I am in my first relationship and things are going good. Then my best friemd comments that everyone breaks up with their first and that she is waiting for the day i call her crying. She is currently the third wheel now, and this is her first time ever being the third wheel. And she's being a royal pain in the butt. What to do?
2006-11-19 11:58:23 · 12 answers · asked by larapookiebear18 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Your first love is rarely your last. However, I do know a some couples who have been married for more than 50 years to their FIRST love. It is possible.
We are all going to die someday. Should we live our lives waiting for the end, or should we enjoy the journey? Your realtionship is a life of its own. Dont live for its possible end. Enjoy it, have fun, and let the cards fall where they may.
As for your friend, she is just feeling a bit of envy. Don't take what she says to heart, she's just feeling a bit insecure right now. You can try and include her sometimes, but couples do need time to enjoy each other alone. Just remind her that shes your friend now and she always will be, and as your friend you really want her to hope the best for you.
2006-11-19 12:05:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not everyone breaks up with their first, although most do.
I dated a few guys (nothing serious) before my husband and I met at 17. 9 years later we're still going strong.
Bottom line -- if it's meant to be, you will stay together. However, don't stay in a relationship that's not giving you what you need JUST because it's your first.
In the mean time, give your gf a hug -- sounds like she needs it :)
2006-11-19 12:16:18 · answer #2 · answered by Yummy Canadian Mummy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure, what you're saying is definitely real, yet while the guy who has wronged you says he or she is sorry, you only won't be able to forgive them in the present day when you consider which you're harm nevertheless by utilising what they did. in a fashion you're happy they apologized, however the time isn't precise for you 2 to be acquaintances lower back. there's no longer an exact time that that occurs because of the fact it ameliorations for each individual.
2016-11-25 20:24:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump your friend. Not everyone breaks up with there first. Some people make it all the way though. But remember every realionship is different. What a friend she is. Just dump her.
2006-11-19 12:01:34 · answer #4 · answered by jenny21gon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is jealous so u might want to spend more time with her.I'm a older person and I know people that married their first love and they are still together. She is trying to do everything to get your attention.Good luck
2006-11-19 12:02:09 · answer #5 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you and your partner mature you will most likely find out that you want different things out of life.
It does not mean that you will hate them but you will most likely move on.
But just enjoy yourself right now and don't worry about it.
Tell your friend to mind her own business
2006-11-19 12:00:53 · answer #6 · answered by keith s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm still dating my first boyfriend, and it is going great we are talking about getting married when I'm 18,
2006-11-19 12:00:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
she is right. i predict a week before christmas. he will be no where in sight. cause he will save a ton of money being single.
2006-11-19 12:02:47 · answer #8 · answered by ill take it straight with no ice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
99% do.. then there's that 1% that ends up spending their lives together..sorry to break it to her but it's rare
2006-11-19 12:03:07 · answer #9 · answered by sparkzxx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone does break up, but that doesn;t mean yuou cannot reconnect later
2006-11-19 12:00:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋