ok so my disrespective relatives are visiting and usualy i dont bother dealing with them. but tonight my cousin of 12 was singing very loudly with the purpus of annoying my brother of 11. so i walk out ther and hear it and see my brother being very annoyed. so i look at my cousin who has his head phones on with music blasting and he is singing along with it and 3 times i asked him why he was strangaling a cat. he asked what that ment and i responded with "your Fing singing bloody damn sucks so stop Fing singing!" he stoped sing ran to his broth who did nothing knowing i am the oldest and i the one in charge.
was that too harsh?
2006-11-19 16:04:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
damn it i ment to put this in family not friends
2006-11-19 16:08:18 · update #1
Yeah, that was a little harsh. Instead of asking him why he was strangling a cat not once, but three times, why didn't you just ask him to lower his voice? Maybe he did not actually realize he was singing so loud. If you are the oldest and in charge, you should have known better than to say what you did. Sorry to come down on you, but it sounds as if you might have a little bit of disrespect yourself.
2006-11-19 16:25:41 · answer #1 · answered by rosey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say that was a little harsh, but if he was being annoying intentionally and wouldn't listen to respectful, polite requests to stop or tone it down, I guess that isn't a lot of choice left there.
Weren't there any parents to referee? I think I would let your parents know about your cousin just so they could be aware of potential conflicts in store. It sounds like he is pretty undisciplined so I doubt there is much that anyone can do/say other than to make it crystal clear that his behavior is unacceptable in your home and not to be tolerated. Your parents are the ones that should make that clear. His parents, as guests in your home, should not interfere to make exceptions to the "house rules".
Hopefully they will all be gone soon.
2006-11-19 16:10:55 · answer #2 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-29 07:21:01 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could have started by telling him that his singing was to loud and asked him to quite down some, then if he was still a problem, then have asked him to stop or to go outside so he would not be bothering other people by his singing. take care
2006-11-19 16:11:27 · answer #4 · answered by truckinglove22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think if you have left out the F-bombs it would have been better. The so called mature way would have been to ask him to go to a different room.
2006-11-19 16:12:25 · answer #5 · answered by dnisey64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good on for you it takes a noise to stop a noise and I agree about the singing, some people just shouldn't
2006-11-19 16:22:55 · answer #6 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you have to keep in mind he is 12 years old kids will be kids so maybe next time you will take his age into consideration
2006-11-19 16:11:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋