Family & Relationships - 19 November 2006

THis guy i met in class hung out with me the other day because i asked him to come with me to my friends party. He didnt know anyone except me so he asked two other friends to come. We had a good time before the party, walking around waiting, for 2 hours. We went to the pet store, the park, a toy shop. During those times he did all these things to try to keep me entertained because i didnt know his friends, tried to make me laugh, have something to talk about.

I know he's nice and i know that he has a lot of friends that are girls.

i dont know if his nice behavior to me is just because he's nice, is trying to be nice to me, sees me as a friend or something more? I leave him comments. called him once so far he hasnt been doing anything to show that he wants to get to know me more except talk to me in class a lot. Should i wait and see if he's going to invite me to hang out with him some more? what if he doesnt?
before he left me he also said.. "call me if you need me"

2006-11-19 16:20:06 · 16 answers · asked by sam3345 1 in Singles & Dating

A few years ago my husband had an affair with my then best friend. I recently went out of town for the weekend and when I got back my husband said he wanted to let me know that she had called him because she said she was having a bad day. I find that a little hard to believe that after all this time she would feel comfortable enough to call and talk to him. I feel like maybe he isn't telling me everything. Am I being paranoid or am I justified in my feelings?

2006-11-19 16:19:44 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

The couple was married and has always resided in California. The husband wants to go to China to divorce his wife. Is this legal in California? Can he do this?

2006-11-19 16:19:24 · 6 answers · asked by Al 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-19 16:16:47 · 22 answers · asked by Sharukh 1 in Singles & Dating

My wedding is in December. It is a Winterwonderland/Disney. I am not sure what colors I should go with and I need some ideas.

2006-11-19 16:16:09 · 22 answers · asked by little bear 2 in Weddings

she needed time for herself, that this wasn't meant to be, that she has never been "ready" enough to date seriously, etc., etc. Fine, pretty straight forward, but she also says I am too good for her, that I deserve better than her and so on, and I am starting to believe that she really believes what she says, but it is proposterous. We had a situation brewing for some time b/c basically she doesn't communicate so well, but it stems from something in her past (still don't know what) that's really affected her trust. She got frustrated and told me she wants me to stop worrying about her. I responded w/ 2 things: it's not worry, it's care b/c I care, and second, if she wants me to stop worrying about her, I want her to stop deciding who and what I deserve b/c that's my choice to make for myself. This hasn't totally gone away, I know we're both right, and I intend to settle this w/ her and yet she texts me about 20X/day. I went cold, disappeared today. How am I doing?

2006-11-19 16:16:07 · 9 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

Okay I have heard people say that when you are with someone for so long you fall in and out of love with them is this true? I mean you always love them but being in love do you fall in and out of love?

2006-11-19 16:15:56 · 5 answers · asked by SunShineBabe 3 in Singles & Dating

Can you get arrested for that? I was wondering because nowadays a lot of my classmates had no discipline at all. And to me it appears as if the parents are scared. What if the teen or child did something wrong to you or anyone, can you hit them? In your house, public, wherever and if they call the cops, can you get in trouble?

I always wondered that, because a lot of teenagers in my class say they never get spanked or else they would seriously run away, or call the cops.

2006-11-19 16:14:32 · 21 answers · asked by ? 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-19 16:14:23 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bf abused me in june coz he saw me dancing with another guy. He broke up n told me im a cheap gurl along with abuses . then he stopped contacting me. But after a month he started contacting through text mesgs. Again not very pleasant mesgs. but now on 14th he again abused me as he kept asking me through text mesgs if i had gone on a date with another guy. But i kept silent and he again abused me through mesgs tht im a prostitute. He told me he wants to slap me n abuse me I mesgd tht i was with my parents n was very sick n not on date with any guy but he didnt believe me n sent abusive mesgs. When next day 2 mesgs were sent by chance to him by me, He abused me n mesgd tht if another mesg i send...he will break my hands n abused me. Why does he abuse me???I replied tht im very much scared of him n to keep away from me. Now he doesnt even look at me considering me to be a cheap gurl . Its been 6-7 days he stopped contacting me. DO U THINK HE WILL MESG OR CONTACT ME AGAIN ???

2006-11-19 16:14:13 · 7 answers · asked by saikiena 1 in Singles & Dating

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2006-11-19 16:13:45 · 6 answers · asked by AK 1 in Singles & Dating

I like a girl that I've been friends with. She would call me for advice about her boyfriend and I'd let her cry on my shoulder. Problem is, I have strong feelings for her and she just broke up with her boyfriend last week. I know she likes me as a friend, but I don't know if she'd consider me as a boyfriend since she still loves her ex boyfriend. What should I do? Should I tell her how I feel and if so, when and how?

2006-11-19 16:13:12 · 7 answers · asked by D F 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-19 16:13:00 · 6 answers · asked by Heatmizer 5 in Singles & Dating

okay so this girl dont like me for whatever reason and she keeps talking shitt like shes gonna do something...im not scared to fight her just kinda scared of who she'll try to make fight me even tho this is between us...should i approach her and beat the hell outta her or what?...i also need advice on the whole situation....

2006-11-19 16:12:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-19 16:12:06 · 12 answers · asked by saksham sharma 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-19 16:09:09 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been talking to a friend of a really good friend on the internet for the last 3 or 4 months and he is moving at the beginning of next year. He wants to meet me. I really want to, but I'm not sure I should because of all the internet hook-ups I hear about, men luring girls over the internet and kidnapping them when they meet. I completely trust my friend that introduced me to this guy, and he trusts this guy. I'm just not sure if I'd be setting myself up for something to go wrong. He is older than me, but only by about 4-5 years. He's really nice and he jokes around like all guys do, but he makes it clear that he's JUST joking. I'm confused. Any advice?

2006-11-19 16:08:46 · 12 answers · asked by Elaina 2 in Singles & Dating

How do I know if the guy I like likes me back? It's so hard to tell with him.

2006-11-19 16:08:42 · 3 answers · asked by samantha 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband is an immigrant who came here 6 months ago. Now he is a sweet man, but sometimes I feel resentful as my role as sole provider. He relies on me for everything! He speaks little English and he won't even go to the supermarket by himself. He doesn't work (but that's not quite his fault...he's waiting for a green card). He never wants to do anything...the only time he wants to go outside is go with me to the store so I buy him beer and cigarrettes. He watches animation ALL DAY! In other words, he makes no effort to adjust here.
We both lived in Korea (his country) and even I was the one who worked and provided the income. My husband has no ambition whatsoever and never really tried looking for a job or finding a passion in life. Whenever he feels down, he just drinks like crazy. Now, I'm not a golddigger looking for a man to provide for me, but am I wrong for feeling resentful of a man who cannot be indepedent? I'm tired of taking care of everything.

2006-11-19 16:08:07 · 30 answers · asked by Ms.Kimchi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

one day i caught the love of my life she is 16 looking at male porn on the computer and it disgusted me i mean what should i do

2006-11-19 16:08:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When you first meet a girl, talk for a bit, it get's all quiet for a couple seconds, then you look make direct eye contact with her, what does this mean?

2006-11-19 16:08:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am meeting girls at parties and i am under peer presure to hook up with them. i really do wanna hook up with them but i dont know how to? please give me a real answe rhow to hook up.
AND DO GIRLS REALLY LIKE IT IF YOU LEAN TO THE LEFT WHEN YOU KISS????
GIRLS CAN YOU ANSWER ME

2006-11-19 16:07:50 · 4 answers · asked by hello 2 in Singles & Dating

My father died recently, and my mom id greiving very hard for him. But in the process when he pass on it took most of income, now she is making my family missreable about christmas because my husband and i can afford to give our children a great christmas, but we can not afford to pay her bills for her. We have offfered for her to come live with us till she gets back on her feet but that doesnt make her happy. What should we do to keep from hurting her and her hurting us?

2006-11-19 16:07:18 · 8 answers · asked by ethan_tonya 1 in Family

do guys like it when girls have long hair?

2006-11-19 16:07:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When we're together, like just watching a movie at his house, he is very affectionate and sweet, like he touches my face gently, and puts his head near mine, and wants to sit close and snuggle together. After we have sex, we lay together in bed just holding each other and talking for a long time. He has broken plans with his friends too because he said he would rather spend time with me. We spend a lot of time kissing instead of just jumping into sex and stuff. And we were watching a movie where one of the characters was proposing marriage, and we started kissing more passionately. Does this mean something? Does it sound like he is falling in love?

2006-11-19 16:06:54 · 9 answers · asked by Sweetgirl 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-19 16:06:22 · 8 answers · asked by Heatmizer 5 in Friends

I've know this guy for the last 10 years we've been close friends for the most of it but fell apart for a few years... he's means alot to me and I just want to know if there is anything more then us just being friends. night after night i think of ways of letting him know but just tense up when i see him.. I just don't want to lose him!

2006-11-19 16:05:31 · 7 answers · asked by ruby s 1 in Singles & Dating

hi y'all, I have friend who recently came out to me that she's a lesbian. anyway, I've noticed that she's been acting really weirdly around me ever since. For example, whenever she sees me around, she'll start to get really nervous, and she doesn't like to sit nearby me anymore. she also seems very tentative whenever i give her hugs, or try to make any physical contact with her I'm concerned that she might have a crush on me. A friend of mine noticed her strange behaivour also, and asked me if she had asked me out- apparently it's quite obvious that she's not herself. I'm not gay, and I'm not attracted to her, but I don't know what I should do to fix this problem. Help!!!!

2006-11-19 16:05:13 · 14 answers · asked by jemm4president 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-19 16:04:45 · 12 answers · asked by lost 1 in Other - Family & Relationships