Im in my mid 20's. My mom is currently being spiteful as she dosn't like the guy im dating. Im not going to go into it,but there is nothing wrong with my bf, she just simply dosn't like him and i refuse to go out with guys she trys to set me up with.
Anyway, because im dating this guy (she has done this with my ex's too), She purposely won't go shopping with me, watch tv with me or do anything together.
In general my mom (despite bf situations) always puts me down, compares me to other girls, praises my brother , never me. She will even tell her friends over the phone that im an idiot and never knows whats going on. Its so depressing. Im trying my best to ignore it. I can't just sit and talk with her.I confronted about how she is treating me and that we can do things together,but she refuses. Im trying my best to accept the way she is, but its so hard.Also all of my girlfriends have nice moms who do normal things and its like this is what i got stuck with. anyone else have similiar?
2006-11-19 10:51:04 · 3 answers · asked by hersheybar99 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl if I were you I would do everything I could to move out!! I am 37 years old and my mother is a very unhappy woman. She had a hard childhood and she can't let it go. I have two younger sisters who are very well adjusted have fantastic careers are very independent just like myself. So with all her problems she raised three pretty great women, BUT she will do whatever she can to make us unhappy. Remember misery loves company. I moved out when I was 22 years old. I am now married with a lil boy whom she spends much time with but she hates my husband and she makes sure I know it every day. It hurts me to know end but I have to go on with my life. I can't let her ruin it for me because its my life not hers. That is what you need to remember.
2006-11-19 10:57:08 · answer #1 · answered by HereweGO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem. don't worry, you aren't alone in this. She wants to be around you, and if your boyfriend is there taking care of you then she isn't and she doesn't like that. She is trying to be overprotective and when she can't be, then she gets defensive and won't have anything to do with her. I deal with it too
2006-11-19 18:53:58 · answer #2 · answered by Jenna J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's a control freak and she wants to run your life. Cut the cord, see her less and don't tell her who you are dating.
2006-11-19 18:53:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋