me and my bf have bee together 6 years and have 2 beautiful kids i want o get married he doesnt i think after 6 years i deserve some commitment am i right or wrong
2006-11-19 12:24:57 · 8 answers · asked by corsababy001 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Honey, he ain't gonna walk down the aisle. You were not very wise to get into this, having babies together, knowing that he wasn't completely committed. You are right to want it, but you should have seen the warning signs a long time ago.
2006-11-19 12:28:51 · answer #1 · answered by It's Me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I certainly think he is wrong after all you have given him two wonderful children. After 6 years and 2 children surely he knows what he wants from a relationship by now. You two are obviously living together so what's the big deal. Come on, tell him to make it official . You are living as a married couple anyway and l think you have definately earned a wedding ring to say the least. If he has any doubts l personally think the two of you should sit down and have a serious talk about your relationship and where it is going. Good luck and l'll wait for my wedding invitation in the mail. I wish the two of you a lifetime of happiness together. x
2006-11-19 20:46:10 · answer #2 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After six years and two kids it's a good sign that he's never going to get married. I mean if you think about it, why should he? He has you, the kids, and everything you two own together. He could take what he wants at any time and leave. In a divorce it would be split down the middle or split in your favor. Everything right now is in his favor, rather than equal. Do you really think that asking him to give all that up will work? I think the man you chose and the man you wanted are two different things.
2006-11-19 20:42:42 · answer #3 · answered by Jenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my brother has been with his girlfriend for seven years, and he still hasnt asked her to marry him, his reason is that he wants to save to be able to provide for her. Mayb ur man wants to be able to full yprovide for you too, or maybe hes possibly afraid of commitment. either way, you do desrve commitment
2006-11-19 20:30:45 · answer #4 · answered by Steph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...youre not asking too much at all. If he TRULY loves you, he would have asked you long, long ago. There is no fear in love. He sounds like he is afraid of marriage or you.
2006-11-19 20:29:17 · answer #5 · answered by rokdude5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that's how you feel, then it's not wrong. But, if he's always told you that he's not interested in marriage, then you shouldn't expect him to change now.
2006-11-19 20:37:57 · answer #6 · answered by Maybalee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you are, marriage should never be pressured or rushed
you ***** (sorry about that) its just that what you are doing is very immoral and completly wrong
2006-11-19 20:28:21 · answer #7 · answered by Daniel 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think he's not a responsible man and he's only think on himself.
2006-11-19 20:28:11 · answer #8 · answered by peter71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋