deal with rejection issues.
i want to meet someone, and allow myself to fall in love with her as much as she may fall in love with me.
but whenever i ask a girl an important question, e.g., for her email address or phone number...i'm nye on sh*t-scared incase she says no.
i always have visions of her saying no, and me just bursting into tears with feeling hurt.
2006-11-19 11:39:21 · 11 answers · asked by Brutal_Yet_Beautiful 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, when someone breaks up with me i kick them in the genitals
2006-11-19 11:41:15 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. Yasha 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The greatest risk is not taking one; I can't reiterate that enough. Should you hold interest in a girl, go for it. You do risk the chance of being rejected; plain and simple. People have free will and they are allowed to say what they'd like.
Think about it like this...and maybe you'll find yourself taking a few more risks without so much fear. If you loved your best friend all throughout the years you knew each other...but you were unsure of if she liked you back. All those years you went on together as best friends but you were sitting back holding onto feelings that couldn't be expressed. Then one day you get a phone call saying that she has died in a car accident. Only to find later in her diary that she loved you too and wished that you had said something cause she was just as scared.
Take the risks. They're good for you.
2006-11-19 19:44:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone gets rejected at one point during there life, it doesnt have to be love related, but the only to get somewhere is to try and if you want to fall in love ur going to have to take the risk of falling, good luck :)
2006-11-19 19:43:08 · answer #3 · answered by Y 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop wearing your feelings on your sleeves! If you try something and it doesn't work, try something else. We as humans have the fear of being rejected, I'd rather be rejected than think something is when it isn't and be used. Think about the possibilities that may lay ahead in case she says yes!
2006-11-19 19:43:25 · answer #4 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop trying so hard let it happen on its own time if its right you will know its like buying a car look all over for the one you want but cant find the color you like the next day the car you want drives buy you in the right color with a for sale sign in the window
2006-11-19 19:45:46 · answer #5 · answered by cowrench 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just gotta try man. you might get rejected, but she might also end up being the one. you just have to risk being hurt, you may cry and it might be the most horrible thing in your life but youll get over it. if you dont ever try though you will never get it. God bless ;)
2006-11-19 19:43:03 · answer #6 · answered by Lfeata 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the best way to deal with rejection issues is that if you have the feeling that she is going to reject you then don't ask her unless you really like her
2006-11-19 19:43:18 · answer #7 · answered by lyra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
smile your best and put your sholders high, always be nice and dont worry its their loss, just remember you always have friends to catch you..if not e-mail me...xoxoheartyaxoxo@yahoo.com
2006-11-19 19:45:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are alone, and you have nothing to lose, ask her out.
2006-11-19 19:42:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ohmygod me too. i'm also scared of commitment though, so go figure.
2006-11-19 19:42:14 · answer #10 · answered by itsallforyou 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋