Family & Relationships - 19 November 2006

i dont really now wut to call this guy... i am not dating him, coz we havent gone out on any dates, at the same time i cant say that we r friends with benefits, when there is only the benefits part, no friends. we have never talked about ourself. he would just come over and talk for a few mins and then we make out and stuff. i am ok with friends with benefits, but then i want that friends part too.. i want to talk, hang out .. outside MY room, do other stuff. but i dont know wut to do now. should i tell him that i want more, or should i just feel happy with wutever is going on or not think too much abt the whole situation?!!!!

2006-11-19 17:18:09 · 9 answers · asked by aiyinamyna 2 in Singles & Dating

she is very rude to her mother and dont like to tell us where she is
she thinks the world revolves around her what should we do

2006-11-19 17:17:49 · 15 answers · asked by Dean H 1 in Family

My boyfriend and I were together for 10 months. During our last month together he went home for the 1st time since his mother died a year ago to finally sell her property. They were very close and his sister told me he never properly grieved her death, as he was the "strong one" who dealt with all the practical issues while everyone else grieved.

When he came back things between us were distant and wierd and he broke up with me, saying he was real confused and citing "differences in how we were raised." Up until this weekend, we were very much in love, he'd take me out all the time, buy me little things "just because" and even say how much he couldn't wait for me to be part of his family.

I'm hurt and confused and we haven't spoken for almost two months. Anyone out there have any insight that isn't simply one line to "move on?"

2006-11-19 17:16:36 · 5 answers · asked by SummerPixie 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend then, now my baby's father told me he was a virgin when we were 2gether...A couple of months after we were 2gether he confessed to me that he lied to me and that he had been with another person before me, but it meant nothing. I am still tripping about this.. It hurts. He says that he lied to me because he didnt want to loose me. And then I find that he has been chatting with a girl and telling her he loves her...In the email she called me a "crazed *****." He told her about our problems. When i found the email. He said it was just to pass the time that it also didnt mean anything. I love him but the trust isnt there anymore. I just wanna know why he would lie to me... Its not the first time I catch him chatting wth other girls and having them call him... What do you guys think?

2006-11-19 17:15:24 · 29 answers · asked by Licha 1 in Singles & Dating

It could be getting a make-over to make you look and feel better and more confident about yourself.

2006-11-19 17:14:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

- you never propose to her, never give her any hint that you like her and then suddenly she just ask "you wanna court me". if you dont like her what should be the response without offending her or without looking like a guy who is not interested in girls-like gay.

2006-11-19 17:11:28 · 11 answers · asked by Ray-Gar 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-19 17:10:59 · 19 answers · asked by motown 1 in Singles & Dating

It has been a long period since I passed my Engg.Off cource she was my first sight love.Eventhough it was from my side only,my Happiness & Interest to life was of no imagine.The moment we passed,was the last time to see. She went from my life & got married with someone. Till this date I am not in contact with her.But she is not out of my imagine.Her memories always tease me.While walk,sleep,eat,roam,in friend or out, her memories will always remember of my deep heart break.My tears have no value,I think.At present,I have no intrest to pass the life,because her absence will let me to cry.Eating food is only to pass the life.I am not getting ,this time what should I do.So that I can have intrest in life.

2006-11-19 17:08:46 · 3 answers · asked by ali 1 in Friends

his friend told me he luvs me and he is planning on asking me if i luv him. i do like him, i just dont luv him! what should i tell him? plz help!

2006-11-19 17:08:38 · 18 answers · asked by Cutie P 2 in Singles & Dating

I found out I have a seven year old son a few months ago. The mother or I knew until his hair turned blonde and we got a dna test. We were so happy when we found out I was his dad. The mother and I have rekindled our relationship even though we live in different states, due to her and I being in the military. My son is confused because he thought another guy was his father for 7 years and now he knows I am. I try and get down to see him and his mother a couple times a month and we get along great, but he still thinks his mother and her ex will get back together. The mother and I plan on getting together when the divorce is over. We want to build a strong foundation for the family, but is hard with her ex. For our sons sake we still let him see his thought to be father every so often, but I think it is making it worse. We are doing it for Josh not for the ex, because I think the ex thinks if he sticks with our son he might have a chance with the mother. What can I say to our son. Help

2006-11-19 17:07:58 · 14 answers · asked by earthmover 1 in Family

Ok, we all play them, whether we want to admit it or not, but I think it's about realizing what we're up to and really want w/ someone else before they stop. So lots of advice says to give her the silent treatment, cold shoulder, etc. to push her to make her own decision b/c she is hot and cold, back and forth. Does this really work, brushing them off? It's going to take a conversation eventually, isn't it? How long would you or did you wait?

2006-11-19 17:07:29 · 1 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

sense is that most families are a source of stress, burdens, demands, and more often then not, rob people of their freedom to be authentically who they are via judgement, etc. so why would that be a good thing?

2006-11-19 17:05:53 · 7 answers · asked by Salsa 3 in Family

i was raped i blocked from serious thought and moved on until they spread rumors about me saying i spanked it with him and the other time i felt like just a piece of meat. my family was silent mostly we didn't talk about it. the one they knew all about, the others i don't know if they know after the first time i didn't let alot of people know abotu the other two.

nearly 20 now and don't know how other deal;t with thier expereinces, who did it it was friends with me and a new aquaintence. one had help holding me down while the other rpaed me like he was doing it consentually but didn't *** in me thank god. how is this affecting your life? do you thinkabout it and what do you think about when you do? i remember how much they enjoyed themselves the bastards. not even hearing me or caring what they were doing. one i know from him telling me years later he would have done it again. and i felt good to him. the freak.

2006-11-19 17:05:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok im 15 and im the nice guy i am a ladies man i treat women like they should and not like objects but ive pretty much snapped cause theres no room for nice guys and im thinking about jus treating women like most guys do ill be the asshole bf should i change or no i dont know im confused and really hurt help plz

2006-11-19 17:05:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

(Im using my bro's account because I don't have one) <--------- just a notifacation

Ok the situation is:
My mom lives in an apt. with my lil bro. A 33 year old dude also lives there. He is not related to me in anyway. He has been living there for about 2 years. My mom is still married with my dad which is living with me in another country.

Me and my eldest brother live in another country. My little brother lives in usa with my mom and that dude.

So, My mom says that she doesn't ever do IT (you know what I mean) with him. I truely belive she is lying. I got lots of proof.

So about a year ago my little brother wanted to come here because that guy always yells at him and sometimes pull his ear. My mom said that that guy never hit my brother. But agian I belive she is lying.

So, today I talked to her over the phone and that guy told her something and she told me to call back tommorow.
I need to get all that suff out of my head!!

This stuff is killing me!!!

2006-11-19 17:04:57 · 8 answers · asked by Scotty L. 1 in Family

i was raped i blocked from serious thought and moved on until they spread rumors about me saying i spanked it with him and the other time i felt like just a piece of meat. my family was silent mostly we didn't talk about it. the one they knew all about, the others i don't know if they know after the first time i didn't let alot of people know abotu the other two.

nearly 20 now and don't know how other deal;t with thier expereinces, who did it it was friends with me and a new aquaintence. one had help holding me down while the other rpaed me like he was doing it consentually but didn't *** in me thank god. how is this affecting your life? do you thinkabout it and what do you think about when you do? i remember how much they enjoyed themselves the bastards. not even hearing me or caring what they were doing. one i know from him telling me years later he would have done it again. and i felt good to him. the freak.

2006-11-19 17:03:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am in love with the most beautiful women i,ve ever seen ! We are really good friends and our relationship has become much more progressed(sex etc...) I know i love her but i,m not sure if she really loves me !When i tell her She says she does too but i,m not convinced. What do i do

2006-11-19 17:02:04 · 11 answers · asked by kwatt40000 2 in Friends

I need help. I am a freshman who is totally lost. When i was in middle school i used to be the bad azz kid. It totally rocked. I mean i loved it so much!! I was a jack morman. Witch means i was just preteding to be my religon. But then someone new moved to my town. My best friend now. He turned me around. But be as that may my old self was bad. He showed me how to be good. And i kinda adopted his personallity. No... I did. I have totally lost myself. Now im dull as ever and need help. How do i find myself again? I kant even remember what I used to be like. But now im a good morman with maybe 7 or 8 friends.2 really good ones. I used to like the old me so much better.

2006-11-19 17:01:25 · 9 answers · asked by help plz!!! 1 in Friends

2006-11-19 17:01:23 · 3 answers · asked by marmnz1 1 in Singles & Dating

I was with this guy Michael for 2 yrs,I'm 21.While we were together he was the most amazing boyfriend any girl could have asked for.While we were together he was sweet, gentle, thoughful, protective, loyal, funny,affectionate and incredibly attentive.I was so stupid and never appreciated him.I would ignore him for days at a time,not return his calls when I was moody,tell him off for the stupidest things just because I was in a bad mood and was generally very dismissive and bitchy towards him while we were together even thought he was always there for me.He broke-up with me 3 months ago and I didn't realize until he started dating someone new 2 weeks ago just what I lost.It hurts to see him look at her the way he used to look at me,to see him hold her hand and make her smile.I want him back so badly and I know he still loves me because a mutual friend told me he still keeps picture of us in his wallet.How do I get him back?

2006-11-19 17:01:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have always been the uptight one. Everyone tells me let go and go with the flow. Stop thinking and let fate take course. What does that mean and how to do exactly let go and take loose"?

2006-11-19 17:00:35 · 14 answers · asked by hoondong92 1 in Friends

2006-11-19 17:00:10 · 18 answers · asked by angel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-19 16:59:25 · 8 answers · asked by maddy 3 in Singles & Dating

liek he pushes on my hips and makes me moan...but i wanna do something liek tht for hijm...and ideas?

2006-11-19 16:59:20 · 8 answers · asked by vbchick325 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it always thinking about that special someone? Always missing them, when there not around? or thinking they are the only one for you?

2006-11-19 16:58:23 · 22 answers · asked by kwatt40000 2 in Singles & Dating

I need to become a more confident person.. I tend to feel like other people are better then me. Im not very outgoing and i dont really have many friends or a girlfriend because my social skills are really poor. I would like to attract friends but it seems so difficult. Im not good at aproaching people and starting converstaion. Can anyone gove me some advice that may help. Thanks in advance

2006-11-19 16:57:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I know it sounds very elementary but I just dont know where to put them. My hands are behind her back and one is grabbing my opposite wrist. So what should I do?

2006-11-19 16:56:12 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When you're in a relationship, do you find it annoying if the girl is more fun than serious? Regarding topics of conversations.
Do guys shy away if the girl can't be on a serious level such as talking about problems, etc..?

2006-11-19 16:56:01 · 7 answers · asked by feisty 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-19 16:55:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My room-mate is always irritating me. When she has a problem, she wants everyone to be involved in it. For instance, there were ants in her room and she asked me to help her check for the nest so that she can put some insecticide to kill them. But, I had 2 study that night because I have a paper to sit for 2moro. So, one hour of my study time was wasted just to help her. Another example is when her computer was infected by viruses. She asked me to look at her computer. And I mean LOOK literally! At that time, I was so busy concentrating on other things! She's always asking me to do this and that when I have other things to do. It feels as if I don't have time for myself. It's so irritating!

2006-11-19 16:53:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships