i'm engaged and will be getting married around next summer. me and my fiance have agreed that we each get one last fling with whoever we want, no questions asked as long as everything is protection. now i know you monogomy nuts are going to jump all over me with thier finger wagging and predictions of doom and gloom for our relationship. stuff it.
i think there are three people that i could get this to happen with.
1. a chubby girl that has had a long standing crush. i know for a fact it would just be a one nighterut, she will see this as her shot and will be hurt even if forwarned.
2. a hot *** freind, who will likely see it as a one night stand, but if she wanted to do it again i'd be so darn tempted to do it again.
3. an ex that is a marvel in bed, that i'd love to tag one last time, and know we both would be fine with never doing it again - but f there is one person that would be a slap in my fiance's face, it'd be her.
what do you guys think?
2006-11-19 11:40:42 · 12 answers · asked by w0t_b0t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go with the hot friend. no risk of creating a clinger and no risk of alienating the wife to be. a blast all around.
2006-11-19 15:26:49 · answer #1 · answered by carol h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since I think you should try and not hurt anyone's feelings, if you feel this is something you MUST do, I would NOT choose number 1. Go with the ex. Even though it would be a slap in your fiance's face, better her because you know you wouldn't do it again, whereas with number 2 you see a possibility of doing it again in the future, which would be much worse for your fiance to deal with. Good luck, hope all goes well.
2006-11-19 11:56:51 · answer #2 · answered by Idaho 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you asked her what her pick is? An eye for an eye. I think she might be testing you to see if she can trust you. I personally don't think you should do it at all if you love your fiance, but if I had to choose one of the multiple choices above I think it would be most safe with #1. She might be hurt though or flattered, depends on her personality. You won't be too tempted to go back and it wouldn't offend your fiance as bad. Good Luck with the marriage!
2006-11-19 11:54:06 · answer #3 · answered by mama4e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
number 3
2006-11-19 11:45:22 · answer #4 · answered by Hannah HaYwIrE!?1♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its seems such as you may call off your engagement. in case you experience so set on doing a white guy, then you definately should not be engaged. there is not any experience cheating on your guy and ending up divorced. in case you're unattached then you definately can do what you choose for. Its too undesirable you're letting your fantasy screw up what could become a astounding marriage. the 1st element you pronounced substitute into your fiance is a "stable" guy. You did no longer say you have been passionately in love with him and might't stay without him. it extremely is adequate reason to call the engagement off.
2016-11-25 20:23:04 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't dwell on this question. Make sure you are ready to commit to one woman for the rest of your life, the night before you get married, there will be a girl that will be happy to give that "one last fling" to you. There is always a girl who wants a man that she knows there will be no attatchments to.
2006-11-19 11:52:28 · answer #6 · answered by shawnriley2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure she's less attractive than your girl. But then, if she picks some extremely hot guy, how are you going to feel if you picked the least attractive? This is why these situations don't end very well(not all the time, but most of the time).
2006-11-19 11:51:38 · answer #7 · answered by Nep 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
was there any stipulation as to how many partners you could have for this one last fling? If not, try to get all 3 of them at the same time! lol
2006-11-19 11:51:40 · answer #8 · answered by funlady6632@yahoo.com 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After alot of thought number 2.
Unless your girl tags someone you don't approve of then 3.
2006-11-19 11:46:45 · answer #9 · answered by Just Me baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your last fling should last about 40 years.....don't get married - you dolt.
2006-11-19 11:43:42 · answer #10 · answered by reaganontherock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋