer 4

We think of other men, don't be so hard on yourselfs. Antonio Banderas (spelling) Hot hot hot.. anyhow usually I think of guys that I've had crushes on, or guys that I've seen in mags. If you really want to change from thinking of others to thinking of her vis versa, get yousrelf playing more games and start MORE foreplay.. even if its just Grinding.. which is really a turn on when your on top of her and you "Grind" yourself into her with most clothes on and talk dirty nice stuff.. anyhow.. if thats not your thang try Roleplay, Sexy Outfits (not just for her), sexy toys, and sex vids (remember girls like em too, just secretly and not the ones with just big tittied bimbo's try get some fun ones where there is actually something of a storyline.) Also if she loves your sex, she'll make a better attempt to make yours a better experience. When you have the same ol.. it's just boring to her and she has alot more fun with herself in the shower or when your not home. Thank you! and have a better sex life!

Answer 5

Good gosh almighty son,DO NOT LET THE CAT OUT OF THE BAG!!!!!! We all do it so if ya rat us out you have have to move to the Artic and become a hermit. Reason why is all us guys won't come up there after ya for letin' the cat out of the bag,so to speak. Besides how do you know she ain't doing the same thing with the checkout guy at 7-11

Answer 6

DON'T TELL HER, for goodness sake! Just keep thinking of the mammary endowed waitress and have a good time. You will be doing both of you of favor. And hey, don't think that she hasn't thought of that tight butt college student who lives down the block! :) There is never any harm in "thinking".

Answer 7

I say go f@#k the big boobed waitress oh and leave your wife

Answer 8

I think about someone other than my wofe but telling her would be suicidal or lead to a divorce

Answer 9

Think of me, but don't tell her.

Answer 10

I..............................................................................................

think of someone other than my wife

hell no, dont tell her
do you wanna raise hell
WTF is the matter wit you