ok well i like this girl a lot i cant stop thinking about her.
well she likes me too and we talk a lot on the phone, in person, online, w/e.
but she was in a really badd relationship a year or so ago, where she cried a lot becuz the guy cheated on her a bunch of times and she tells me she doesnt want a boyfriend but i wanna take things further.
so ladies and gentlemen how do i handle this situation?
2006-11-19 09:01:24 · 12 answers · asked by jman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try and comfort her and show her that you really care! If she can learn to build up trust in you, she will feel better about herself and realize that her situation was in the past and there is really a guy who really loves her! Good luck!
2006-11-19 09:03:33 · answer #1 · answered by sparkzxx 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should just remain very good friends to show or prove youre trustworthy. let her become used to seeing you all the time and showing her that you can be there through anything and will try your best when she needs you. at the same time, do lil things like hugging her a lot or kissing her on the cheek or holding her hand. offer her more alone time with you to a movie or a meal.
let her get used to you and let her learn about you so that she feels she has extensive knowledge about you. you might want to introduce her to some of your friends and family as well since you spend a lot of time with her.
you can also tell her your experiences with your past relationships (if necessary or petaining to her issue).
never the less, always be yourself and be true to yourself and your intentions with your female friend.
goodluck.
2006-11-19 09:08:07 · answer #2 · answered by bjperez07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendliness =) Looks good; by that I mean must look like you take care of yourself (stuff like hygiene, being somewhat fit, ect.) Sincerity =) must have a least a little class must speak english must be shorter than me... Under 6 ft must like music must be a at most 2 or 3 years within my age, 19. must have life goals, or plans ...thats my type of woman; don't thing every guy would agree but w/e
2016-05-22 04:23:00 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe she mabe telling you this as a warning for you to treat her right rather than not wanting a relationship at all. You may need to take some time and effort in getting her to trust you. good luck
2006-11-19 09:04:48 · answer #4 · answered by sammyantha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her some time. If you like her enough you can wait. Would you rather be in a relationship with her bc she genuinely wants to or bc you're pressuring her too when she's not ready to?
2006-11-19 09:09:12 · answer #5 · answered by lifeisshorttalkfast 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait on her. she probably needs time.
my cousin was doing everything with his current girlfriend and they might have well have been boyfriend/girlfriend, but she didn't want to take the next step yet (but she really liked him). he asked her out again a couple of months later. they're in love and have been together for over 9 months now.
2006-11-19 09:05:29 · answer #6 · answered by ftz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow, and easy. Trust is something that must be earned. If she's been cheated on, give her space, and let her realize you're true blue to her. Good luck ~~~~
2006-11-19 09:05:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take things slow. Be a friend to her and do not pressure her. When she is ready and over her ex then you can pursue a relationship with her.
2006-11-19 09:04:18 · answer #8 · answered by gentlgodis 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u should try to make her see that u are not like that other guy an do somtin really nice fer her ta show u u really do care.....maybe even say (and eventually get) a promise ring or somtin.....lol
2006-11-19 09:05:34 · answer #9 · answered by akvarn1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be patient.. show her sum love buy her gift and chocolate and ask her if she will like to take a walk in the beach or sum of her favorite place...things like that
2006-11-19 09:04:27 · answer #10 · answered by Styleish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋