Family & Relationships - 19 November 2006

It's like every time me and her get together, there is this palpable silence when we're about to go our seperate ways. We have/had (I really don't know where we're even at right now) dated for 6 mos. But every single time we're about to hang up or go home, it's like she's waiting for me to say something more, deeper. We love each other for sure and have been able to tell each other (and show each other) in the past, but she wanted time for herself and still texts me all the time, and these silences...What is she waiting to hear me tell her? Again, these awkward silences didn't start until she told me she needed to be on her own (which was fine for 18 hours until she started texting me about a hundred times that weekend).

2006-11-19 17:43:42 · 4 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

well people say that look doesn't matter but well that is not true and looks does matter to alot of people and well i don't have any chances to be with someone cause i am not attractive and i am not good enough for anyone so my chances are very slim...........

2006-11-19 17:43:09 · 18 answers · asked by ali 3 in Singles & Dating

when i take more responsible he tend to lazy down and avoid doing things which are easy for him to do??

2006-11-19 17:42:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-19 17:42:24 · 12 answers · asked by sfgjhsfgjsfgj d 1 in Friends

I'm 27, been feeling this lonliness and sadness for a long time...it really does hurt. I see other people who have each other in their lives, but when I look at myself I wonder where did I go wrong? I almost feel like crying...I wish this pain would just go away...

2006-11-19 17:40:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-19 17:39:38 · 13 answers · asked by Jojomon 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been dating this guy for about a month..........and we like each other, and we get along pretty great, I guess you could say we have good chemestry, anyway we want to move into a town house together and go to college, only to save money on rent yah know? we aren't serious in our relationship, but we do plan on having sex...maybe even tomorrow? Im 18, and I hate living at home I HAVE to get out of here, but am I doing the right thing?

2006-11-19 17:39:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-19 17:39:05 · 7 answers · asked by sweet_leaf 7 in Friends

My gf says that I am a true Gemini because is like been with 2 different people. If you been with a gemini explain to me why we fit our sign?

2006-11-19 17:38:27 · 10 answers · asked by onelia 1 in Friends

Okay I have a serious problem. I met a man who is really not my type. He is not financially secure and does not have many goals in life. On top of that he is married and separated, and about to get a divorce. His wife said she will not agree to a divorce so that is the only reason he is still married.

However on the contrar, this man is awesome in bed. He makes me *** all the time. There is only one other man that made me *** before. This man is passionate and he is great in bed. I don't know what to do. His d*** is great. I am addicted. What do I do?? I want to stop and I know he is not what I need, but his body is so fine, and he has a big d***. Plus he goes down on me and he is good at it. I am getting turned on just typing this and thinking about it. What do I do ladies and gents??

Do I keep him for my own pleasures or do I get rid of him. Please help me. I was celibate but now I am having sex all the time and loving it. What do I do?? Do I keep him??

2006-11-19 17:38:16 · 10 answers · asked by Tonya 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm 23 and my first relationship was when I was 17 and it lasted about 3 years. I've been with my current boyfriend for just over 3 years. There was a couple months break between the 2 serious ones. I've never really dated and I would like to experience it. Do you tell your partner that or is that too harsh for someone to hear. I'm not talking about sex, just meeting new people and if I want to see a guy a few times, then cool. I basiclly want to be single and keep my options open.

Just to make myself clear to you guys, I want to break up with my bf. I wouldn't meet other guys while I'm still with him.

2006-11-19 17:37:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

And honestly my friends are staring to ask questions about this person, and when they ask if the person I met is a friend or what?, I find it hard to describe, because we have never actually met, so I kind of find it hard to say their a signifigent other, but at the same time my feelings for them are so great, it is impossible to call them just a friend. what would you say if you were me?

2006-11-19 17:37:19 · 11 answers · asked by Sentinel 3 in Singles & Dating

How does it work, or how do they figure up the amount of child support the father's fixed amount? What if the mother is remarried, the Hubby works and she has had another child with new hubby and chooses to stay at home instead of returning to work? Does this affect the amount the father pays even though the new hubby provides support and insurance? Also the father has not seen the child in over three years, and no attemps at contact AT ALL in that time. How is this handled???

2006-11-19 17:37:16 · 5 answers · asked by Country 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, my boyfriend and i have been goin togetha for about 3 months. We really like each other alot. He asked me to kiss him the other night but i kinda chickened out. I really want to but i'm just i guess scared. He keeps tellin me not to do sumthin that i dont wanna do and he never pressures me. I guess I'm just askin how should i kiss him. I mean i dont wanna mess up or anything. I really want to so its not a pressure thing. Wat should i do? I really like him alot. PLZ help me!!!!

2006-11-19 17:36:12 · 12 answers · asked by curiouscutie 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-19 17:35:39 · 20 answers · asked by slaphappy 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-19 17:34:27 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met a guy.I gave him my number. Everything seemed perfect until he told me he was married.he was honest with me from the beginning.I totally turned him down and told him I don't get down like that.he said he only wanted to be friends since we worked at the same place.I'm not stupid and left it at that.I told him that if he was expecting more than a friendship he was wasting time.time went on,I slowly fell in love w him.One thing led to another and we had sex.I wasn't the psycho type.I would never tell him to leave his family ever,but now this affair has gone on for almost two years.I moved away bout 1 yr ago but we still stay in touch and when I go home we see each other not sexually all the time.I have a boyfriend, but I can truly say I love the other one.He always said if he ever cheated it would have to be w/ someone better than her (me)he has told me he loves me,but he loves his son 2 much (understood).This is just 2 long to have been only 4 sex. Men, what does he really feel?

2006-11-19 17:34:11 · 19 answers · asked by anonymouslover 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i heard some peole saying if girls can not look you straight in the eyes she must have a feeling for you. ever heard this? whats in the eyes that will tell me that. i pretty sure i can not tell if she likes me by looking into her eyes. what about girls?

2006-11-19 17:32:33 · 9 answers · asked by Ray-Gar 2 in Singles & Dating

ok i've been talking to this girl but were friends but i like her more then a friend, i asked her if we were friends or more then friends she didnt give me an answer, that was like a month or two ago, but i want to ask her out as bf and gf but how do i know she like me like that, we talk on the phone like 2 or 3 times a week but when we talk we can talk for hours, im really confused

2006-11-19 17:30:59 · 8 answers · asked by motown 1 in Singles & Dating

Yea like many of the answers I have gotten, I know Im stupid for still being wit my babys father...its complete drama. I've told him that Im through with him...and to not call me... He's a wannabe gangster an a alkoholik... He's been tryin to change for bout 3 years. Im not stupid I know he wont... So why doesnt he leave me alone? I know he doesnt love me? Like I mentioned in my other question I have caught him chatting online with other girls and having them call him... He says he loves me... I dont know whether to believe him or not? He 's extremely jealous... Its almost as if he thinks he owns me... Ive made it clear that he doesn't What do I have to do for him to leave me alone?

2006-11-19 17:29:00 · 11 answers · asked by Licha 1 in Singles & Dating

I mean couples of a different race

2006-11-19 17:28:59 · 16 answers · asked by kemah k 1 in Singles & Dating

see my lil sister is about to married a man who realy dont love her he hits on me he cheats on her he go with another girl he steals from her i can't take it anymore i have tried telling her in her face but she dont belive me so how can i tell her so she will not get hurt

2006-11-19 17:27:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i love roses i dont know why but everything about them makes me feel good!!!!!!!

2006-11-19 17:25:29 · 24 answers · asked by *****heart***** 2 in Singles & Dating

Well she is 18 and i'm wondering what to buy her for Christmas.. She likes music, dancing, writing, reading.

2006-11-19 17:24:47 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i'm in high school so keep it to that level.

2006-11-19 17:24:35 · 24 answers · asked by DANCER_CHiCK 2 in Singles & Dating

A friend is carrying on a sexual relationship with a married man while they are both are deployed. I suspect he thinks the fling is just that, a fling, and will discontinue any contact with her upon his return to his duty station. She is hoping they will continue to communicate and she will see him from time to time when she returns to her duty station.

Also, she tells he me keeps his wedding ring on during the act which I find a little odd. He talks about his wife from time to time (nothing major from what I understand) and his child.

I don't know why she thinks there is a chance for something further when they finish their deployments.

I think she should end it because he won't communicate with her after the deployment. She thinks he will.

What do you think?

2006-11-19 17:22:15 · 11 answers · asked by buffybeast 2 in Singles & Dating

so she knows that i like her and says she wants to get to know me too. but admitted that she has feelings for another guy, so we aren't going to date. she said that she likes to build a friendship and have an emotional connection before dating. but then she says stuff like "whether we become just acquaintances or friends or you know, whatever" and i can't help but let it give me hope. am i wrong to read into this stuff?

2006-11-19 17:20:42 · 2 answers · asked by rhiannon_kc 1 in Singles & Dating

She prosed with her and one of her girlfriends and its not that she isnt vute and all, but i'm just not comfortable with that. At the same time i dont want her to think i'm narrow minded about experimenting. Is there any way I can show her i'm interested in doing fun things but just not with someone else?

2006-11-19 17:20:17 · 21 answers · asked by john s 1 in Singles & Dating

i am 23 years old girl.
all my cousins and frds of my age and even younger one's have got married but i am still single?

2006-11-19 17:19:40 · 15 answers · asked by sfh 1 in Singles & Dating

what do u call a friend who acts one way with u but then in company or with 1 more person there they act like total jerks to u, when u been nothing but a good friend to them.

2006-11-19 17:18:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends