I've know this guy for the last 10 years we've been close friends for the most of it but fell apart for a few years... he's means alot to me and I just want to know if there is anything more then us just being friends. night after night i think of ways of letting him know but just tense up when i see him.. I just don't want to lose him!
2006-11-19 16:05:31 · 7 answers · asked by ruby s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not looking to get married anytime soon but i just want him to be aware of the way i feel about him! and no he is not married!
2006-11-19 16:11:33 · update #1
if ur best frns then there is nuthin like it....when frnship becomes so close that u share everything bet u n him then such feelins r bound to develop.....u cld probably ask him if u both wanna be jst best frns or wanna explore sumthin ahead too since is no other way u can get a potential life partner for urself ...ur partner has to be ur best frn....ask him if he thinks if this is true...u mentioned ur nt lukin to get married..ru afraid of being committed to a single person...if ur best frn is ur husband sumday there can be nuthin like it buddy....its really v tuf to get a genuine life partner these days so dnt waste it off....u can get married say in a couple of yrs if he agrees....it shld nt be u express ur feelins get him to hope sumthin frm u n then u say m nt lukin for marriage...he wld be heart broken...first decide wht ur life long goals r n then step ahead......
2006-11-19 16:38:51 · answer #1 · answered by rajdebrain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a chance you will have to take. Sometimes being friends is better than having a relationship. Try kissing and see what becomes of it. Explain to each other that this is just a test, and if it don't work out, go back to the way it use to be.
2006-11-20 00:08:24 · answer #2 · answered by clubmaster300087 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it might be hard to tell him at 1st... since hes been ur bestfriend for ten yrs he might only think of u as his best friend... but does he show any sign that is interested??? if so give it ago but try not to go to far and if things go wrong jus ask if u can jus remain as best friend
2006-11-20 00:08:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st know whether he is married or not? if he is not....then propose him. But it should be ur way...the way he likes u. be serious of what u r talking. but donot be serious with him. U should convence that u can be the best in the world for him.
All the best.
2006-11-20 00:09:19 · answer #4 · answered by SureshkumarYVS from hyderabad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try hipotetic situation, tell him a story abt someone "you know" and see what he thinks, then try to behave sad and make him ask you, then comment him what troubles you and that you dont want to loose the friendship.. sounds so easy huh?
2006-11-20 00:19:15 · answer #5 · answered by Inna D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him and see what he says, or if you don't want to say anything, flirt a little and see how he responds..
2006-11-20 00:08:08 · answer #6 · answered by Heatmizer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you breack up what then you lost a great friend ship
2006-11-20 00:08:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋