l met a guy in Sept, we speak everyday but he lives about 3 hours away, he said he has feelings for me but i live too far away, i see he quite a bit. Does he just want to have his cake and eat and shall l get out of this quick!!
2006-11-19 09:18:06 · 10 answers · asked by juicefoxy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
3 hours is like me going to visit my girlfriend if she lived in dublin. my fiance is from south east england. i had no problem visiting her she was the same. 3 hours on the road is about 120 miles average. i see no problem. keep with it and see where it goes
2006-11-19 09:26:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Him saying you live too far away, sounds like he's not prepared to keep up a "long-distance" relationship.
Yet you say you "see him often" ...
If you're being intimate with him, and he can find the time for that, but not to spend quality time (out in public) with you, then I would suspect his motives.
I think you already know the answer deep down, that he IS having his cake and eating it - because you're letting him.
Six words come to mind " your foot ... his bum ... the kerb ".
2006-11-19 17:30:57 · answer #2 · answered by Jamma354 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he might just be nervous. But just in case take things slow you don't want to do anything you will regret do you. Sorry I could not be more help than that. I hope every thing works out all right with you and him.
Good luck.
2006-11-19 19:39:24 · answer #3 · answered by Reaper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 hours is not far away dump him he isnt serious
2006-11-19 17:19:52 · answer #4 · answered by Cornholio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a skeptic so I would say leave him but if you think there could be something more then go for it.
2006-11-19 17:20:31 · answer #5 · answered by cabonarakittie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out.
three months later and he is saying that he is probably seeing someone else and trying to be nice to put you off.
2006-11-19 17:20:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we all want to eat the cake, does he want to share it with you?
2006-11-19 17:22:11 · answer #7 · answered by giddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T BE LIKE THAT LET HIM HAVE A LITTLE NIBBLE AT THE CAKE
2006-11-19 17:21:28 · answer #8 · answered by Bob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out what he really wants
2006-11-19 18:12:48 · answer #9 · answered by angelstar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out now while you can.
2006-11-19 17:59:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋