i was raped i blocked from serious thought and moved on until they spread rumors about me saying i spanked it with him and the other time i felt like just a piece of meat. my family was silent mostly we didn't talk about it. the one they knew all about, the others i don't know if they know after the first time i didn't let alot of people know abotu the other two.
nearly 20 now and don't know how other deal;t with thier expereinces, who did it it was friends with me and a new aquaintence. one had help holding me down while the other rpaed me like he was doing it consentually but didn't *** in me thank god. how is this affecting your life? do you thinkabout it and what do you think about when you do? i remember how much they enjoyed themselves the bastards. not even hearing me or caring what they were doing. one i know from him telling me years later he would have done it again. and i felt good to him. the freak.
2006-11-19 17:03:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
u poor thing. this literally makes me sick.
this has never happen to me. but i hope you find somone you can talk to and confide in..and ill keep you in my prayers<33
And the girl above me is a btich...and you arent sick. they are.
2006-11-19 17:07:13 · answer #1 · answered by FairChild 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It has happened to me 3 times to my mom's 2ND husband and my grandmother's boyfriend and a foster father. you never get over it or forget about it but you try to move on. and if you press charges the one thing they ask you in court is if you had a orgasm if you did they say it wasn't rape so the system is no help. Just remember it wasn't your fault and some day those bastards will be payed back in some other form that will hurt them more.
2006-11-19 18:22:46 · answer #2 · answered by HEATHER C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell people.They will find out just what type of peolpe they are. Some people want believe you but some will. You have nothing to be ashame of. My was by several family members. But I am old enough to take care of it. I was dating this very special guy. He understood what I was going through. He didn't push sex on me at all. I married that special guy. It took me a long time to get over that. Some times when we would have sex I would start crying. When I would cry he would stop making love to me and just hold me. He told me that no one would ever put there hands on me ever. I trust him and have been married to that special guy for 20 years no. I have seen those people several times since I have been old enough to take care of it. I told them if they ever put there hands on anyone else I would hurt them and I would. They know that I am serious. Dead serious. It will take time to get over it. But you will find that special some one that will take care of you and give you the security that you need. Good luck and I wish you the best.
2006-11-19 17:28:08 · answer #3 · answered by Ready G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing sick about you as one other fool tried to claim.
I am so sorry about what happened to you. I recommend, like the others before me that you seek a counsellor. The memories will probably always be with you and plague you but they will actually make you a stronger person. About the sick morons that did that to you they will pay in some other way (karma always prevails). Have faith.
2006-11-19 17:19:00 · answer #4 · answered by stephiecox 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a rape crisis center in your area and talk in confidence to people who understand all the issues associated with this. You need to talk to people who really understand and who can give you advice on what to expect or what you shouldn't be concerned about, etc.
2006-11-19 17:08:33 · answer #5 · answered by WhiteLilac1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a woman but you should have went to the police and watched them go to prison where they would have been some big old jock's "girl"friend
2006-11-19 17:08:22 · answer #6 · answered by grassmanfive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to talk to someone, so you can get over this, (if you can), so you can move on...because it sounds like you haven't...and life isn't worth living if you're thinking about this day in and day out...sorry about what happened to you...
2006-11-19 17:11:14 · answer #7 · answered by Jenna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some professional help honey, you aren't dealing with this very well.......They aren't freaks, hon, they are sick, and sadly, so are you....
2006-11-19 17:06:22 · answer #8 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
LOL YOU DESERVED TO BE RAPED MAYBE IF YOU STOP BEING SO PREJUDICE THAT WOULDN'T HAVE HAPPENED I HOPE YOU GET RAPED AGAIN GO TO HELL ***** AND SUCK ON A DICK!!HA HA HA
DON'T BOTHER ME AGAIN
2006-11-20 02:07:59 · answer #9 · answered by ♠Whoa!♠ 2 · 0⤊ 8⤋