Okay I have a serious problem. I met a man who is really not my type. He is not financially secure and does not have many goals in life. On top of that he is married and separated, and about to get a divorce. His wife said she will not agree to a divorce so that is the only reason he is still married.
However on the contrar, this man is awesome in bed. He makes me *** all the time. There is only one other man that made me *** before. This man is passionate and he is great in bed. I don't know what to do. His d*** is great. I am addicted. What do I do?? I want to stop and I know he is not what I need, but his body is so fine, and he has a big d***. Plus he goes down on me and he is good at it. I am getting turned on just typing this and thinking about it. What do I do ladies and gents??
Do I keep him for my own pleasures or do I get rid of him. Please help me. I was celibate but now I am having sex all the time and loving it. What do I do?? Do I keep him??
2006-11-19 17:38:16 · 10 answers · asked by Tonya 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him how you feel. Sex is not the only thing is a relationship. If he isn't what you want then dump him. You will find another guy that can please you in bed. You will find some one like you want if you look hard enough. It isn't hard. You just have to try. There are plenty of guys that are good in bed. You look hard enough and you can find a guy that you look at will make you *** just from across the room. So be honest and tell the guy. He may be willing to change and make some goals in his life. Talk to him and see what you two can work out. Good luck.
2006-11-19 17:46:56 · answer #1 · answered by Ready G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know this must be hard for you, but reality is if you don't dump him he will dump you. They start ignoring you and you beg and plead and they disappear as if they never even knew you. They label you as a stalker...laugh with their friends and move on...Found mine on three dating sites already had his profile up for NSA Married guys after awhile figure the wife will get everything, the house the cars and the kids...you are left high and dry (sorry no pun intended) (Sorry Honey been there done that recently and I am way old enough to know better.)
2006-11-20 02:29:19 · answer #2 · answered by e_piphany214 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said his wife said SHE would not give him a divorce? Is this something HE has told you or did his wife actually tell you this? I have my doubts that he ever intended to divorce his wife. Men use that line all of the time just so they can have a "fling" with someone. If your pleasure is worth allowing yourself to be used as a whore, if your self esteem is that bad then by all means let him use you as his whore. If you have higher standards you wouldn't have to ask this question.
2006-11-20 01:43:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have to ask yourself on what's your goal in the future. I mean do you want to have a family of your own someday? Can you manage to live in pleasures alone? But for how long does it last? Evaluate yourself and I'm sure you'll find someone worthy of you...
2006-11-20 01:47:04 · answer #4 · answered by josie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The fastest way to get out of this relationship is to take pictures of you two having sex, and then send a copy to his wife.
You'll be out of it REAL FAST!!!! and she'll change her mind and agree to a divorce. Solves all the problems!
2006-11-20 02:24:06 · answer #5 · answered by Michael 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What you're having is just sex. You should try this with someone who's understanding, stable and you're in love with...that will turn sex into lovemaking (a far more intense and pleasurable experience)
2006-11-20 01:44:28 · answer #6 · answered by DrSH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of married men say she won't give me a divorce ,you might be falling for some crap . You know it's just lust and it will crumble into horrible fights .
2006-11-20 01:43:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
*** is not everything. (yes close, but not everything). Honesty and communication are more important. Do you want to have great *** and be starving too? Get someone who is better as a person, then teach him how you like to be ******. Then you will have the best of everything.
2006-11-20 01:42:42 · answer #8 · answered by clueless_nerd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah! Just Shag him. I'm sure he won't mind!
2006-11-20 01:41:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
tell youwhat...i'll report you
2006-11-20 01:41:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋