Family & Relationships - 19 November 2006

I'm going to put this poem before class starts and while nobody is there. This is to prevent anyone from seeing who put it. As for people reading it nobody really cares about that stuff. Also it will be addressed to her but my name won't be written and shes always sitting in the same place since the beginning of the year. Also tell me how i should decorate the poem. I have an idea but i want other opinions.She's 19, im 17(she was born in Mexico). we talk sumtimes

To Pamela, the Princess of Mexico

When I think of the perfect girl
You’re the only one that comes to mind

With the intellect of a genius,
Eyes of an angel,
Hair as soft as silk,
And a smile that lights up even the darkest room
No wonder you are God’s only work of art

You’re an amazing girl, an amazing person
You’re special and irreplaceable in my heart

2006-11-19 09:21:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend says he's "obsessed" with me and that I'm all he cares about, and his whole life revolves around only me and stuff....and yes it is sweet and you rarely find a guy that is that into you....but sometimes I think he's a little too obsessed, not to mention controlling. I have to admit, I'm not obsessed with him and my world does not revolve solely around him...am I wrong? Or what?

2006-11-19 09:20:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

because it appears to me that all they look at is looks, not good qualities

2006-11-19 09:20:00 · 11 answers · asked by Piano_Man 2 in Singles & Dating

ok let me just say that i got raped this year, and i told the police and everything. but like my family does not believe me and then my bestfriend truned his is back on me and like hes going to talk to the police so that the boys want get 5 years in jail but like everyone is truning there back on me and nobody knows how hard it is for me

2006-11-19 09:19:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

um... i thought i was finally over the guy i liked
he had a gf

and im thinking im not as over him as i thought

cause lately everything reminds me of him

though i dont think ill ever forgive him

i still sorta like him

but not nearly as much

how can i get over him?? hes not worth it

2006-11-19 09:19:02 · 16 answers · asked by banana music mango 3 in Singles & Dating

they never say things just strait out and when they try to the use a bunch of words ! why cant they say what they mean with out saying so much ?!?
why cant they be simple and why dont they say wat they really mean in the first place ?!?

2006-11-19 09:18:50 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am 22 and never dated guys flirt with me than i find out they have a girl what do i do?

2006-11-19 09:18:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Oh no my brother keeps sleeping with dogs and now his girlfriend is complaing that his penis smells of winalot prime.

Do you think he feels ruff?

2006-11-19 09:18:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-19 09:18:14 · 3 answers · asked by sheri shaffer 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm costarican, I'm in costa rica right now and I'm married to an English guy. We have a four month old baby boy. my husband has been in cr for 18 months now. He's parents and bros came to visit last september but not for long. Now my husband says that he would like to go and stay in england for three to six months. He says he wants to work there and save some money and bring it here to set a business and try to get a house. But I'm just so sad about leaving even when I know that it's not permanent I'm sad. Am I being selfish??? I feel like I don't want to stay there for that long but I also feel that it's good and the right thing to do. I'm just so confused and it's so f****** hard for me to just go. What would you do if you were me???
Thanks for taking the time and answer my question. Have a nice thanksgiving day

2006-11-19 09:18:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

l met a guy in Sept, we speak everyday but he lives about 3 hours away, he said he has feelings for me but i live too far away, i see he quite a bit. Does he just want to have his cake and eat and shall l get out of this quick!!

2006-11-19 09:18:06 · 10 answers · asked by juicefoxy 1 in Singles & Dating

I have become upset at the fact that the family I have does not feel like a family and I try my best to do things to make it feel like a real united and loving family but I have yet to see full success. So if you are the one to give me your best answer about what a family truly is then you will be rewarded. It may seem easy to give me the meaning of family if you get it from the dictionary but this answer has to come from you. remember its not a definition its what comes from within you. once i decide what the best answer is I will say what the meaning of family is and compare the other answers.

p.s the reward is best answer.

2006-11-19 09:17:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-11-19 09:16:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need something to compare with. Thanks a lot!

2006-11-19 09:16:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want a new wife who is chaste and submissive, even though I have been with a couple of women before. Is this wrong?

2006-11-19 09:16:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok 1 what do girls like in guys... 2how do u like bieng asked out... why cant i get a girl friend gf... im fifteen 15 and dont know what id do for a date cus my parents r pains...

2006-11-19 09:15:27 · 9 answers · asked by THE BOMB 1 in Singles & Dating

If this "friend" was a teen, but thought that the abuse was normal so couldn't/wouldn't do anything about it

2006-11-19 09:15:27 · 10 answers · asked by JASNJ 2 in Friends

So I guess by now you know I’m an introverted person and I can’t share my feelings and problems too well. I just hate to make my problems other people’s problems. I went against my nature and tried to show you once and now I’m trying again but for this time I’ve lost hope.

I tried to make this work, I tried so hard and I wanted it to work. I still do, but I guess its time to get my head out of the clouds and realized that it’s just a waste of time. You don’t seem to understand me, and likewise I don’t think I understand you either. I can’t go on like this- it’s too painful for me. I’m flawed- I’m sensitive and distant and there’s only so much inconsideration, lies, and undependability I can take.

These last few days I realized that your feelings for me and my feelings for you are completely different. You are one of my top priorities, but I don’t seem to even qualify as a priority to you. That’s fine, I guess. People have different views of what a good relationship is.

2006-11-19 09:15:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it ok to be fooloing around wit a very very very close mate i love him soooooooo much do you think i should tell him or not i dont no how to plz plz plz help me i need help ..................

thanks x.x.x.x...

2006-11-19 09:14:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a full-time student. I have my school day arranged as if it were a work day (8-4). I also consider myself a homemaker. Finally, I have a business doing public speaking and consultation work. Most of the time, I struggle with my home which drives me crazy!! I want to do well at everything I do, but people are telling me that this is impossible. I don't believe it. Am I doing too much, or is this actually attainable?

2006-11-19 09:14:10 · 4 answers · asked by tbmommy 1 in Family

A girl beats you at something you are really good at?? (ie-racing cars) Why or Why Not??
She does gymnastics, lax, races cars, surfs, dances, snowboards, and is rich but not fake so most guys like her til they race her and she beats them.
Why's it such a turn-off to get beat by a 5'1 95lb, 17yr old with a Porsche, lexus, bmw, mistsubishi, toyota, and scion,(all performance enhanced) who happens to be a girl??

2006-11-19 09:14:04 · 7 answers · asked by Michael 1 in Singles & Dating

I've gotton too close to my female friend.I told her how I felt and we decided it wud be best to remain friends.We are so close that she didn't want to risk the friendship,our special bond.We are now on good terms as before my confession.

Said she can’t imagine me not being in\part of her life-meaning???

Stuff we do is:
Go to dinner\lunch together,drinks in the evening. We go on roadtrips together to the coast\countryside for walks, usually followed by dinner and its just the 2 of us.this happens regularly.We also flirt with each other and we’re in touch practically everyday etc

How do I make sure that we(I) don't get too close to her again???
I don't want to start acting odd or hurt her by a sudden change in behaviour.

Anyone be in a similar position??

Advice....

2006-11-19 09:13:36 · 19 answers · asked by sircrazydude90 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-19 09:13:35 · 9 answers · asked by AllyKat 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-19 09:12:41 · 6 answers · asked by Maji 3 in Singles & Dating

It is an American tradition that when a couple marry they usually gravitate towards the woman's side of the family for most holidays and many other important events in their lives. I am the mother of two sons My youngest has just graduated college & was offered a job opportunity in NY, close to where his girlfriend's parents live in a very elite section of NJ, 3 states away from my home.Consequently, he & his girlfriend have moved in with her parents. I made it no secret in the past that one of my biggest fears is the aforementioned tradition primarily because I was adopted & my sons are the only two drips in my gene puddle that I know. My youngest has always aspired to affluence, predictable, as I am down to earth simple county folk & divorced early in their childhood - I have struggled & bore my son's embarrassment over the car I drove, et al. He is spending Thankgiving with her & not coming here until Xmas even tho he's LIVING with them & see them every day. M I the MNL from HELL?

2006-11-19 09:11:45 · 3 answers · asked by broomhilda 3 in Family

What ever happend to having a meaningful relationship? I am a very caring and friendly person. I do not even have to be friends with you but I would still be caring and friendly towards you. Why is it that guys just want to have sex and leave. Where are the guys who want a meaningful relationship? Am I being to caring? How do I tell if I guy is just after sex? Can a guy want to take things slow and hide me from his friends until he knows we can have a lasting relationship?

2006-11-19 09:11:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-19 09:11:23 · 6 answers · asked by pokeno9 1 in Singles & Dating

club with about 8 other women. I sat with another woman and her husband at the reception, he started drinking scotch and after about 7 drinks he was pretty plastered. At one point, he asked me to dance and his wife was like ya go on so I danced with him which was fun. When we went back to the table he was sitting a little too close with his arm on the back of my chair which was ok, then we danced a couple more times and when we went back he sat right next to me so I was inbetween he and his wife. When they got up to leave, he took my hand and leaned on like he was going to kiss my mouth, luckily i turned my face and he planted one on my cheek. Do you think I was picking up on the same vibe you are with this story? The other woman at the table was shocked when he leaned in for a kiss. I am totally embarassed now cuz she's in my club but I didnt do anything, should I apologize? It was her husband who drank too much. What do you think?

2006-11-19 09:10:54 · 6 answers · asked by ooolala 2 in Marriage & Divorce

after you start dating someone again?

2006-11-19 09:10:52 · 9 answers · asked by Lis 1 in Marriage & Divorce

OK we have been married for almost 10 years....this is a fantasy of mine, as well as my husbands.......we have someone in mind that is more interested in me than him ( he let me pursue so I would feel less threatened).....we are very happy together and trust each other completely, so I know he wouldnt pursue this with her alone, as I wouldnt either....he has also said that if after one time I find out its not something I like its ok, and he wont ever pressure me again.....I also asked him the same, what if I wanted another man with us, and he said that it would only be fair.....

I would like some imput on this, before anything happens...

2006-11-19 09:10:32 · 20 answers · asked by jenniepooh3897 1 in Marriage & Divorce