Family & Relationships - 19 November 2006

Is it somewhat sexy If a guy doesn't stop hitting on you? I was watching tv and a guy was massaging this girl and she kept on saying no then eventually gave in... I want to do that with women but they are like so not into it.

2006-11-19 16:04:16 · 12 answers · asked by ilovecoronaaa 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok so my disrespective relatives are visiting and usualy i dont bother dealing with them. but tonight my cousin of 12 was singing very loudly with the purpus of annoying my brother of 11. so i walk out ther and hear it and see my brother being very annoyed. so i look at my cousin who has his head phones on with music blasting and he is singing along with it and 3 times i asked him why he was strangaling a cat. he asked what that ment and i responded with "your Fing singing bloody damn sucks so stop Fing singing!" he stoped sing ran to his broth who did nothing knowing i am the oldest and i the one in charge.

was that too harsh?

2006-11-19 16:04:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-19 16:03:21 · 6 answers · asked by Amanda 1 in Singles & Dating

Well, My ex cheated on me when we were trying to work thing out, and she told me that it wasn't emotional, but I found out she was in love with him. Now she's trying to move on from him and I feel as though I meant nothing to her as she didn't need time to move on from me. I'm trying to be her friend but I cant stop getting upset as I still care alot for her. What should I do?

2006-11-19 16:02:42 · 10 answers · asked by Shar 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i caught my bf looking at another woman private area. he noticed it cuz of the way her pants were fitting. ok he then turns back and look at her again. now dont get me wrong i look at guys too. but not in a lustful way, cuz my mind, body, and soul is is suppose to be with him. and if i do see an attractive guy i dont make it disrespectful when i am with my bf in public. ive talked to him before and let him know how it makes me feel when he does this. he acts as if im not with him when he does this. he looked at her as if he liked what he saw. if a womans pants are jacked up in between here legs and he saw it, and kept looking then i know what was going thru his mind. i feel its a way to look without beeing disrespectful. i dont want to hear about men are just that way becuz it still doesnt make it right. my bf shouldnt have lustful thoughts for another woman while im standing right there looking him in the face while he does that. so am i wrong for feeling this way.

2006-11-19 16:01:31 · 19 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

okay if anyone has read any of my previous questions from last week they are all about the same guy....which you have to know a few things that have happened...he acts shy around me at work but we talk (well we talked) every night for like 1 1/2 weeks during which we schedualed a date for this weekend that just passed it was supposed to be saturday...dinner and a movie...we first he called and said this football game was on which i was cool with he said we would go out after which i really didn't have a problem with ....this was at half time....then between the 3rd and 4th quarterhe called and wanted to know if i was mad...no and then he said he would call me when the game was over.....well haven't heard from him since...what the ****????? mind you he told his brother he really liked me and we talked for like 3 hours one night...hello i need help....???!!!>>>>???!!!>>?

2006-11-19 16:01:07 · 11 answers · asked by erica g 1 in Singles & Dating

Well I have friends that are overweight and well they want a boyfriend but are not able to have one well because nowone wants to be they're boyfriend.

2006-11-19 16:00:43 · 16 answers · asked by pkarlinsky 1 in Singles & Dating

How do i approach him with this marriage topic without being too pushy or creating discomfort to his part? He is away working oversea and calls me every night for the last four years till now. He comes back once every year. He is a workaholic who loves me very much and wouldn't let me go even after so long. I do not have much money but i would like to abroad where he is and work and live with him but do not qualify the strict migration requirements in Australia. He said he's not thinking about marriage yet... Help!!!

2006-11-19 15:59:48 · 16 answers · asked by Alisa Grace S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, no offense to the men under 6', but I like taller men. (Men, before you get offended, just think about something you PREFER in a woman...that's how i feel about a man's height.) I'm 5'7", not that tall, but tall enough (especially with shoes on) to see the tops of many mens' heads. So what do I consider tall?...6'4" and up, that's what I like. I don't discriminate, (my ex is 5'9") but my PREFERENCE is tall men...ok actually HUGE men...most of the men I've seriously dated have been 6'7" and 6'8". I actually met a man recently who is 6'8", but he plays pro BBall...I'm not impressed, don't want to deal with the drama. SO...tall men...outside of the NBA or any other league...WHERE ARE YOU???

2006-11-19 15:58:27 · 9 answers · asked by Alishia 2 in Singles & Dating

O.k My husband has two children from a previous marriage and they live in Santa Maria CA. and we live in Charleston SC. He only gets to see his kids in the summer right now but he always pays child support...Well thats really beside the point...We do not know how to handle christmas......I guess in Ca. kids are out of school a good chunk of Dec. His ex wife is wanting us to pay for the YMCA after school care and two weeks of full day care for two kids plus send christmas.....We can not afford that.... I guess I am looking for the best compromise that will not make my husband be the total bad guy. I thought maybe send some gifts but not as much as we could if we did not pay fot the YMCA and then pay for the after school care.... Then his ex wife could buy the kids gifts also if she chooses and the kids can either stay home alone( they are old enough) or she will need to pay for the YMCA. We just paid for the YMCA for Nov.any suggestions and compromise ideas would be appreciated. Thanks

2006-11-19 15:58:24 · 7 answers · asked by bambam0229 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i guess he really doesn't love me

2006-11-19 15:57:51 · 27 answers · asked by chrissy s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I’m not trying to generalize here, but I am just wondering, in general (lol) if Latino guys find white girls attractive.

2006-11-19 15:57:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-19 15:57:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I are budgeting $20,000 for our wedding. Just wondering if this is high, low, or average.

2006-11-19 15:57:12 · 17 answers · asked by andrea12481 2 in Weddings

2006-11-19 15:56:37 · 7 answers · asked by little 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-19 15:56:18 · 2 answers · asked by Greg 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

can it be that he has done something and think I did to. Do you think he has cheated ? Buy the way he moved out a year ago but still comes around. He asked me for a year to see if thinks can be work out (our marrige).Do you think he has something going on with someone else? Should I even think of going back? He is verry abusive with his mouth. He tells me that no one will want to be with me because I have kids and talks about my acne and weight. Allways putting me down. I love him verry mutch I have 4 kids with him the oldest 16 the little one 11. Should I get him back? Has he cheated?

2006-11-19 15:55:49 · 19 answers · asked by gloisl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Like what?
I'm not talking about the polite, friendly smile.

2006-11-19 15:55:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-19 15:55:12 · 7 answers · asked by ethan_tonya 1 in Family

Theres this girl that i'm friends with but we're not too good friends for us to not go out, and i'v kinda been hitting on her. So when she asks me what i want for christmas i was thinking maybe i could say " a kiss" or "you". or something but thats where you help me.

2006-11-19 15:54:51 · 11 answers · asked by Bob Chaves 2 in Singles & Dating

My ex-wife has been dating a man from another state and is possibly getting married soon. We have shared parenting of our 7 year old daughter and are both custodial parents. I have my daughter at least 50% of the time, alternating every 2-3 days depending on my work schedule. My ex and I still communicate for my daughters' sake. I asked her where her new man lives and she said the location was about an hour travel time away from my daughters' school and me. I live 1/2 a mile from the school. I told my ex-wife I didn't want to move our daughter out of her school district. She said if they do end up getting married, she said would commute her to and from her current school. I then said again I don't want her leaving the school district. This would cause more trouble in my daughter's schedule. I live the closest to my daughters' family and friends on both sides of her family than my ex would. What rights do I have as her father? This would cause more travel time for myself also.

2006-11-19 15:54:38 · 8 answers · asked by HITCH 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-19 15:53:55 · 10 answers · asked by mini 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-19 15:53:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My neighbors had to move due to a mold problem in their apartment. They don't have a mattress because it was covered in mold also. Then lost pretty much all of their furniture. The apartment complex gave them room and board in a hotel for 5 days, the complex moved what furniture they could, left their mattresses and couch because it was covered. The complex gave them $400 to replace what they could. Now we all know that is not enough to replace a queen size, a king size bedroom, a couch and love seat. They also can't get the heat turned on yet because they still owe for last year. Was I wrong not to offer my extra room to them? There are no children.

2006-11-19 15:52:41 · 7 answers · asked by dnisey64 3 in Friends

Okay so I ended up sleeping with my ex when I saw him and we are going to go to dinner and out again sometime this week. I still love him, but I dont want things to get awkward because he is also a wonderful friend... IDK what should I do? What are the chances of getting him to try us again?

2006-11-19 15:52:26 · 9 answers · asked by Fussy Duckling 1 in Singles & Dating

every time i go visit for my vacation. she needs 24/7 care and i did do it last year for my vacation so she could spend time with my daughter that she rarely gets to see. this year they were upset with me cuz i couldn't make the trip to visit them so that i could give them all a break from taking care of her. they also want me to put my life on hold and take care of her full time for a pittance. they don't seem to realize that i have a family now (i'm a single parent of 2) and bills to pay. what they are offering to pay me is not enough!! i love my grandmother to death but i just can't do it. am i wrong for feeling this way?should they expect me to use my vacation time taking care of her?

2006-11-19 15:51:52 · 6 answers · asked by living_dead_sandra 3 in Family

His friends are all really into bars and clubs. I'm certainly outgoing, but I don't really like the club scene that much; I just go because my bf wants me there. But when we get together with his friends, he goes to talk to his friends, and I'm kind of left out, and none of his friends come talk to me. I don't want to go the coward route and ask him to hang out with me; I want to branch out. Any suggestions?

2006-11-19 15:51:51 · 5 answers · asked by sachi 1 in Singles & Dating

cuz i asked my man y he loved and he said that he couldnt tell me cuz words can explain somthin like that and that love is not somthin its what it is love is he right ? cuz i kindda understand but ya knnow

2006-11-19 15:51:24 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, so if a person believes strongly about something on a moral level, and they have reason to believe their friend has committed an act which violate their said morals, should they discontinue the friendship as they have a great distance between them and only harm can come from future confrontation.

2006-11-19 15:51:15 · 5 answers · asked by katherinernilson 2 in Friends

I mean the type of person who thinks your hot and thats the reason why they go out with you. And look at other chicks/guys that look better than you? I dont know if this is just me, but i really dont try to get into realtionships with guys who are so shallow. is it really that there are alot of people like that or is it just me? I dont want to be hurt by someone who is such a shallow loser i want a guy who likes me for who I am.

2006-11-19 15:51:03 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating