I have a friend who has recently gotten pregnant by her best friend whom she is in love with. She did not mean for this to happen but now that it has, she is not sure what to do. He has a girlfriend who he claims to be in love with but my friend knows him and does not think that he really does love her. I am there for her but I need some advice to give to her to help her more.
2006-11-19 11:31:48 · 13 answers · asked by ILoveSimplePlan23 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
THERE ARE TWO OPTION FOR HER ONE SHE CAN ASK FOR MARRIAGE TO THE BOY FROM HIM SHE GOT PREGNANT THROUGH LEGAL EXPERT. SECOND OPTION IS FOR HER TO GET IT ABORT. ONE MORE OPTION IS THERE BUT I DO NOT WANT TO ADVISE HER THAT IS SINGLE PARENT OPTION.
2006-11-19 14:04:36 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi There,
She is your friend and you have to see whats best for the and the truth is this guy is not good for her. He had a girlfriend and still he sleeps with his best friend... such guys are nothing but flirts. But she definately has to tell him about this pregnancy. He loves his girlfriend or not it just does not matter here. What matters is this girl, the baby and her future. She has to speak to him. See what he says. If he really cares for her than he will marry her or may be they will be together take a better decision. Otherwise if he says he does not care or he cannot do anything about it If than your friend has no option so i suggest an abortion without futher delay. Secondly she better forget this so called bestfriend of hers as he is not even fit to be a friend.
Tell her to be strong and u support her as she defintely needs and will need a friend to console her.
Good luck and God bless
2006-11-20 02:39:29 · answer #2 · answered by Blueberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This man is a flirt. Do not trust him for anything. Get on with life independently. As regards the pregnancy if U r willing to be a single mother or some one will accept u with the child, continue.Or else have an MTP.
2006-11-19 21:28:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the damage has all ready been down. the best advice u can give ur friend now is to leave that guy alone. since she knows what he wants and what he feels she is aware that he wants her to vanish. if he step up and b a dad luck for her, but don't she start thinking about starting a relationship with him. b/c 1) he has a gf and 2) he don't not love her.
2006-11-19 19:48:26 · answer #4 · answered by sweet143 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he doesn't have very much respect for his girlfriend if he got your friend preggers. I would tell your friend to stay positive and definitely keep the baby. That way she will always be connected to him, since she loves him. Who knows, maybe he will come around. She cannot expect much from a guy that cheats though. I wish her a happy and healthy pregnancy. Be there for her and support her. You are a good friend.
2006-11-19 19:41:06 · answer #5 · answered by looloo1122 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoever says abortion is wrong..why take someone that didn't do anything?! SO that isn't right..Well she is probably young and can get over it which will be hard, so be there and help her find a new man =). She probably loves him because they are best friends and they know each other inside and out so she thinks she is inlove!
2006-11-19 20:15:55 · answer #6 · answered by lpokknmui 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See a lawyer.
In USA the man is responsible for child support untill the child is 18 years of age. So it take two to raise a child, he must pay the piper.
2006-11-19 19:37:57 · answer #7 · answered by minootoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to tell him that she is pregnant. He is the one who caused her to be that way adn they need to get through this time together. If she feels that he will be able to handle the news I would say for her to tell him and they work it out together.
2006-11-19 19:35:04 · answer #8 · answered by smartgrl_09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she realy need to tell him that shes pregnate and ask him what he wants do do about it. it would b wrong of her to go ahead and do some thing with out talking to him first as he helped create this baby. How old are they by the way??
2006-11-19 19:37:56 · answer #9 · answered by rk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF SHE WAS IN LOVE WITH HIM.SHE SHOULD KNOW THAT HE WAS HAVING A GIRLFRIEND ALREADY. I JUST HAVE TO SAY THAT GO TO THAT GUY AND TELL HIM THAT I AM PREGNANT BECAUSE OF U AND U CAN'T LIVE ME LIKE THIS. AUR AGAR TAB BHI YOH NAHI MANA THAN SLAP HIM AND DESTROY HIM BECAUSE THERE'S NO NEED TO LOVE A GUY LIKE THIS.
2006-11-22 08:07:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋