Well, My ex cheated on me when we were trying to work thing out, and she told me that it wasn't emotional, but I found out she was in love with him. Now she's trying to move on from him and I feel as though I meant nothing to her as she didn't need time to move on from me. I'm trying to be her friend but I cant stop getting upset as I still care alot for her. What should I do?
2006-11-19 16:02:42 · 10 answers · asked by Shar 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Almost the same situation happend with me. When me and my boyfriend were on a little break he hung out with another gurl. I just let him go because he'll choose what he wants. Just like she'll choose what she really wants i mean if she's trying to get over him to be with you means that she still has feelings for you. but yeah your going to be upset cause you care.. Just let her know how you feel
2006-11-19 16:08:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be retarded. Obviously, your ex is one of the small percentage of women who are psychotic losers. You are doing something inappropriate by wasting time with her when normal girls who would treat you well have no one in their lives. I want you to think about that. Right now, there is some poor girl you passed somewhere in your day to day life who is home alone crying and lonely because you were stupidly wasting your time with your ex. Had you not been doing that, you two might have met and she would no longer be alone. You need to stop doing that. It's wrong.
Cut off all contact with this fruitloop and redirect your efforts where they are supposed to be.
2006-11-19 16:06:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be a friend to yourself first...and quit trying to be one to her. She cheated dude....which means she doesn't respect you She won;t be a very good friend . Find others and quit beating yourself up. She'll use you to "listen" to her ramblings about her feelings for OTHER people and she'll cut you off when you try and tell her how you feel.. Move on
2006-11-19 16:10:07 · answer #3 · answered by Foss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't be friends with an ex. It just doesn't work out. Too many feelings , bad and good, come up.
2006-11-19 16:19:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on - Once a woman has excepted you as her friend, thats what you become. Sorry about that - but that's the way it go.
2006-11-19 16:06:33 · answer #5 · answered by clubmaster300087 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she is already moving on, why can't you? it's clear that she doesn't really love you that much. if you really can't take it, stay away from her for a while. cool yourself for a moment. it's normal for you to feel that way. but past is past. and there is no future for you if you always want to look back to the past.
2006-11-19 16:09:51 · answer #6 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF SHE YOUR EX, THEN THERE IS NOTHING YOU CAN DO.
IF YOU WANT TO MAINTAIN SOME KIND OF FRIENDSHIP
THAT FIND BUT IF SHE SEEING OTHER PEOPLE THERE
NOTHING YOU CAN DO BUT MOVE ON. AND START
DATING YOUR SELF THEN YOU WONT BE SO UPSET
ABOUT HER DATING SOMEONE ELSE.
2006-11-19 16:07:13 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she cheated on you then she is not good enough to be your friend anyways
2006-11-19 16:05:24 · answer #8 · answered by imboard2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
distance yourself before you turn into a stalker...
2006-11-19 16:05:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what CAN you do? sorry man
2006-11-19 16:04:56 · answer #10 · answered by luverly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋