Okay I have heard people say that when you are with someone for so long you fall in and out of love with them is this true? I mean you always love them but being in love do you fall in and out of love?
2006-11-19 16:15:56 · 5 answers · asked by SunShineBabe 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think falling 'out of love' is because people change as they grow older. What you want and what makes you happy when you are 18-20 drastically changes by the time you hit 26-30. A lot of times when you start discovering new things that you like or want to do in life, and your partner does the same, you just start to not feel as close as you once did. Relationships and staying in love take a lot of work. If you don't work on it, you go from being in love, to just loving the person, to feeling like just friends or roomates again, and finally you just might as well be single! You can try to rekindle the relationship, which is just like starting from the begining and re-getting to know the person and who they have become and let them know who you've become and sometimes, you can rekindle and fall back in love. Or you can find out that you don't have anything in common anymore and want different things out of life and split up. It is a whole lot easier to stay in love with someone if you meet later in life... late 20's at least.....because you already know what direction you are moving in life and you have a general idea of who you are and what you want in life. When you are young, you think you know those things, but a lot of the time, those things change.
2006-11-19 16:32:59 · answer #1 · answered by Deanna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Falling out of love is when you stop feeling those butterflies in your stomach and their touch isn't so foreign to you anymore. You've asked all those questions that couples ask each other. Then you just get used to each other. A lot of people take each other for granted after this, and lots of couples don't make it after the fall out. That's why love must endure. Or it will die.
2006-11-20 00:21:39 · answer #2 · answered by CheezyYumYums 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for me i always seem to be falling in out of love with my partner because of all the jealousy and argument we go through when he catches me starin at another guy... But i always look back and think of all the things we've been through together n how hard he tries to make me happy... dnt let a lil argumant get in the way of ur relationship
2006-11-20 00:20:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is true, you'll find that in the beginning you can't get enough of each other. Then at some point that cools then gets hot again.Love is a roller coaster ride. There are times when i get upset with my girl for petty things, then when she cooks, or surprises me with a sexy new out fit I remember why i love her. It really helps if you find a spontaneous person.
2006-11-20 00:24:22 · answer #4 · answered by franklin g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you fall out of love.....then you were never in love to begin with.
If you are in love then you may have times when you are frustrated with your partner but you wil actually still be in love.
Hope this makes it a little more clear for you.
2006-11-20 00:26:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋