see my lil sister is about to married a man who realy dont love her he hits on me he cheats on her he go with another girl he steals from her i can't take it anymore i have tried telling her in her face but she dont belive me so how can i tell her so she will not get hurt
2006-11-19 17:27:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi Nat, This is a terrible game he is playing.Do you know any of the girls he cheated with?? If you do you need to get ahold of one of them, Before she marrys this CHEATING,STEALING
B A S T A R D. Maybe then she will believe what you have been trying to tell her. If she marry him,she will never be happy. He will turn her life upside down. Do you best to STOP this wedding from HELL.
Clowmy
2006-11-19 17:40:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's your sister and you only want her to be happy! So it's awesome that you're trying to keep her from getting hurt.
The thing is though, that she is so obviously blinded by love that she can't see it any other way. There comes a point where you just have to let go and let her discover it all for herself. It's not like you didn't try!
If letting it go just isn't an option for you, you could always try to go all super-spy-extraordinaire on his *** and then document it. It'd be painful for your sister to see, but it'd definitely snap her back into reality.
Best of luck, I hope it turns out okay and that your sister doesn't make a big mistake!
2006-11-20 01:35:19 · answer #2 · answered by koala988 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gather proof as quickly as possible and prove to ur sis how the men can stood so low n dont deserve her love. does the man always ask her money? in that case talk to ur sis once and beg her to trust u for only one time. tell her not to give the man money. see wrther he is angry and be violent wiz ur sis. then make ur sis realise that this man want only money wiz her. take some picture of the amn wiz other girls.this is not difficult play for the sake of ur sis James Bond. spy on him an sure this will work.
2006-11-20 01:34:57 · answer #3 · answered by sham 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set up a video camera or tape recorder let him think your alone and tell him I'm worried about you you marrying my sister tell him why and catch his responses on video and don't be dumb enough to tell him you caught him just be patient until you can show her.
2006-11-20 01:32:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't. She is in a stage of denial.It is kind of like the process of grieving-the person is in denial until they realize it theirself. You can't do anything if you tried already.She knows it but is just in denial. You can't change a person that doesn't want to change. You can't help a person that doesn't want to be helped.It has to start with them.Sorry but that is about the size of it.Just be there when she comes out of denial.
2006-11-20 01:31:50 · answer #5 · answered by RoxieC 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
catch him in the act with her watching. If the only way for her to believe it is with her eyes or hard evidence so be it. She has to see that this man is not faithful and she should leave him.
2006-11-20 01:32:16 · answer #6 · answered by ♡StarGirl♡ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get video proof, shes too far into it to have anythign less, she will deny it out of hope, adn infatuation, she will be hurt no matter what, but its better to make a quick clean cut now, than 5 years from now, and have it be a big messy divorce.
2006-11-20 01:32:06 · answer #7 · answered by irishthunda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you told her and she does not believe you, what else can you do? I guess she deserves whatever she gets. She will find out what a dog he is, but it might be after she marries him. Just pray they don't have any kids.
2006-11-20 01:33:04 · answer #8 · answered by nesmith52 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You cant, the more you say the more she will want to stay with him...She'll figure it out oneday herself....
2006-11-20 02:15:08 · answer #9 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋