do girls actually look for good qualities in a guy at all besides looks?

Question

because it appears to me that all they look at is looks, not good qualities

Answer 1

most guys who have good looks also are more likely to have more confidence in themselves, which is what girls are actually looking for. that's the most important thing... that he is comfortable with who he is.

But style, money, power, wealth, looks, intelligence-- all positive things. If you have the power to influence the people around you, girls will flock to you.

Answer 2

Yes, girls actually look for good qualities in a guy. As for looks, it may have nothing to do with physical appearance at all but have a lot to do with the "chemistry" between two people. I hope that makes sense.

Answer 3

Girls...and guys....often look just at the appearance of a person. Of course that's often misleading because some of the best looking people are rotten inside. And some of the more ordinary looking folks are the kindest, most honest, trustworthy people.you could ever find. It is often only after a person has been hurt, cheated on, mistreated, and lied to a few times by the "beautiful" ones that they begin to look at the good qualities before they hook up again. Wisdom does take time and by the time some of us become wise, we've been dragged through a lot of misery because we failed to look deep enough.

Answer 4

Depends on the girl....if they are superficial then they mostly want the hot guy with the fast car...if they have any depth, they will realize that appearances fade and change over time and what really counts is what is on the inside...I personally am most attracted to men who are smart and have a good sense of humor. I have seen typicaly hot men grow ugly right before my eyes as soon as they open their mouths....the reverse also being true. A rather average looking man becomes incredibly attractive if their personality rocks.

Just keep looking....not everyone dates based on looks.

Answer 5

It is not just looks. Most of the guys that I have been attracted to were not the most popular or best looking. In fact usually there is just some kind of instant connection that is unexplainable. Women are often attracted to outgoing, or funny guys with a sense of humor. I have been attracted to quiet men also, something mysterious about them. Some women are shallow, but not all of us are that way. Don't give up! There is someone for everyone out there.

Answer 6

I look for a good sense of humor and manly qualities. I want to feel safe when I'm with him.

Answer 7

yes a girl observes a guys looks but she also wants to get to know him.....they look for a good personality....style.....and quality traits that stand them out of the crowd

Answer 8

no. i look for a lotta qualities. the guy has so be nice, and respectful, i would never go out with a guy that does drugs. i like guyz that play sports but they don't have to, i also like guyz with a sense of humor . if they're nice, and treat me, my friends and my family with respect, i would definetly consider them. but then of course if there's two people with equally great qualities, then i'd go for the cuter one.

Answer 9

yeah course they do personally i think Wat is the point of having a drop dead gorgeous man if he has a personality of a rock i look for a guy who make me laugh and has a good personality and i feel safe a secure with! but then again that's me there probally are some girl who just see looks in a guy xx

Answer 10

It depends what kind of girl it is...I like guys with a good personality and my friends make fun of me for that