okay if anyone has read any of my previous questions from last week they are all about the same guy....which you have to know a few things that have happened...he acts shy around me at work but we talk (well we talked) every night for like 1 1/2 weeks during which we schedualed a date for this weekend that just passed it was supposed to be saturday...dinner and a movie...we first he called and said this football game was on which i was cool with he said we would go out after which i really didn't have a problem with ....this was at half time....then between the 3rd and 4th quarterhe called and wanted to know if i was mad...no and then he said he would call me when the game was over.....well haven't heard from him since...what the ****????? mind you he told his brother he really liked me and we talked for like 3 hours one night...hello i need help....???!!!>>>>???!!!>>?
2006-11-19 16:01:07 · 11 answers · asked by erica g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
common i just wanna know whats going on i don't need your criticism and besides he's the one that scheduald the date .
2006-11-19 16:07:02 · update #1
been there done that ...already been married... so to late for my stupid mistake
2006-11-19 16:08:22 · update #2
oh i forgot he hasn't called since....not even to apoligize....i'm kinda worried.....even though i knw i shouldn't be
2006-11-19 16:28:29 · update #3
Hey just move on. Don't worry about it.Hes just scared not all men are assholes. He shouldn't of made a plan if he couldn't back it up.
2006-11-19 16:10:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
better to learn now that he's a butt hole than to marry the creep, have kids and then end up divorced or worse. first off, you shouldn't have to wait for a football game to be over for your first date. those games are scheduled weeks in advance. he knew the game would be on and they take forever to end. if he wanted you, why not schedule the date for a day -without- a football game. him not keeping the date isn't a surprise since a bunch of padded men chasing a ball that doesn't even bounce was more important to you. the three hour talk aside, look at what he did, not the nice conversation. he may like you but he's not in to you enough to stop watching some dumb ball game and keep a date. good riddance!
2006-11-20 00:06:20 · answer #2 · answered by spicey_1_2_know 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay this is weird but something similar just happened to me. This guy was definitely pursuing me and we actually did go out to dinner and had a great time. And he called and made plans with me again, and blew me off. Well once his girlfriend called me I figured out real fast that he wasn't available and he was a huge liar. He had everyone I know fooled.
I really hope this doesn't happen to you. But I wouldn't go out with this guy if I were you. There is no excuse which should have kept him from calling you to cancel. Also everyone knows the football schedules way in advance, even if he forgot the game was on he knew how long it would last. By the way if it was that Michigan VS Ohio State game, the game was over by 7:15
2006-11-20 00:17:01 · answer #3 · answered by jblonde 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This guy is immature and not worth your time. If your date meant less to him than a football game this early in your relationship, imagine what it will be like years down the road after you've given him the best years of your life. Trust me, it won't get any better and you will never be more important to him than he is to himself. Ditch the loser now before you have your heart broken by the thoughtless oaf.
I have been down this road many times before. They make up an excuse and charm you into believing them. Next week, next month or next year you'll face the same problem again. You don't matter to him. Don't take it personally though, the only thing that does matter to guys like that are themselves. They have absolutely no concept of caring for another person and that will never change. It is sad, but true.
2006-11-20 00:17:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find a guy who keeps his promises. If he did this the first time he made plans with you, why do you think he wouldn't act the same in the future?? Believe me, you deserve better than a guy who can't even go through with a promise to you. Some men just really suck
2006-11-20 00:05:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, relax... Boys tend to be that way when it comes to football or anything of their favourite. It would be just the same if you have to watch your all time favorite tv shows. Please do not *****-fit abt it. Go out and have some cool fresh air or smtg. Relax yourself before continuing talking to him again.
He really likes you. BUT that does nt mean he have to sacrifice his football match. Right? You can still go out with him some other nights. Just be frank to him to tell you earlier and cancel the plans rather than stood you up the last min. Have the positive thinking going.
2006-11-20 00:14:55 · answer #6 · answered by bonita 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its your fualt never schedule a date when football is on.. that is your fault.. There was an amazing game between San Diego and Denver on.. so your SOL
2006-11-20 00:03:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes . That is true. Guys are Assholes. And Chics are Bitches.
Get used to it.
2006-11-20 00:04:59 · answer #8 · answered by Foss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, not worth wasting ur time
2006-11-20 00:03:40 · answer #9 · answered by Lewis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, im not completly disagreeing with your title, and i am a guy, but im not completly agreeing with it, but still agree with it more than disagree, but i suggest that you should just forget about him, start talking less, and if he really wants you then he would try talking to you more and apologize a lot
2006-11-20 00:06:48 · answer #10 · answered by a person 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋