I had been seeing this girl for about 4 weeks. She made it seem like she was only in to me. She wanted me around every day. Till she started handing around this one girl. Then she would ignore me when they went out. I didn’t trust her. Because the first time I meet her she invited me out to this other place. When I got there she was making out with another guy. Then she would make comments that made me not trust her. That happen twice. Then I blow up told her off. Then I called and try to get answers. Then more she ignored me the more I called and text. I let my emotions take the best of me. Now I feel bad. It’s been 5 weeks since the break up. I want to call her. Should I try to apologize? Or just let her go. She is with another guy already. She jumps from guy to another. She is a very dependent person. She drinks every day, she doesn’t have any ambition ,she demanded my 100% attention . Till she was out with her friends. I treated her like a queen till I couldn’t stand the uncertainties. But I miss her.
2006-11-19 12:28:52 · 12 answers · asked by bob 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's over and you need to face it. She's with somebody else, she cheated on you, and no matter what you say or do she won't come back.
And you shouldn't want her to. She's got you in a fine knot if you feel guilty for her affair. You don't owe her an apology and she obviously isn't going to give you one.
Count yourself lucky that you were in this relationship for as short a time that you were, and that your 'trust' radar was accurate. Give yourself some more time. The whole thing from dating through break-up until now has only been 9 weeks. Go hang withh some buds and avoid a rebound girlfriend.
Also, take things a hell of a lot slower from now on. From the sounds of it, you were pretty dependent on her as well for only a four week relationship.
You need to stop contact for another reason; you keep reminding her that you're there, and one day she might turn around and start the whole process again. There is no uncertainty in this situation, no answers to 'why', she's a user, pure and simple, and once she gets what she wants, she starts thinking the grass is greener elsewhere.
2006-11-19 12:43:02 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're saying all those bad things about her but yet you want to know if you should apologize. I think you're feeling guilty for blowing up on her but you shouldnt. If you treated her like a queen and she treated you like dirt. Then you're better off without her. So dont apologize, there is nothing to apologize for. Get on with your life and you will most likely find someone better.
2006-11-19 20:34:22 · answer #2 · answered by Gen B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how she let you down was rough. it seems like she didnt even care how much seeing her make out with that guy would hurt you. its tough cause you miss her and still have feelings for her enough to worry about her well-being but you deserve someone better. definitely someone who'll treat you with enough respect to care about your feelings. don't call her back , just let her go. you tried your best, if anyone should be calling, it should be her to apologize for the way she treated you. but dont wait around for that...it'll take time to heal but there's definitely someone out there better for you. :)
2006-11-19 20:53:48 · answer #3 · answered by lovingangel323 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO let her go if she jumps from 1 guy to the next shes been with enough men do you want all that on you?
2006-11-19 20:33:34 · answer #4 · answered by shawna04939 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, heres something that will help.
Write a letter and put down all of your feelings into it, and then don't send it, burn it. And let those feelings be 'lifted' from your conciounce, and then let her go.
2006-11-19 20:45:23 · answer #5 · answered by Jshoffyman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know that you miss her but all those things that she did, she had a reason. that shows you that she isn't the one for you. you may think that you can't do better than her but you can. find someone who wouldn't do things to hurt you or things to have you thinking. trust me, because it happened to me before.
2006-11-19 20:37:19 · answer #6 · answered by ~*Godz_ANGEL*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her go.. once a cheater always a cheater.. i think she wanted you to break up with her so she could go with other guys anytime she wanted
2006-11-19 20:32:06 · answer #7 · answered by loveinit2345 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont ever near her, she's a dangerous girl can took your SOUL without mercy.
2006-11-19 20:36:12 · answer #8 · answered by peter71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No she does not deserve an apology.
2006-11-19 20:33:26 · answer #9 · answered by nickieandsarahsmommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you still want her cuz you were not able to conquer her. accept your loss and move on......she never belonged to you and will never belong to anyone.....good luck.
2006-11-19 20:39:40 · answer #10 · answered by mrs. sanchez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋