I have always been the uptight one. Everyone tells me let go and go with the flow. Stop thinking and let fate take course. What does that mean and how to do exactly let go and take loose"?
2006-11-19 17:00:35 · 14 answers · asked by hoondong92 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
its difficult to stop thinking... but set ur targets... concentrate on it.... automatically, u ll b left with no time of thinking.... work n work till u r exhausted...it works!!!
2006-11-19 17:03:11 · answer #1 · answered by bandu1o1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've always interpreted "going with the flow...".-to mean letting events run their course, without any major interference from people being affected by them. The problem IS, to people like you & me (& yes, I can't shut down MY brain neurons- either), we can't always just sit idley by & watch things go to Bagdad in a handbasket. The trick seems to BE, knowing WHEN to do WHAT- & letting the rest go, without losing our minds in the process. And maybe the only way to achieve THAT- is to closely monitor the events we're faced with- & prioritize which of those we think are worth getting involved in. I don't think that's easy. But if we intend to live to a ripe old age, it's probably a pretty good idea...
2006-11-20 01:18:44 · answer #2 · answered by Joseph, II 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think what they mean is for you to just relax and appreciate what's around you. There's nothing wrong with thinking. It's necessary and it shows you have a brain. Keep thinking as much as possible only change your thinking to thinking about your inner most desires and passions. Think about things that make you happy and do them. Think postive things and positive things will happen. Think about being the coolest, nicest, most sincere person and you feel a whole better about yourself.
2006-11-20 01:06:51 · answer #3 · answered by danny_austin4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one thing its a figure of speech it just means you dont always need to stop always thinking before you act,take a few risks here and there , do what you heart says not you mind , if you want to do somthing just do it , dont always worry about the consquences,
dont sweat the small stuff, theres always bigger and better things
2006-11-20 01:06:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It YOU that don't want to let go .
Get distracted . Get busy with sports and focus on piority .
Get yourself worn out with work, sports, family. And you won't have enough time to even think about it !
2006-11-20 01:09:54 · answer #5 · answered by justbeenfound 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it's not about thinking but dwelling. thinkings great, you can achieve and concieve so much the difficulty is when we alow ourselves to dwell on negative or potentialy negative senarios. it is simply about re dirrecting you focus. ask your self teh question constructive or destructive? if the answer is constructive think away if not try to redirect
2006-11-20 01:05:20 · answer #6 · answered by much2big4school 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thinking of wat..???
gal???
stop thinking & let fate take course.. mean if she is yrs.. she definitely is yrs.. wont fly away from yr finger one...
stop thinking of gal's problem.. cos yr love will comes oneday..
2006-11-20 01:04:43 · answer #7 · answered by Rosia R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm.... I've been trying to figure that out myself. Let me knoe what you come up with.
2006-11-20 01:05:04 · answer #8 · answered by sixnow25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a pet. It helps to relax and get busy with it.
2006-11-20 01:04:43 · answer #9 · answered by tanyasiv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are some web sites out there that can help you learn to relax through meditation. google it baby!
2006-11-20 01:52:50 · answer #10 · answered by beckdawgydawg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋