So I guess by now you know I’m an introverted person and I can’t share my feelings and problems too well. I just hate to make my problems other people’s problems. I went against my nature and tried to show you once and now I’m trying again but for this time I’ve lost hope.
I tried to make this work, I tried so hard and I wanted it to work. I still do, but I guess its time to get my head out of the clouds and realized that it’s just a waste of time. You don’t seem to understand me, and likewise I don’t think I understand you either. I can’t go on like this- it’s too painful for me. I’m flawed- I’m sensitive and distant and there’s only so much inconsideration, lies, and undependability I can take.
These last few days I realized that your feelings for me and my feelings for you are completely different. You are one of my top priorities, but I don’t seem to even qualify as a priority to you. That’s fine, I guess. People have different views of what a good relationship is.
2006-11-19 09:15:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is so hard for me because I don’t want to loose you, but I can’t ignore the fact that it hurts more to be with you and not see you and know that you’d rather spend your time with others then be without you. At least without you I wasn’t confused- the boundaries we’re clear and I knew what I had and what I didn’t.
I’m so very sorry if I hurt you, I never ever wanted for that to happen, but I think you will be happier this way. I love you- I never lied about anything I said about you, it was all true but sometimes things just don’t work out the way you want them too. I’ll miss you, but eventually I’ll move on. I hope you find someone that makes you happy and that suits you better. I had a great time with you, but I guess everything comes to an end eventually.
2006-11-19 09:15:42 · update #1
Try this one:
Dear John,
You are selfish and inconsiderate. You walk all over me and I can't stand it. I have tried to make it work, but I am through wasting my time. Get your crap and get out. Go live with your friends, since you enjoy spending so much time with them. I'm going on a date with Richard, the hot rich guy from work. All the best in life....
2006-11-19 09:23:31 · answer #1 · answered by army girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For someone who claims not to be able to share you feelings, you sure dumped a lot into this letter. It sounds like you're playing the victim role.
I think you should just say "We aren't compatible because we want different things in a relationship. Good luck. Good bye."
2006-11-19 09:19:15 · answer #2 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a very good letter, send it to him
It is much more than I would have done, you are a good person.
Good luck ...you have a bright future ahead of you, keep your chin up..
2006-11-19 09:22:05 · answer #3 · answered by Pete 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doing it in a letter? That's not very nice.
2006-11-19 09:23:20 · answer #4 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like that it get to the point i hope you find what your looking for
2006-11-19 09:20:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats seems completely reasonable. you have outlined everything.
2006-11-19 09:18:12 · answer #6 · answered by luckdragon888 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ITS GOOD. however, what actually has gone wrong?. can you not talk? or try? how long were you together?
2006-11-19 09:19:12 · answer #7 · answered by rachie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋