Yea like many of the answers I have gotten, I know Im stupid for still being wit my babys father...its complete drama. I've told him that Im through with him...and to not call me... He's a wannabe gangster an a alkoholik... He's been tryin to change for bout 3 years. Im not stupid I know he wont... So why doesnt he leave me alone? I know he doesnt love me? Like I mentioned in my other question I have caught him chatting online with other girls and having them call him... He says he loves me... I dont know whether to believe him or not? He 's extremely jealous... Its almost as if he thinks he owns me... Ive made it clear that he doesn't What do I have to do for him to leave me alone?
2006-11-19 17:29:00 · 11 answers · asked by Licha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ms. Tata, girl, you gotta get a protection order on his a-s-s.
Thens you gits you a real big gun, an' keep that joker loaded. Be lookin' out, girlfriend.
2006-11-19 17:31:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hey girlie!
I will truly say that if the man is having problems with alcohol, you should reallyyyy start thinking about a change for yourself. If you have that feeling in your gut that nothing is going to change, then it won't.. I think woman have a special sense about things, so follow your instincts.
i am a man, 31 years old, I've been through drugs and alcohol, but I can tell you that I got out of it just because I wanted to.
Else if you have a kid with this guy and he is still looking for other persons, dont you lie to yourself, he is actually looking for some hot action and you shouldn't tolerate that because you are his kid's mom.
I truly think he thinks he owns you, this man is gonna be a problem when you try to leave, he is gonna be mean with you.
Thing is do you love him in a way you could tell him to get some help and stop drinking (that is one way to start a change dont you think).. if not.. I would be probably looking another way if I where you.
Sorry girl, life is though, but if you let it, life will kick your butt. So grab the bull by the horns or leave.
2006-11-19 17:39:24 · answer #2 · answered by Hugo B 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Im not quite sure but...it seems that he's seperated or divorced or WHATEVER but he probably wants some more contact with you. To say, "ok i made a mistake and blah blah blah" and all that crap but in a rough way, yea, he definetely wants control but he's kinda saying sorry, i want u back in a wrong way, just ring the cops and they shud do something about it.
hope it'll b fine. goodluck
2006-11-19 17:35:04 · answer #3 · answered by sps_cherry 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
he does think he owns you, like your property to him. hes allowed to talk to any piece of *** that he wants to. but if you decide to move on he bugs out. worst thing about it is that there is a child involved now. he should be part of the childs life. but you have to make it clear that you and him are done. get a restraining order if he continues to bother you when you dohn't want him to.
2006-11-19 17:33:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Move or call the cops on him to get a restraining order
2006-11-19 17:30:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you really want him to leave you alone, change your number and file a restraining order.
2006-11-19 17:32:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
well i have no ideabut i can say this. once a guy is doing all this than hell never change. the best thing is to just move on and hope thigs get better.
2006-11-19 17:32:35 · answer #7 · answered by *****heart***** 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
HE wont leave you a lone because he wants control. I DONT believe thies type of people can LOVE.
2006-11-19 17:31:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should just stop calling or returning his phone calls.If he lives with you tell him to pack his **** and get the **** out!!Get rid of him now before things get any worse.
2006-11-19 17:51:16 · answer #9 · answered by serenity 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dear tata,
Why dont you repeat what he is doing to you. You go out and socialize with other guys and indirectly he will know that you are not his anymore.
2006-11-19 17:32:36 · answer #10 · answered by THILLAI a 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋