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Question

have been chatting to a lad on line, who i met through yahoo answers, do i meet up with him? or do i just keep it as internet pals?

Answer 1

i think if two people get on then they should meet. but it has got to be from both sides .before i meet someone i would like to learn as much as i can about them to see if we would really hit it of in person i think she would probebly feel the same way if she thinks im a nice guy ihen she should contiue as we are and see what comes of it i like her a lot but dont want to commit to a meeting it might just end up ruining a friendship

Answer 2

You can only be the judge of that....is any of the info he has given you true? Is there any way for you to back up any of the info he has given you?
From your picture...I would assume that you are a grown women. So really the ball is in your court...you are your best judge. Any way if you do decide to meet him..make sure a family member or friend knows when you will be meeting and where. Make sure that you let them know what time you expect to be finished with this meeting. Also only meet this guy in a very public place...its a crazy world and you have to assume that everyone is a whack job. Just be safe!!! My father-in-law met his wife on a chat line...they have been married for 4 years and together for 6.
So anything is possible....just be careful!!!
Good Luck!!

Answer 3

Depends how long you have kept in contact with him. If it is over a long period of time then sure why not. But if you have only been in contact for a short period of time then I would just keep him as an internet pen pal for now. Either way if or when you meet him make sure your with a friend and you meet him in daylight just in case because you don't truly know what this person is like I mean yes he may seem nice but you never know until you meet because he could be lying. Just be careful in what ever you decide.

Good luck.

Answer 4

You can use your own instincts there. There are good and bad people every where. I suggest talking online more and making sure you have some of the same goals. If you do meet make sure its in a public place with lots of people like a coffee shop. And don't go for dinner make it lunch so you only have a short amount of time to meet. That way if you are both still interested then go for dinner. Besides you could be passing up the one you are supposed to be with.

Answer 5

i would only recommend meeting sum1 if u went with somebody, i am only 20 and at the age of 16 i met a 19 year old off the net, who i ended up having a relationship with for 6 months, i was lucky, u dont know what people are like out there, or whether they are telling you the truth about who they are. If u have only known him for a short while, i suggest u get to know this person a lot better, speak on the phone, get pictures, if it comes to u deffinety wanting to meet , then take sum1 with u, please.

Answer 6

If you're tempted.......

Meet in a neutral public place on a date that must by definition be fairly short, like a coffee at lunchtime when you have to get back to work. And lots of other people around, in case he really is a complete basket case.

Answer 7

Keep it as internet pals.
You could have been chatting to a psycho...
like me!

Answer 8

keep as internet pal

Answer 9

How long you been chatting? are you a good judge of character? are you on the rebound? Alot to think about here.

Answer 10

dont listen to people who tell you the net is full of stalkers there are stalkers in real life as well. use good judgement reguardless where you met him and enjoy your life.