My bf abused me in june coz he saw me dancing with another guy. He broke up n told me im a cheap gurl along with abuses . then he stopped contacting me. But after a month he started contacting through text mesgs. Again not very pleasant mesgs. but now on 14th he again abused me as he kept asking me through text mesgs if i had gone on a date with another guy. But i kept silent and he again abused me through mesgs tht im a prostitute. He told me he wants to slap me n abuse me I mesgd tht i was with my parents n was very sick n not on date with any guy but he didnt believe me n sent abusive mesgs. When next day 2 mesgs were sent by chance to him by me, He abused me n mesgd tht if another mesg i send...he will break my hands n abused me. Why does he abuse me???I replied tht im very much scared of him n to keep away from me. Now he doesnt even look at me considering me to be a cheap gurl . Its been 6-7 days he stopped contacting me. DO U THINK HE WILL MESG OR CONTACT ME AGAIN ???
2006-11-19 16:14:13 · 7 answers · asked by saikiena 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You really seems to be in deep sh!t.
He would still msg and contact you for as long he is nt happy to see you being happy. Why are you calling him your bf when he mistreat you?
You gotta be strong girl. Don't let any other man to step on you and also to hit on your weaknesses.
2006-11-19 16:18:51 · answer #1 · answered by bonita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweatheart, DO NOT take his threats lightly. He sounds very unstable and needs to be put into check. You do not deserve to be abused, psycologicaly, verbally or physically. Do not put up with this,I would tell the police and get a restraining order on this fool. Guys like this will pray on the innocent and see how far they can get, they don't feel happy with themselves or there lives and are looking for an outlet to take all there anger and frustration out and his outlet is you. GO TO THE POLICE and file for a restraining order, so if he calls you or leaves a message, save the message and contact the police and they can put him in jail for contacting you. This will hopefully scare him away.
2006-11-19 17:31:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I certainly hope not but I also hope that you have shared these abusive messages with your parents. I urge you to report the physical abuse and the threatening messages to the police and take out a restraining order against this person NOW.
2006-11-19 16:20:24 · answer #3 · answered by babydoll 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why take a chance that he will? Call the police and ask them to at least talk to him and tell him to stay away from you. In the meantime be very careful and watch your surroundings when you go anywhere. He sounds dangerous and may very well be.
2006-11-19 16:19:00 · answer #4 · answered by mosaic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAN WHAT THE HELL IS THE DUDES PROBLEM????? GIVE ME HIS PHONE NUMBER AND ADDRESS THE WITH THAT **** MA LOOK, NEVER EVER EVER LET A MTUHAFUCKA PUT HIS HANDS ON YOU!!!!!!!!!CAUSE AS LONG AS HE CAN CONTROL YOU, HE WILL FOREVER DO LOOK, HE A PUNK, CAUSE HE WOULD CHOOSE TO HIT A GURL. PUT HIM FACE TO FACE WITH A ***** THAT AINT SCARED TO GO TO JAIL, THE SITUATION CHANGES...... sorry. i got outta control but seriously girl, get wit, NO MAN deserves to hit you or TLK to you in a manner in which you feel unsafe. honestly, get on his level. the next time he sees you, if he abuses you, have something to put pain in his life...i know it sound wrong but dammit i be damned if a man hit or abuse any of the females in my family . straight up.
2006-11-19 16:22:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should get the police involved, from what you said, this sounds serious.
2006-11-19 16:16:03 · answer #6 · answered by lindsay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PLEASE GET SOME SERIOUS HELP!! I hate these kind of situations. This is nothing to play with. Your life and health is at stake.
2006-11-19 16:21:12 · answer #7 · answered by S4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋