hey guys out there?

Question

physically and personality wise, what do you see in a girl?

Answer 1

if theyre kind, and sweet, and not overwieght. ( i run cross country and overwieght is a little turn off for me but i can look past it if i have too )

Answer 2

First off let me say that I am in my 40's. But I will try to let you in on some advise. At my time in life I find myself looking for someone who shares some of the same views as I do on life and love. Personality is more important to me then what a woman looks like physically. After all eventually looks fade and all we have is the person we are with to spend the rest of our lives with. If you make a wrong decision then you will both end up either divorced or staring at the walls.

You will find that you actually made a wrong choice in life. So if you looking at heat is really important in life. Look at the heart and soul of a person for that will show you the true beauty beyond the physical look of someone.

Good luck in your search.

Answer 3

well, since you asked...

Physically -
-Red hair. Don't ask me why, but thats probably the one physical characteristic that catches my eye more than any other. It really has to be natural to mean anything though, and I have certainly dated blondes, brunettes, and in-betweens before.
-Smile. Can't really descibe what makes a good smile, but when you see one it makes the whole area lseem to ight up.
-Smaller body frame. I generally prefer girls that are under 5'5", realatively skinny (NOT emaciated) with proportionately sized breasts. (Yes, that means I actually prefer smaller boobs, call me crazy.)
-Freckles. I really do find them quite attractive, despite the fact that most girls will be ashamed of them.

Personality - (the more important part by the way)
-Intelligence. I like to be able to have a decent conversation with a girl, or even a debate. It's not so endearing when she has to ask you to explain yourself in smaller words all the time.
-Modest. If a girl thinks she's 'all that and a bag of chips,' its a total turn-off, even if she is.
-Forgiving. If my father gets ripped off by 5 cents at the supermarket by accident, he'll sit and argue with the poor guy until he gets every bit that is due. It's nice to be with someone who can say "oh well" every once in a while.
-Considerate. A girl who is incapable of realizing that other people may and probably do think differently than her is no good. Yuo have to be able to put yourself in other people's shoes and try to understand why they did something you didn't necessarily appreciate rather than just be offended.

And I suppose that's pretty much the general lay of it.

Answer 4

You mean, what do we like in a girl? To me, her appearance gets my attention right away; but after getting to know her more and her attitude stunk up the whole class, it doesn't matter if she looks like Halle Berry. Everyone will agree that the personality outweighs the looks every time. If she has a great attitude, I guarantee the girls would also be drawn to her regardless of what she looks like.

Answer 5

I see everything! A generous, loving woman attracts me. A nice body does too but I have turned down women who look nice but are creeps (which nowadays is most of women sorry to say). I enjoy a woman who cares about other people. She does not have to be the smartest but she does have to consider others.

Answer 6

When young outer beauty is all we see. As men mature(as much as we really can) we tend to look more for the iner-beauty. The outer shell always catches our eyes, but an ugly inner-person will drive us away!!!

Answer 7

Im just writing here so I can add it to my watch list because I have the same question.

Answer 8

hey if they look good and have a good personality and a sense of humor. thats what i look for

Answer 9

I want a girl to just be herself and not go out of her way to impress me. :-)

Answer 10

Long hair, squeaky voice, I guess everything I don't have