I met a guy and he told me that he was still leaving with his ex girlfriend and that they were still being intimate sometime. The problem is that he told me he wants to leave her and move on. He wants to get to know me.He said he find me very interesting. I am being very careful and i don't know if I should give it a try. I'm thinking maybe he wants to play me. But what if he was telling me the truth, after all he never hide his story. What would you do in a similar situation?
2006-11-19 09:06:04 · 9 answers · asked by exotica 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've been stuck like that before... Don't do anything with him until he has put a DEFINITE end to the other relationship. After that, make sure he is not using you as a rebound. Take your time. You don't want your heart broken. I'm sure it's suffering enough now. Good luck.
2006-11-19 09:09:49 · answer #1 · answered by Miss T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he wanted to leave her, he would. starting something with u while he's still with her is not moving on at all. if he really wants to get to know u then he needs to leave her 1st!!!!. if not she'll always be a part of any relationship that the 2 of u might have together. yes he is trying to play u. don't let him. u are right to be careful, just be more careful. not hiding his story is his game.... & it's a good 1, so don't let yourself become a pawn in it. stay clear until he has moved out & moved on..
2006-11-19 09:19:32 · answer #2 · answered by stillsexynluvit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's looking for sex while he is still living with/seeing his ex-girlfriend - there's only one answer that shows you value yourself - and that is NO.
Is he playing you? There is the classic line that a married guy uses when he wants to have sex with a girlfriend - "She doesn't understand me." or I can't leave her now because.........."
It's bull.
And, think about this - if he's "stepping out on" "going behind her back" --- do you really think he's going to remain loyal to you?
Think about all the people he's had sex with - did he always use a condom - Do you respect yourself enough to NOT fall for his line?
Aren't you worth more than that as a person?
2006-11-19 09:14:43 · answer #3 · answered by kids and cats 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't jump into anything yea go out with him go on a few dates have a few laughs let him get to no you yea i quick kiss on the cheek is fine and all that but don't end up in bed with him on the first date because then im afraid babe he will just play you it sound like he wants to get to no you and it you sound keen so GET IN THERE babe :P hee! good luck xx
2006-11-19 09:10:52 · answer #4 · answered by ..x..blue.eyed.princess..x.. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is going to try and play you but your not going to fall for it, right? Run! He's not a good man.
2006-11-19 09:09:22 · answer #5 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would hold back a little.....especially since they are still being intimate_
2006-11-19 09:09:58 · answer #6 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run.....don't look back. This guy wants the only one thing from you.
2006-11-19 09:10:28 · answer #7 · answered by sassytahoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be a booty call wait till he leaves her
2006-11-19 09:09:50 · answer #8 · answered by onelonevoice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont play with playas,,i would leave
2006-11-19 09:10:13 · answer #9 · answered by native,pride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋