ok let me just say that i got raped this year, and i told the police and everything. but like my family does not believe me and then my bestfriend truned his is back on me and like hes going to talk to the police so that the boys want get 5 years in jail but like everyone is truning there back on me and nobody knows how hard it is for me
2006-11-19 09:19:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It sounds like this is really bothering you a lot. Far too many girls get raped and don't say anything, you were very brave to come forward. Don't let everyone get you down, you can get thru this just don't dwell on it and let it run your life. Remember all guys aren't like the one who raped you. Find someone understanding to talk to and be honest with them. There are nice guys out there.
2006-11-19 09:30:25 · answer #1 · answered by Jim V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in school, find a counselor with whom you can meet with on a weekly basis. If they are unable to do so, ask him/her for someone who can help you. Don't ever think that this is your fault in any way, even if your parents don't believe you. You have to do what you are doing now, and continue to ask for help. If you look online, there should be sites that will help you to find rape crisis centers in your area. If you need to, call your local hotline for help and they should be able to connect you with the appropriate service providers. Also, there is a treatment/procedure called EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing) which will help you to stop flashbacks of traumatic events. Good luck, and take care.
2006-11-19 17:43:19 · answer #2 · answered by tatesgr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You find your real friends in times of crises. They don't turn their backs, they stand with you and give you love and support. I would dump the ones who turned on you and move on.
2006-11-19 17:23:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry. BUT if he raped you he raped you. ONLY you know. AND dont worrie what the others say ok?THAT includes your parents and family.contact me if you need support huggs.
2006-11-19 17:23:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
friends don't turn their backs on each other. friendship can't exist between man and woman anyways. beat you stress with logic, you did not do anything wrong. it is someone else who wronged you.
2006-11-19 17:41:36 · answer #5 · answered by Eryc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay strong in what you believe.hang in there and make sure justice gets served.its not your fault,find someone you can talk to and you can get through this
2006-11-19 17:22:42 · answer #6 · answered by Sxoxo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry about your situation and I do feel for you but you need to learn to type!
2006-11-19 17:22:03 · answer #7 · answered by cabonarakittie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i do i went all throw this myself but it was my dad and that what made it seem so bad you will get throw this trust me okey
2006-11-19 17:22:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋