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I caught my soon to be husband hiding money, and the problem I have with this is, he earned it with a business I put my money into, did not tell me about it, and then when he needed money, he asked me for mine, because he did not want to pay for it, or he did not want me to know he had it and was saving it. I know he does not have any cash in his pocket, but we started a business together, with all my money, legally it is mine, and he agreed we would have a business account that is ours, but we only pay ourselves once a month which leaves him with no cash, but he has shelter and food cooked for him 3 times a day. I caught him and he called me a ton of names, this is the 2nd time I caught him in 1 week. Would you call names to someone you love, just because you are pissed, and you know you got caught.

2006-11-19 12:36:30 · 10 answers · asked by Tracy L 1 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

10 answers

Break it off. Make clear it's over the name-calling, and the money sneaking games. NOW, NOW is the time to end this, not after you're a few grand down, and then need a divorce lawyer to extricate you from your bad move.

You know this is true. Do the right thing.

2006-11-19 12:39:38 · answer #1 · answered by martino 5 · 0 0

I don't and never have called my wife any bad names not out of anger or for any reason sounds like you need to talk to him and give him a chance to explain him self or just kick him to the curd as he sounds like he does not respect you also if he is hiding money he could have someone else on the side

2006-11-19 12:41:07 · answer #2 · answered by The gr8t alien 5 · 0 0

nicely extra suggestion than only the question could succeed. a million) substitute into she having a sexual relationship with this married guy? 2) How did you discover out related to the relationship? 3) have been your spouse and you married on the time, or substitute into this in the past your marriage? If the respond to a million is "sure" and the respond to 3 is "We have been married" then the respond on your question is: You break up. If she's no longer sorry for what she did, then she is going to do it lower back. Kick her butt out, and salvage something of your existence.

2016-11-25 20:27:22 · answer #3 · answered by ciprian 4 · 0 0

Sorry Dear, but if he has already cheated with money, I wouldn't trust him with anything else. Yes, we may say some names about you (not too horrible, of course) but I have never in 20 years hidden any money or anything from my wife, except maybe my nail clippers which she might use for some strange purpose and not put back where she found them.

2006-11-19 12:42:44 · answer #4 · answered by griffinpilot1965 3 · 1 0

Not to her face, I usually keep a cool head and wait till we both calm down before talking.

2006-11-19 12:39:04 · answer #5 · answered by rjsr40 3 · 0 0

im only 18 and ive never been married, but the day i disrespect the woman i fall in love with, is the day i get help from a professional you know. you never disrepect the one who brings joys into your life. period.

2006-11-19 12:45:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

We all use name calling when we are upset at someone or thing.It's just anger that makes us do it.Most of us apologize after we calm down,some don't think they have to,some won't.

2006-11-19 12:41:04 · answer #7 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0 0

My husband never calls me names when he is mad. If he even calls me a name when we are joking around he apologises.

2006-11-19 12:46:21 · answer #8 · answered by caitlinerika 3 · 0 0

Just about everyone calls their spouse names when they get angry it isn't mean to hurt your feelings. You both need to sit down and have a serious talk about the money issue.

2006-11-19 12:40:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 2

Never have,never will.

2006-11-19 15:49:00 · answer #10 · answered by Willnotlietoyou 5 · 0 0

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