I've been dating this guy for about a month..........and we like each other, and we get along pretty great, I guess you could say we have good chemestry, anyway we want to move into a town house together and go to college, only to save money on rent yah know? we aren't serious in our relationship, but we do plan on having sex...maybe even tomorrow? Im 18, and I hate living at home I HAVE to get out of here, but am I doing the right thing?
2006-11-19 17:39:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the sex has nothing to do with moving in together, and we'll use protection, I only had sex with on other guy ONCE so I highly doubt I look like an unpaid whore, and we aren't moving in together to "further" our relationship just to have a roomate :) and theres no way I can stay at home, Ill die here....literally
2006-11-19 17:47:24 · update #1
well the first thing you should consider is would your friendship change if you moved in with him? Often times, people dont mesh as well as they thought they would prior to moving in together. What if when you get to collge you want to explore other men....what will that do to your relationship/roommateship? if you do move in, make sure u two establish boundaraies and set expectations. Communication is key!!
2006-11-19 18:42:20 · answer #1 · answered by bgsfnstldy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know the answer to that or you wouldn't be asking us. First, you've only known him a month--way too short a time to get into a live in situation. Second, chemistry doesn't mean anything. It's just means that you want to have sex and he looks good. You need something more substantial then that to have a relationship with someone. As someone else said, if you move in together and invest money in a place, then six weeks or months later you have to move out because the guy is a real jerk, how have you saved money?
Stay with your parents until you can get a better vision on how you want your life to be. Or find some girls to share a place with. With them you won't have all the emotional and sexual issues to deal with.
2006-11-19 17:51:41 · answer #2 · answered by Ellen J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Because, you have doubts. I think your gut instinct is telling you this idea isn't right. You say you hate living at home...understood but I think you are already disliking this idea too (you are not too comfortable with it, that's why you are asking right? Besides, girl, you are going to be meeting lots of people in college and when you meet someone else you really like believe me he won't like the idea that your roommate is another guy. Best of luck! I know you want to move in with him. Just tell him you are not ready, By the way a month seems like too short a time even if you've been together 24/7. You are right to have some doubts. I'm glad you are asking before moving. DON'T DO IT. BAAAAAAAAAAAD IDEA!
2006-11-19 17:49:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know ur question is for the guys....but in my opinion I think if there's a connection between the both of u nd the other person is too shy to make the move then u should go for it before u regret not doin it...also don't act too desperate because the other person may be turned off by that!!....Like I said, it all depends on the relationship =]...but girls don't make the first move cause the guy will think ur easy nd they will always expect u to make the move =| Don't ask the person wat they want u to do to them...u'll know at the heat of the moment, it just happens!! On the other hand, others may think differently to my answer as to u, but all I can say is I hope my answer will be some use to u nd good luck in finding the right one =D
2016-05-21 21:40:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is an All Mens Dreams. Which guy dont want?
Free sex and no committment !
Imagine your bf, or maybe a husband wanna be. Have sex with girls anytime you want. See how you feels.
And to tell you. Any guys in the worlds, unless they are not serious. Any guy in the world if founds out about what you did. Its a super big turn off. Even thou if you believes he will accept it. But reality, NO. NO guys will able to take that.
Be responsible of what you do, face the consquences.
2006-11-19 18:56:08 · answer #5 · answered by aguyin1981 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit fooling yourself. Charge him twenty a trick.
If you want a real life free of heart ache and present your husband with something other than an unpaid whore, respect yourself and go to college without selling your body. Move in with girl friends or into a dorm, or stick it out at your parents, put all your effort into college, it will be more challenging than you think.
2006-11-19 17:44:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Curiousam, NO you are not doing the right thing. It looks to me he just wants you for 2 things: SEX AND RENT MONEY. If you want to move out away from your parent, find a girl your age and them you can move out, and your parents won't have to worry that much with a girl room-mate.
Clowmy
2006-11-19 17:47:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, i moved in with a guy i though i had good chemistry with after a month and i moved out 6 weeks later. you'll save more money if you stay with your parents.
2006-11-19 17:42:19 · answer #8 · answered by Ditsey24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
F*** No. You need to be together longer than that. Shacking up is not the answer. Look around. that is how you get pregnant.
2006-11-19 17:44:30 · answer #9 · answered by DV 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋