THis guy i met in class hung out with me the other day because i asked him to come with me to my friends party. He didnt know anyone except me so he asked two other friends to come. We had a good time before the party, walking around waiting, for 2 hours. We went to the pet store, the park, a toy shop. During those times he did all these things to try to keep me entertained because i didnt know his friends, tried to make me laugh, have something to talk about.
I know he's nice and i know that he has a lot of friends that are girls.
i dont know if his nice behavior to me is just because he's nice, is trying to be nice to me, sees me as a friend or something more? I leave him comments. called him once so far he hasnt been doing anything to show that he wants to get to know me more except talk to me in class a lot. Should i wait and see if he's going to invite me to hang out with him some more? what if he doesnt?
before he left me he also said.. "call me if you need me"
2006-11-19 16:20:06 · 16 answers · asked by sam3345 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's a nice person who may or may not be attracted to you. Tell him how you feel and ask if there is a possibility that the two of you could be more than just friends. What have you got to lose?
2006-11-19 16:24:23 · answer #1 · answered by babydoll 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Gosh, it's hard to tell. Sounds like if nothing else he's a good guy and wants to be your friend. You invited him the first time so it couldn't hurt to invite him again. Why not ask him if he wants to go to a movie, out for a pizza (or whatever) or to a ballgame sometime? Just keep the lines of communication open.
2006-11-20 00:29:28 · answer #2 · answered by Just Me 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give him time. It certainly seems like he wants to get to know you as a friend at the very least. If he's interested in you romantically, he might try to get to know you first to see if you two are compatible---or maybe he's just trying to get the nerve to ask you out. Whatever it is, give it a little while and enjoy getting to know him but don't try to push him into asking you out just yet.
2006-11-20 00:29:42 · answer #3 · answered by Pippa 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're showing alot of attention towards him that's not being returned back, so if you are still not clear of if he likes you or not, you can like not care about the situation or anything and see how he'll respond, if he calls you, he likes you, if he doesn't then he just wants to be friends.
2006-11-20 00:28:26 · answer #4 · answered by mikee3022 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just play along and dont appear too needy. Keep an active friend circle, and do go out with him from time to time. Believe me there is nothing more attractive than confidence.
2006-11-20 00:24:21 · answer #5 · answered by Rain 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like he might be a good friend...it also sounds like hes is just nice to all the girls..give him a call that way You will know if it might lead to more...You will know
2006-11-20 00:26:55 · answer #6 · answered by missamerican_pie007 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds to me like he wants to just be friends with you. If that isnt enough you should try meeting more guys. He has other female friends, to turn to as well.
2006-11-20 00:24:10 · answer #7 · answered by f1antasyman 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think he just thinks your a cool/nice person and wants to associate with you. Friends or more can be fine...just wants you as part of his life. BTW, are you hot, it sounds shallow but matters.
2006-11-20 00:23:37 · answer #8 · answered by pullinstuntssmokingblunts 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
either he just wants you guessing, just wants to be friends, or he didn't make up his mind yet about you. my advice tell him that you want to see him more often and you had a great time with him the last time. get closer to him and know him ....that is if you want him to like you .
good luck
2006-11-20 00:45:48 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honestly, he is the Mr. Nice Guy.
He admires you but no more than being a friend.
If you really likes him, work on it.
2006-11-20 00:23:33 · answer #10 · answered by bonita 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋