I have a new boyfriend, he's a really responsible guy who does not want kids, so I was surprised when he put it inside me without a condom while we were having sex. He put it up against me and I told him it was a time of the month when I wouldn't get pregnant, so he put it in, but then after awhile he took it out and put a condom on. Does it mean he must really love me if he was willing to take that chance? He's not a young dumb guy or anything. Thanks!!
2006-11-19 09:25:24 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You guys are so mean. We are in a relationship, neither of us have an STD.
2006-11-19 09:31:03 · update #1
I know what you guys are saying, it's just this guy, I've known him for six years and he has always struck me as the kind of guy who wouldn't take chances like that. I know many other guys who have and do, but this guy just seemed different.
2006-11-19 10:06:51 · update #2
Most guys would love to have sex without a condom on...I know where you coming from.....but do you know where he has been...you willing to run the risk of getting a disease?_
2006-11-19 09:28:55 · answer #1 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend is new then it's probably too early to know whether you love one another. You might both feel in lust, but that's a far different thing. Wearing a condom is a more loving act than not wearing one, especially considering the relationship is new and you both don't want unplanned parenthood in your lives. However, passions can sometimes take over, and the reality is, condomless sex feels better. But, the fact that he decided against risky behaviour and put a condom on anyway sounds like a good choice to me. Condoms also protect against STDs as well, don't forget. Why not take things one step at a time and see if this is a more long-term relationship? Remember, the most important thing is that you love and take care of yourself.
:-)
2006-11-19 09:36:01 · answer #2 · answered by Girlygirl5 B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to try not to be mean but honestly just cause he put his penis in without a condom doesn't mean he is in love with you. And by the way you can get pregnant when your on your time of the month, in fact you can get pregnant anytime of the month. Cause you can still ovulate when you are on your period. And having sex without a condom is irresponsible. I don't think he loves you or maybe he does but maybe he just wanted to see how it would feel so then after he put a condom on.......and went again. Think I mean come on. You said it was a NEW relationship and your already having sex ........jeeez moving fast......you will knwo when he loves you and right now i don't think he does.
2006-11-19 09:48:28 · answer #3 · answered by Pisce-Pegasus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People don't always equate sex with love. He probably just wanted to see how it would feel without the condom. And generally guys will stop using a condom with a girl because eventually they trust her enough and because it just feels better. Sometimes a women will equate this with love but most times it isn't always the case. Men generally don't tend to see sex in the same way as women. Men see it more as a physical function whereas women tend to tie more emotions into it. But not all men and women are the same. Just be careful and don't be so quick to equate sex with love.
2006-11-19 09:32:05 · answer #4 · answered by acvader 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beleive me when I say that U should always use a condom no matter what because having sex bareback is not worth your life. U might have ur cycle mapped out, but mother nature is a b**** and u never know when she might change up. Girl, what's love got to do with it?
2006-11-19 09:32:31 · answer #5 · answered by songbirdz03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pur ur self in his shoes, lets say he does love you...but he doesnt know what u've done in ur past, so u could maybe have a desease, or since he doesnt want kids, just because its not ur time of the month to have kids doesnt mean there is a 100% chance of u not getting one...i hope i helped!
2006-11-19 09:41:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly it sounds like he was caught up in the moment.LOVE has NOTHING to do with if he puts on a condom or not.Lots of people have sex without being in love.......... with or Without condoms.
So be careful and be safe
2006-11-19 09:31:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-04 03:41:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he really love you? This is a joke right? Come on, it must be a joke. It cannot be real. You should write comedy for SNL. No, wait a minute, it's not that funny.
2006-11-19 09:35:22 · answer #9 · answered by Teresa C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He definitely trust you.....Disease...thats what i would have thought. I don't know love is complex. Most guys don't think when they are having sex. The blood is flowing in the "other head" so the real head is deprived of blood and oxygen and thus less thinking.
2006-11-19 09:30:42 · answer #10 · answered by Curious 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋