iv been staying at my bf's house alot so i came by my apt to get somemore clothes.my best friend wanted to see me so we met at my place my bf tagged along because he thought that he left his poker chips in my freezer ( dont ask how or why because i barly understand the things he does ) my friends & i were talking my bf wandered in my room then comes out yelling in italian.i asked him wats wrong he says he was playing with some siccors and accidently stabed my pillow then he started playing with my stapler and ended up stapling his thumb.my friend laughs and calls him a clumsy idiot.(wich is partly true) then he looks at her and says Quote " have i slept with you ? you seem to look like the type of person iv had a one night with.you look really familure have i had sex with you ?" end Quote.my friend starts cussing him out and my bf just has a smug look on his face.
how can i get them to make up i always ask her what she thinks,& she would be insulted if i stayed with him.
2006-11-19 12:24:25 · 8 answers · asked by me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In time this to shall pass. You seem to be a caring person so I'm going to give some advice. Go and have a look in the mirror. I'm being honest. See that person looking back? Ask that person is she happy! You should make more time to make yourself happy and here's how. Some times immaturity needs time to grow up and you should not put extra worry on yourself when them two need to mature some more.
2006-11-19 12:34:02 · answer #1 · answered by Vernon T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A very wise person told me once that "You never get a second chance to make a first impression" Dont even try to persuade them, just let time and familiarity convince them on thier own, good luck.
2006-11-19 20:27:53 · answer #2 · answered by Cpn Ron 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...that's easy. Break up with him now. He's scary, freaky, and mean. He deliberately said something mean and provocative to your best friend, just to get a rise from her. If he treats your friends badly, he will ultimately treat you badly. Plus, he's engaging in self-destructive behavior, which you can get drawn into, will never be able to help.
Run. Run now.
2006-11-19 20:28:57 · answer #3 · answered by Qwyrx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't...she was probably hoping he was too drunk that night and wouldn't remember her ever again---moral of the story, never underestimate the inibreation tolereance of carnal romping and forgetfullness...
2006-11-19 20:29:12 · answer #4 · answered by bs49ers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe they have slept together..but um you cant get someone to like somenoe else..thats a rpoblme they have to resolve on their own..you might tell both of them how you feel and maybe they can try and make up..
2006-11-19 20:28:25 · answer #5 · answered by sinful vampyra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have to admit thats ****** up with what he said to you like that. your best bet is to ask them if they're willing to chill, no grudges bared. and if she says its okay, and he does, its all well, if not, and it gets to him or her....id use the old school advice. stick to the one who's been there and will always be there for you.
2006-11-19 20:28:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant change a first impression. just as you cant change the weather....he probably did sleep with her.
2006-11-19 20:27:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you never will.
2006-11-19 20:25:47 · answer #8 · answered by jenny21gon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋